Toshu, Kinjal and Parenting - Page 3

Originally posted by: piyu008

Yes!! I am happy that she is talking back even if it is just little. I think part of the reason is her respect for Anu, and her teachings of respecting elders no matter the reason. But I do believe, Kinjal will get fed up at a point. She is clearly not used to unfair treatments and Baa doesn't look like she is going to stop. And no one in the house has the guts to stop her anyway. So I think it will be interesting to watch -- how Kinjal will handle it.

Yes, I agree, maybe at this point of time, since she is new to the environment and house, she is trying to be as accommodative since she considers this as her family and she wants to be considered part of it too. But not just the constant taunts she has to endure from Baa along with Anu, but Kinjal is definitely going to get tired of the entitlement and difference in the way they behave between Toshu and her too. She would not like to be the wife of a guy completely dependant on others to support him and his wife. She would want him to stand on his own feet, something the elders have not done, and Toshu will continue to look for excuses - "I'm still studying." "Mera MBA toh khatam hone do" "Mere paas experience nahi hai acche job ke liye" etc. etc. to stay comfortably! There are some fireworks that are gonna burst before this relationship can truly become one of a husband/wife.

Sorry to wake everyone up from their sleep here, but think about this before you call Samar n exception.

He was weak in studies, dropped out of school and wanted an unconventional career. This was why Vanraj often rebuked him and Paritosh and Pakhi made fun of him and called Samar and Anupamaa as losers.

Him being ignored and meted out caused him to share his feelings with Anupamaa and Hasmukh only and hence he loves her.

Think!! If Samar had been intellectual and an achiever in school and had been loved by Vanraj all his life, would he not have been blinded to Anupamaa's woes like everybody else??

If not any other mistake, this is definitely Anupamaa's fault that she has let almost everyone run over her. She beat up Paritosh (not something I recommend though) when he insulted Vanraj and Leela when drunk.

She never cared to discipline him when he misbehaved with her.

If anyone has watched the Bengali version, Samar's character there is a little more realistic and practical. He cares for Sreemoyee but not in the weird extreme level of Samar in Hindi version. He has been detached from the entire family due to repeated insults by Vanraj's character and being made fun of by his siblings and concentrates on his music only. He grows closer to Sreemoyee (Anupamaa) in the duration of the show and becomes her strong support after everyone abandons her to support Vanraj's second marriage. Check out his behaviour in the video below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzZAI2AVI00

Literal translation: Sreemoyee is hastily trying to feed everyone while taking up demands for everyone's breakfast preferences. Patralekha (Leela) taunts her that she is wearing something fancy today which delayed her breakfast preparation.

Pratyush (Samar) is the last one to be asked for breakfast from her but she still does, where he casually replies that she can get to him later after she has sorted all the hullaballoo from the ever demanding family. Before leaving he realizes that it's her birthday today after noticing some documents and she casually agrees like its not a big deal.

Promo ends with voiceover. Is Sreemoyee okay in the perfect world built by her?

Conclusively he does care for her but is not a super over-the-top mom-lover like Samar has been shown here, but he grows to care for her more realizing how awfully she has been treated after things escalate, which seems more realistic to me.

What do u think

Does rakhi really want to give MD position to parithosh and does she really want parithosh and kinjal go to Honeymoon that too in norway

Reality is that rakhi neither want toshu to become md and neither she want parithosh and kinjal go to Honeymoon

It is her trick so that toshu and kinjal mein ladaai ho jaayega aur dono ek dusre se shaadi karne ko mana kardein

Anupama and samar is undertanding this. Even if anupama and samar make try to undertand toshu or Even if anupama scold toshu . Will toshu ready to listen what her mother says. Certainly not. Jahaan toshu ki man ko baat nahi hui to toshu to ghar se bhaag jaayenge like he as usual does and probaly stay at rakhi house