BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 Discussion- Week 7 - Thread 3 - Page 67

Originally posted by: Qadberry

Neenga thaan Azeem mela over expectation vechi irukkanga from the start, ungalala naangalum romba expect panton, avar mattum 3 weeks la poitar na full disappointment thaan!

Achacho I been only updating that he is entering and hoping that he will bring some changes....only read few things about him recent time since the news came that he is a WC...expecting that at least there may be some things happening between Bala and Shivani....the least it may bring some colors of Shivani due to his entry.

Originally posted by: Udhay

Honey I despise people like Bala who lie about their own family for the sake of game. I personally know about Som and Aari only before BB. Others I know as Celebs and not as real person. But after his first speech I felt bad for Balaji and his family issues, parents not caring for him etc. Then his second speech which went in unseen was contradictory and I realised that he is completely fake person.

He liked Aajeedh way of respecting elders and not fighting with him aam. Does he ever do that? Whatever friendship it was the way he shouted disrespectfully at Suchi is very unfair in my opinion. I hate people who speak rudely and be disrespectful to others.

My problem with him it’s the way he is so disrespectful and arrogant...Like you I can’t like ppl who treat others like dirt...also I don’t believe his story....not due to what he said inside but many evidence that came from outside....also his most close friends did not know about his parents which i find very strange.....there may be some truth but added lot of masala to it....he is not the only one...many did also add masala for sympathy...the only thing is his was easy to point out and it was about parents...however in terms of BB I rate him better than Archana, Rio, Nisha and Ramesh as he doesn’t have two face which I appreciate more that this fake gang....I dislike him but he is not fake like some who acts they are all about love, which is worse.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Udhay , sure absolutely understand that you don’t like him from your point of view.

I want to understand what contradicting information he gave about his family . Not for supporting him or fight for him . Just want to understand if I missed anything .

From my understanding, during first time he said his father was addicted to drinking and used to hit him when drunk. His mom was working abroad then she moved to India. She also started drinking along with his dad. Most of the times he used to go to school without lunch. Why parents give birth if they are not able to take care of their kids properly. He didn’t say anything bad about his mom there specifically other than this.

In the second incident when he talked about who he is missing the most, he wrote a letter to his mom and said he never said anything good to her when she was alive. wasn’t able to convey his caring as he spent most of the time being mad with her when she was alive . he regretted that now . Then talked about him winning mr.India contest and going home. His mom was innocent and naive enough to not understand what he really achieved.

That is exactly what I remember , I haven’t added anything extra or missed anything according to my memory.

Now , I want to understand what is contradicting in this. Just because he said his mom drank and didn’t send lunch to school doesn’t mean she is not innocent . She may be a good person but got badly influenced by alcohol. After all , she is his mom. He would love her despite anything . They might have had bad incidents but that doesn’t mean they had good memories and affection for each other. At times, he mentioned he was longing for affection and didn’t know how to react when he got it . Even Archana mentioned it during their mother-son scene.

One thing I accept is , whatever happened he shouldn’t have made it public. It will be like degrading your parents in front of others. But if we see it other way , He had a terrible past , he shared it with others so people who watch it should take care of their kids and take responsibility.

Saying all these , We can all assume and find different interpretations of what he said but he will only know what really happened.

Alcholism is a such a big problem but we never hear the ugliness from the affected children as much, so in a way bala saying it, did provide a light.

Even rio alludes to how his dad was similar.

Originally posted by: User012

I was the one who brought up the point about Bala telling about being saved first , I just felt he believed he is the topper in the whole house since he was always saved first , but was disappointed when he wasn’t saved , it’s just my opinion about him because of his over confidence . I however like him since he plays his own game and loyal to his friends always . :) about bashing Bala , I feel Aari is bashed more here in IF more than Bala , just because he talks more . He is getting more negative feedback like whatever he talks becomes a problem . Example, today in Aajeeth’s captaincy his point was a very valid point and not at all a negative point for Aajeedh , if you are a leader be a leader , I felt it was a genuine feedback . And the Explanation Aajeedh told about BB being a house and rules can be broken was , I felt it was too much . If you people are going to have a comfortable life breaking the rules and sleeping , we audience are not fools to see your celebration alone . He Knows to only shout at soft targets like Sanam.Anyways he is young and not a BB material and I don’t blame him . Anyway Kh gave a very good reply which I liked.

Advising to Aajeedh is not a problem. Aari can advise as much as he want. In Aari's captaincy too, he too hesitant in some matter as pointed by Anita as he wants to maintain peace with everything. When someone points Aari's mistakes, he points others mistake in order to look good. Aajeedh took everyone advice and told Kamal that he will keep in mind and correct it next time. I see more maturity for his age. Aari needs to first follow his advice and then give it to others. Aajeedh always indicates this point while nominating Aari. I just found Aari behavior very hypocritical. Rules breaking is wrong and Kamal pointed it rightly. He shouted at strong players such as Suresh and Rekha at the beginning and asked them sorry immediately.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

NP, I read similar comment earlier too and when I saw the episode it looked different . Yes, he is over confident, arrogant , rude but he has some good side as well.
Actually Aajeedh shouted at Rekha, Suresh too in the beginning . I didn’t like it at all, such a young boy shouting at elders. He immediately asked sorry to both of them though. I liked KH’s reply too 👍🏼

Oh okay . 👍🏽 . I missed first 2 weeks , so I didn’t know about that .

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Renu, you are from US too 🤗 . Thava Bro (lankan121) and me are from US as well. I used to be the only one posting long posts when most of our forum mates sleep , now I got company 👍🏼 .

yes Honey , I follow both of your posts,(almost everyone’s) sure would give a company , opinions might differ though ;) and I like here because if the healthy arguments happening inspite difference of opinions :)

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

Advising to Aajeedh is not a problem. Aari can advise as much as he want. In Aari's captaincy too, he too hesitant in some matter as pointed by Anita as he wants to maintain peace with everything. When someone points Aari's mistakes, he points others mistake in order to look good. Aajeedh took everyone advice and told Kamal that he will keep in mind and correct it next time. I see more maturity for his age. Aari needs to first follow his advice and then give it to others. Aajeedh always indicates this point while nominating Aari. I just found Aari behavior very hypocritical. Rules breaking is wrong and Kamal pointed it rightly. He shouted at strong players such as Suresh and Rekha at the beginning and asked them sorry immediately.

I had felt Aari mostly followed the rules , even Suresh had told in one of the interviews that people leave the unwashed cups and plates and even beauty products in the rest room and Aari was the one who always cleaned and kept things in place . His lengthy advice might be boring , but I felt he is a good person and also Anitha simply blows for nothing . Yes he tries to justify and tries to defend , but he took all the advices from KH , and now he even stopped talking . It was totally unfair the way he was treated . He did voice out his opinion during captaincy , he just ignored Suchi’s because he would have realized she was not in proper mindset and he did not want to go with her complaints . For me he seems to be a good person and about Aajeedh , he doesn’t belong to young category as well as adult category , the only reason he is surviving there is because people still treat him as a kid , which he doesn’t like . Other than talking to Samyuktha and Ramya I don’t see him anywhere . I don’t see any maturity , even in Pongal serving matter he was just believing Archana and spoke like Periya Ivan . I don’t find Aari rude just because he talks loud neither Aajeedh soft just because he talks in softer tone . Aajeedh doesn’t talk back the only reason is he doesn’t know what to talk . He is another puppet surviving only because people inside wants to give him a chance ,

Originally posted by: User012

yes Honey , I follow both of your posts,(almost everyone’s) sure would give a company , opinions might differ though ;) and I like here because if the healthy arguments happening inspite difference of opinions :)

Of course , everyone will have different opinion 👍🏼. We used to have heated arguments in the past seasons. This season it hasnt happened so far . We all have different favourites but one thing we have in common is mutual respect for each other. That is the reason I keep coming here every season.

Originally posted by: User012

I had felt Aari mostly followed the rules , even Suresh had told in one of the interviews that people leave the unwashed cups and plates and even beauty products in the rest room and Aari was the one who always cleaned and kept things in place . His lengthy advice might be boring , but I felt he is a good person and also Anitha simply blows for nothing . Yes he tries to justify and tries to defend , but he took all the advices from KH , and now he even stopped talking . It was totally unfair the way he was treated . He did voice out his opinion during captaincy , he just ignored Suchi’s because he would have realized she was not in proper mindset and he did not want to go with her complaints . For me he seems to be a good person and about Aajeedh , he doesn’t belong to young category as well as adult category , the only reason he is surviving there is because people still treat him as a kid , which he doesn’t like . Other than talking to Samyuktha and Ramya I don’t see him anywhere . I don’t see any maturity , even in Pongal serving matter he was just believing Archana and spoke like Periya Ivan . I don’t find Aari rude just because he talks loud neither Aajeedh soft just because he talks in softer tone . Aajeedh doesn’t talk back the only reason is he doesn’t know what to talk . He is another puppet surviving only because people inside wants to give him a chance ,

In pongal matter, Archana gave him wrong info about Aari's quote. He reacted on Archana quote. Anita is not blowing things. In kitchen team, only Aari and Sanam working, I never seen him asking Rio and Anita to contribute to kitchen work. The whole forum discussed about it. Aajeedh is an introvert not a puppet. If he puppet to you, its fine! Ppl have different perspective. Aari is fake, hypocrite, bully who appears to be good gentleman.

Originally posted by: User012

I had felt Aari mostly followed the rules , even Suresh had told in one of the interviews that people leave the unwashed cups and plates and even beauty products in the rest room and Aari was the one who always cleaned and kept things in place . His lengthy advice might be boring , but I felt he is a good person and also Anitha simply blows for nothing . Yes he tries to justify and tries to defend , but he took all the advices from KH , and now he even stopped talking . It was totally unfair the way he was treated . He did voice out his opinion during captaincy , he just ignored Suchi’s because he would have realized she was not in proper mindset and he did not want to go with her complaints . For me he seems to be a good person and about Aajeedh , he doesn’t belong to young category as well as adult category , the only reason he is surviving there is because people still treat him as a kid , which he doesn’t like . Other than talking to Samyuktha and Ramya I don’t see him anywhere . I don’t see any maturity , even in Pongal serving matter he was just believing Archana and spoke like Periya Ivan . I don’t find Aari rude just because he talks loud neither Aajeedh soft just because he talks in softer tone . Aajeedh doesn’t talk back the only reason is he doesn’t know what to talk . He is another puppet surviving only because people inside wants to give him a chance ,

Just last week when KH asked about not maintaining single plant given to him, Aari spoke about his activity outside the house. Hypocrite. Admitting he didnt take care of the plant wouldnt have hurt him.