BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 Discussion- Week 7 - Thread 3 - Page 66

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

I read about some of you here thought Bala felt bad for not getting saved first . Actually he didn’t say it like that . He said normally Saturday (first episode) la I get saved, this time didn’t happen . Nadakaradhu nadakum. He was saying it in the sense that he might even get eliminated. Suchi said don’t think like that . That’s why he got so excited when he got saved finally , jumping over the couch .

Bala is bad at times I accept it but people try to look at him with green colored glasses all the time assuming he is bad .

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Every word of bala is judged whereas others speaking more than him is given free pass.

Thanks for the update guys . Best of luck Suchi .

From what suchi said looks like lot of bullying going inside . Editors don’t want to show to avoid sympathy votes or to protect their favorites . Hopefully someone other than Anitha or Sanam get evicted next week .

Originally posted by: Udhay

Honey I despise people like Bala who lie about their own family for the sake of game. I personally know about Som and Aari only before BB. Others I know as Celebs and not as real person. But after his first speech I felt bad for Balaji and his family issues, parents not caring for him etc. Then his second speech which went in unseen was contradictory and I realised that he is completely fake person.

He liked Aajeedh way of respecting elders and not fighting with him aam. Does he ever do that? Whatever friendship it was the way he shouted disrespectfully at Suchi is very unfair in my opinion. I hate people who speak rudely and be disrespectful to others.

Udhay , sure absolutely understand that you don’t like him from your point of view.

I want to understand what contradicting information he gave about his family . Not for supporting him or fight for him . Just want to understand if I missed anything .

From my understanding, during first time he said his father was addicted to drinking and used to hit him when drunk. His mom was working abroad then she moved to India. She also started drinking along with his dad. Most of the times he used to go to school without lunch. Why parents give birth if they are not able to take care of their kids properly. He didn’t say anything bad about his mom there specifically other than this.

In the second incident when he talked about who he is missing the most, he wrote a letter to his mom and said he never said anything good to her when she was alive. wasn’t able to convey his caring as he spent most of the time being mad with her when she was alive . he regretted that now . Then talked about him winning mr.India contest and going home. His mom was innocent and naive enough to not understand what he really achieved.

That is exactly what I remember , I haven’t added anything extra or missed anything according to my memory.

Now , I want to understand what is contradicting in this. Just because he said his mom drank and didn’t send lunch to school doesn’t mean she is not innocent . She may be a good person but got badly influenced by alcohol. After all , she is his mom. He would love her despite anything . They might have had bad incidents but that doesn’t mean they had good memories and affection for each other. At times, he mentioned he was longing for affection and didn’t know how to react when he got it . Even Archana mentioned it during their mother-son scene.

One thing I accept is , whatever happened he shouldn’t have made it public. It will be like degrading your parents in front of others. But if we see it other way , He had a terrible past , he shared it with others so people who watch it should take care of their kids and take responsibility.

Saying all these , We can all assume and find different interpretations of what he said but he will only know what really happened.

Originally posted by: ShanC

Tomorrow our guys may wish to quote something from today...so leave this thread open untill tomorrow evening..

Better will create a new one before episode start... So we can start fresh on Monday episode

Ok 👍🏼

Ok bro

Originally posted by: EmeraldStar

+1

Every word of bala is judged whereas others speaking more than him is given free pass.

Yes, last season same thing happened with Kavin. I didn’t like him at all but people were finding fault with everything he did. Ninna thappu, nadhanda thappu, muchu vitta thappu mathiri. It was suffocating at one point . That is when I started supporting him unconditionally. Now when I think about it , I can only laugh. For a min , I even forgot his name to type now and had to think for a second 😆 .
Same thing happening with Bala now. I don’t like him, but starting to support him just for the hatred he receives. If the hatred is justified and for the right reasons it is fine but not when people assume hidden meanings for whatever he says and does.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

I read about some of you here thought Bala felt bad for not getting saved first . Actually he didn’t say it like that . He said normally Saturday (first episode) la I get saved, this time didn’t happen . Nadakaradhu nadakum. He was saying it in the sense that he might even get eliminated. Suchi said don’t think like that . That’s why he got so excited when he got saved finally , jumping over the couch .

Bala is bad at times I accept it but people try to look at him with green colored glasses all the time assuming he is bad .

Well the way he said it looked like he felt bad nu only, like how Balaji feels Aari did Warning when Aari himself said he didn't each and everytime Balaji used that word.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Yes, last season same thing happened with Kavin. I didn’t like him at all but people were finding fault with everything he did. Ninna thappu, nadhanda thappu, muchu vitta thappu mathiri. It was suffocating at one point . That is when I started supporting him unconditionally. Now when I think about it , I can only laugh. For a min , I even forgot his name to type now and had to think for a second 😆 .
Same thing happening with Bala now. I don’t like him, but starting to support him just for the hatred he receives. If the hatred is justified and for the right reasons it is fine but not when people assume hidden meanings for whatever he says and does.

I was the one who brought up the point about Bala telling about being saved first , I just felt he believed he is the topper in the whole house since he was always saved first , but was disappointed when he wasn’t saved , it’s just my opinion about him because of his over confidence . I however like him since he plays his own game and loyal to his friends always . :) about bashing Bala , I feel Aari is bashed more here in IF more than Bala , just because he talks more . He is getting more negative feedback like whatever he talks becomes a problem . Example, today in Aajeeth’s captaincy his point was a very valid point and not at all a negative point for Aajeedh , if you are a leader be a leader , I felt it was a genuine feedback . And the Explanation Aajeedh told about BB being a house and rules can be broken was , I felt it was too much . If you people are going to have a comfortable life breaking the rules and sleeping , we audience are not fools to see your celebration alone . He Knows to only shout at soft targets like Sanam.Anyways he is young and not a BB material and I don’t blame him . Anyway Kh gave a very good reply which I liked.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Yes, last season same thing happened with Kavin. I didn’t like him at all but people were finding fault with everything he did. Ninna thappu, nadhanda thappu, muchu vitta thappu mathiri. It was suffocating at one point . That is when I started supporting him unconditionally. Now when I think about it , I can only laugh. For a min , I even forgot his name to type now and had to think for a second 😆 .
Same thing happening with Bala now. I don’t like him, but starting to support him just for the hatred he receives. If the hatred is justified and for the right reasons it is fine but not when people assume hidden meanings for whatever he says and does.

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@bold: this is actually happening. Sday he justified ajeedh captaincy but ppl assuming he is defaming others..

Bala is not in my list. Stil I find him not that bad compared to others. He should control his lauguage n present his thought clearly else he ll b misjudged.

Originally posted by: User012

I was the one who brought up the point about Bala telling about being saved first , I just felt he believed he is the topper in the whole house since he was always saved first , but was disappointed when he wasn’t saved , it’s just my opinion about him because of his over confidence . I however like him since he plays his own game and loyal to his friends always . :) about bashing Bala , I feel Aari is bashed more here in IF more than Bala , just because he talks more . He is getting more negative feedback like whatever he talks becomes a problem . Example, today in Aajeeth’s captaincy his point was a very valid point and not at all a negative point for Aajeedh , if you are a leader be a leader , I felt it was a genuine feedback . And the Explanation Aajeedh told about BB being a house and rules can be broken was , I felt it was too much . If you people are going to have a comfortable life breaking the rules and sleeping , we audience are not fools to see your celebration alone . He Knows to only shout at soft targets like Sanam.Anyways he is young and not a BB material and I don’t blame him . Anyway Kh gave a very good reply which I liked.

NP, I read similar comment earlier too and when I saw the episode it looked different . Yes, he is over confident, arrogant , rude but he has some good side as well.
Actually Aajeedh shouted at Rekha, Suresh too in the beginning . I didn’t like it at all, such a young boy shouting at elders. He immediately asked sorry to both of them though. I liked KH’s reply too 👍🏼

Renu, you are from US too 🤗 . Thava Bro (lankan121) and me are from US as well. I used to be the only one posting long posts when most of our forum mates sleep , now I got company 👍🏼 .