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Living in hostels pgs was best decision my parents took for me. It makes u independent.

Ot op- be clear about ur expectations to your partner and then go ahead. Everything can be balanced out

Originally posted by: Romanoger

Brave of your dad to say this. If my mum would have be there then he have to cook for whole family for a month

I understand what are you saying my maternal uncle is like your dad (spoiled by 3 elder sisters). It's all about upbringing. My grandparents had two boys and they both know(and do)every household chores and they are brought up in village and on the other hand my uncle is only son with 3 sisters brought up in town by educated parents 🤷

Thanks for replying 🤗

I was so much engrossed in Thappad and wrote all those. I am feeling guilty ..it was somewhat true but ..

I don't know, sometimes my father too does chores like sweeping sometimes, he plants vegetables in gardens, he used to do all cooking when my mom was not home for some days and I had exams, he even packed my tiffin.

Reading about above one person's experience, when she said she doesn't cook and her husband does all cooking, it's same right in our too. Since their marriage, it is established that mom does everything..

My mom scolds my father too sometimes and he too scolds her. May be I overthought. But, that particular moment, he should not have said that, that time I felt so mad, like it pricked me but mom just after that started laughing and teasing and talking normally..

I just don't know, I am actually confused.

I just gathered these by reading everyone's thoughts: Since marriage only, the rules must be made, who does what, or if both equally take part in everything. Yes, understanding should be there. Caring should be there, when one is not well, helping them. Sensing each other's mood, expressing more. Every house is different. Every couple are different. 😔

Originally posted by: Cheesedumplings

I am feeling now that there are many like me ..who has these scary thoughts about relationship..

Yes, so grateful so many people replied, shared valuable thoughts, advises, experiences..

Take care 🤗 Hope everything works good for you. Hope all these fears would only remain as fears.

Aww you also take care dear.Yes its hard to keep away Negative thoughts and fears but we must always remember there a bright day after every dark night 🤗

Originally posted by: Aanandaa

All men are entitled brats for sure. Yes, including my dad, brother, cousin brother,son, grandson and parpota.

They will never accept how privileged they are. I just hate it when guys try to play the victim that things are changing. Dude, you are the not the one who does a thankless job for years. You are not the one needing protection of a "man" in the society. You can wear whatever you like without being judged for your character.