Member Topic: How many of you had an arranged marriage? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

So these kinds of frauds are pretty common then..what was the ethnicity of the couple?

Asian and yeah very common. Even in non-Asian community.

Originally posted by: colossial2015

Thank you. 🤗

This is something I would not wish on my worst enemies.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I had arranged marriage with a girl I never met from a far away place. An we decided and got married in span of ten days

It was wild 😆

Yeah idk about others but you definitely shocked the shite out of me. LOL. You were the last person I expected would get married like that

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

What were the red flags?.. don't disclose private information but tell some pointers..might help others

Red flags

1. He would never look at me in my eyes while speaking. He used to be very romantic earlier on calls before wedding was fixed.

2. He preferred sleeping on the day when our wedding was getting fixed.

3. His mother and sisters were extremely pushy and clingy.

4. His entire family wanted me to seduce him.

5. He knew about gay circle very well and people called him gay.

6. He always used get angry whenever I tried to talk to him.

7. His family had death and hospitalizations in the same year. In hindus we wait for year before any wedding and festival celebration after someone dies. But his family wanted immediate wedding.

6. His entire family wanted to spy on me through social media.

7. Most important clue was his weekend activities. He used to leave with all his newly married friends to weekend gateways. No one invited their spouses. There he used to meet his partner a distant cousin. His so called friend's wives gave me a slight clue about this. I am an ex- hotelier and I do have connections everywhere so I could snoop around.

8. When my parents questioned him once, all his lies fell out and everything got over. My parents ended everything that day

After our breakup, he immediately married another girl who is suffering with him.

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

A friend of mine, who was nice girl..does a bit of loud makeup was asked by her acquaintance for such a marriage..he was like I will give you enough to splurge..you can enjoy with others etc etc..she said no obviously..

The guy was mercifully upfront..else it would have been a horrible marriage

Sad that one has to keep one's sexual orientation under wraps nowadays...but I feel marriage fraud is a serious crime..something that was to happen to you is criminal, regardless of the guy's situation...the ethics of a marriage of convenience however is not for me to judge

She is lucky she got saved from him.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I had arranged marriage with a girl I never met from a far away place. An we decided and got married in span of ten days

It was wild 😆

So your marriage was wild.

So how is Mrs. Maroon in person?

Originally posted by: K.Ahm

OMG that’s terrible but glad you were saved.

My colleagues relative got married to this guy who was gay. They must have spent like over £50,000 for the daughters wedding and on wedding night the guy confessed.

The girl left him immediately and without wasting any time told both families the truth. The girls family sued the boys family.

Good such things should be done.

Originally posted by: TeluguChokri

I happy you were rescued of it.No one deserves such pain🤗

Agree. 🤗

Originally posted by: colossial2015

Red flags

1. He would never look at me in my eyes while speaking. He used to be very romantic earlier on calls before wedding was fixed.

2. He preferred sleeping on the day when our wedding was getting fixed.

3. His mother and sisters were extremely pushy and clingy.

4. His entire family wanted me to seduce him.

5. He knew about gay circle very well and people called him gay.

6. He always used get angry whenever I tried to talk to him.

7. His family had death and hospitalizations in the same year. In hindus we wait for year before any wedding and festival celebration after someone dies. But his family wanted immediate wedding.

6. His entire family wanted to spy on me through social media.

7. Most important clue was his weekend activities. He used to leave with all his newly married friends to weekend gateways. No one invited their spouses. There he used to meet his partner a distant cousin. His so called friend's wives gave me a slight clue about this. I am an ex- hotelier and I do have connections everywhere so I could snoop around.

8. When my parents questioned him once, all his lies fell out and everything got over. My parents ended everything that day

After our breakup, he immediately married another girl who is suffering with him.

Poor girl..wish she walks out on him..nothing against gays but fooling a heterosexual girl into marrying them is heartless behavior..should be punished

Originally posted by: SugaAgustD

I am the unfortunate one. I can never gain courage to get married because of my past trauma.

What happened?

Do not disclose any personal information.