Member Topic: How many of you had an arranged marriage? - Page 2

I am not in favour of arranged marriage as people could make a show and then show their true colors after the marriage but the risk in love marriage is really high too

Originally posted by: colossial2015

I nearly got married to a closeted gay few years. I had shed more tears with him than during my depressive phase. My parents broke of that alliance due to his gay weekends. He and his gay buddies have beard weddings. Their wives are even weirder.

My life got saved.

A friend of mine, who was nice girl..does a bit of loud makeup was asked by her acquaintance for such a marriage..he was like I will give you enough to splurge..you can enjoy with others etc etc..she said no obviously..

The guy was mercifully upfront..else it would have been a horrible marriage

Sad that one has to keep one's sexual orientation under wraps nowadays...but I feel marriage fraud is a serious crime..something that was to happen to you is criminal, regardless of the guy's situation...the ethics of a marriage of convenience however is not for me to judge

Originally posted by: K.Ahm

I don’t know where mine fits. Each others childhood crush, grew apart, moved on, got in touch again, planned when to send rishta, convincing my dad to say yes and now married.

Marriage however is beautiful, you have someone around whom or with whom you can be crazy, vulnerable, broken, happy everything basically.

I think age of a marriage depends on how long the individual living it would like to continue with it. What their equation is with each other and how well they understand each other. There should be no you and I in marriage. Its all about WE/US.

Cute lovestory❤️👍🏼

I had arranged marriage with a girl I never met from a far away place. An we decided and got married in span of ten days

It was wild 😆

Originally posted by: colossial2015

I nearly got married to a closeted gay few years. I had shed more tears with him than during my depressive phase. My parents broke of that alliance due to his gay weekends. He and his gay buddies have beard weddings. Their wives are even weirder.

My life got saved.

OMG that’s terrible but glad you were saved.

My colleagues relative got married to this guy who was gay. They must have spent like over £50,000 for the daughters wedding and on wedding night the guy confessed.

The girl left him immediately and without wasting any time told both families the truth. The girls family sued the boys family.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Cute lovestory❤️👍🏼

Thank you. 😊

Originally posted by: K.Ahm

OMG that’s terrible but glad you were saved.

My colleagues relative got married to this guy who was gay. They must have spent like over £50,000 for the daughters wedding and on wedding night the guy confessed.

The girl left him immediately and without wasting any time told both families the truth. The girls family sued the boys family.

So these kinds of frauds are pretty common then..what was the ethnicity of the couple?

Originally posted by: starstruckk

I'm sorry thats rough.

If you dont mind me asking, was it arranged since your parents broke it off?

It was arranged marriage. My life was saved.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Sorry to hear that.

May god bless u.

Thank you. 🤗

This is something I would not wish on my worst enemies.

Originally posted by: colossial2015

Thank you. 🤗

This is something I would not wish on my worst enemies.

Same here , everyone deserve a happy & good life.