Bollywood Marriages - Page 3

I keep coming up with Indian Matchmaking references, but that guy Akshay whose mother was torturing him emotionally, mentally to get married was no better. He wants a girl similar to him mother which was weird to start off with and when the girl said she wants to work after marriage, his first thought was who will take care of the kids??!!😕

Are we living in the 80s or 90s? A 25yr old having such archaic views was shocking.

It is completely OK to expect a homely wife. Todays generation just want to do one work. Why marry when you do not want to work towards building relationship and creating family. Modernization my foot.

In my family my mother is one of the best woman as far as today's thinking is concerned. She wanted to work after marriage and also raise kids. She equally did her job and put time in raising her kids and building a family. My father too contributed with his work and working together with my mother to make a family.

But todays women just want to work for job or business and not concentrate on household work. This is where thinking differs and I pity todays thinking.

You cannot change the fact that Mother Nature even in animal kingdom that males must provide financial and all security and females must take care of family.

Now its OK for females to work but dont marry if you expect to work after marriage and be casual about household work. Men must support women and praise their wives and provide the family financially well. Case closed!

Originally posted by: moonv

It is completely OK to expect a homely wife. Todays generation just want to do one work. Why marry when you do not want to work towards building relationship and creating family. Modernization my foot.

In my family my mother is one of the best woman as far as today's thinking is concerned. She wanted to work after marriage and also raise kids. She equally did her job and put time in raising her kids and building a family. My father too contributed with his work and working together with my mother to make a family.

But todays women just want to work for job or business and not concentrate on household work. This is where thinking differs and I pity todays thinking.

You cannot change the fact that Mother Nature even in animal kingdom that males must provide financial and all security and females must take care of family.

Now its OK for females to work but dont marry if you expect to work after marriage and be casual about household work. Men must support women and praise their wives and provide the family financially well. Case closed!

Closed by whom? You? 🤣 But since you're so keen about nature... did you know it gave both men and women a pair of hands and a pair of legs? I wonder why.

It's fascinating how people use "Mother Nature" to justify shitty treatment of women. Had it been not for doing all those "unnatural" things, we would have long been dead because of some banal disease and wouldn't even be able to write BS on computers - after all, they are not natural, right?

I hate Indian society. I don't get married and have kids. I want to come for adoption. I want to date men and see how it works out but sadly all I know I would be married at age of 25 and forced to have kids after one year. Though I am working out something that I get out of this situation.

Originally posted by: sidnilove

I keep coming up with Indian Matchmaking references, but that guy Akshay whose mother was torturing him emotionally, mentally to get married was no better. He wants a girl similar to him mother which was weird to start off with and when the girl said she wants to work after marriage, his first thought was who will take care of the kids??!!😕

Are we living in the 80s or 90s? A 25yr old having such archaic views was shocking.

*Dr. Freud grabs the popcorn*

Originally posted by: moonv

It is completely OK to expect a homely wife. Todays generation just want to do one work. Why marry when you do not want to work towards building relationship and creating family. Modernization my foot.

Oh it is absolutely okay if you want to marry a girl who wants to be a homemaker after all managing home isn't cake walk. But the problem arises when a man marries a woman who wants to work after marriage, but he or his family wants a homemaker and expect the wife to sacrifice her desire for his convenience.

In my family my mother is one of the best woman as far as today's thinking is concerned. She wanted to work after marriage and also raise kids. She equally did her job and put time in raising her kids and building a family. My father too contributed with his work and working together with my mother to make a family.

I can't comment on your family matter. When your mother or any women manages both work and home equally, they consider it as the normal thing, but when husband helps the woman in the kitchen or in household duties, it is considered as contributing or some extraordinary thing. Isn't managing both is his responsibility?

You can manage household duties without affecting your profession, if it is a government job or 9 to 6 job, however if you are in a responsible position in the corporate sector or in any security, defense related profession sometimes husband has to make compromises.

But todays women just want to work for job or business and not concentrate on household work. This is where thinking differs and I pity todays thinking.

You cannot change the fact that Mother Nature even in animal kingdom that males must provide financial and all security and females must take care of family.

But there is a difference between the animal world and human world, the ability to think, intelligence, etc. Among animals sometimes the male doesn't have any importance other than procreation. Should we follow the same thing?

Now its OK for females to work but dont marry if you expect to work after marriage and be casual about household work. Men must support women and praise their wives and provide the family financially well. Case closed!

You really believe that, case closed with the mere support of men in household duties and with the praise and woman should work like a machine serving husband and his family and she can work if she could do it without letting it affect her household responsibility ?

There are woman who wants to focus just career, but gets hitched due to the pressure of society. But that is a minority, usually problem arises when the husband or family expects women to sidetrack career to focus household duties mainly.

Originally posted by: Bulbbul_Pandey

they paired her up with guys that don't match her criteria, just for some TV drama and to paint her as a TV villian..

Aparna knows what she wants, doesn't put up with crap ..why should anyone "adjust" or "compromise" or "be flexible" like Sima aunty reminds every 10 mins..

She's an annoying biatch who wants someone tailor-made to suit her needs. Sorry, not that's not being self-assured, that's entitled, self-absorbed and being a prick.

Originally posted by: grumpydwarf

There are studies done that show the more rich, good looking or famous you are. You are more likely to cheat because you have options regardless of being married or not. (Not generalizing but it is true to some extent) Cheating is more prevalent in bollywood than you would believe. Most people both married and unmarried keep it a hush/hush due to the classic "log kya kahenge."

Yes, Indian parents are more pressurizing on their children in this regardless. A better movie would be Akash Vaani.

@bold I love the film and how she walks out ❤️

Originally posted by: sidnilove

I keep coming up with Indian Matchmaking references, but that guy Akshay whose mother was torturing him emotionally, mentally to get married was no better. He wants a girl similar to him mother which was weird to start off with and when the girl said she wants to work after marriage, his first thought was who will take care of the kids??!!😕

Are we living in the 80s or 90s? A 25yr old having such archaic views was shocking.

@bold: this is so potent in every second guy I met. Like I legit fought with someone who said teaching at kindergarten is best because you can look after husband and kids.

Originally posted by: moonv

It is completely OK to expect a homely wife. Todays generation just want to do one work. Why marry when you do not want to work towards building relationship and creating family. Modernization my foot.

In my family my mother is one of the best woman as far as today's thinking is concerned. She wanted to work after marriage and also raise kids. She equally did her job and put time in raising her kids and building a family. My father too contributed with his work and working together with my mother to make a family.

But todays women just want to work for job or business and not concentrate on household work. This is where thinking differs and I pity todays thinking.

If the household belongs to two people it should be taken care of by both. Both should be equally investing in building a family. If the man can work so can the woman. Because this should be about CHOICE and no one should hide behind the flawed samaj.

You cannot change the fact that Mother Nature even in animal kingdom that males must provide financial and all security and females must take care of family.

Now its OK for females to work but dont marry if you expect to work after marriage and be casual about household work.

Your okay comes as a permission here. When one of the spouse needs to get permission to follow their choice that is my friend where the ardhangan-ardhangini ends and domination starts.

Men must support women and praise their wives and provide the family financially well. Case closed!