Unfair By the part of the Cvs. - Page 4

Originally posted by: Priyapriyu

Thr me writers hamesha jldi me rehte hai.....

Jab maine show dekhna start kiya tab kalma ki shadi hui thi or

Malharji ka wo rone wala scene aaya tab i felt bad for him.... the way he cried literally made me cry.....

Fir jab torture start hua to mujhe bahut gussa aata tha malharji k upar aur usse bhi jyada kalyani k upar ki wo itna sehti kyu hai...,,

Ek 18 saal ki ladki ne forced marriage accept karli aur to aur wo jo bhi torture hote the wo malhar ko responsible nhi maanti thi tab mujhe bahut gussa aata tha ki kaise dikhate hai show me abla naari...

When I watched some previous episode where Kalyani was full of anger wanted revenge from anupriya..... or fir torture wale episode dekhe to I felt ki ye wahi ladki hai.... jo kuch bhi kar Sakti thi badle k liye....

To Malhar ko maja kyu chakhati kyu Iska atyachaar sehti hai....

Meri badi tamanna thi ki malharji ko Kalyani achha sabak sikhaye....aur malharji apni galti ki kalyani se maafi maange....

Aur kalyani shadi ko accept bhi na karti....Malharji ko chhod deti....

She was teenager use waise hi dikhana chahiye tha

Show me Kalyani bahut jaldi samajhdar bna diya...

Par ab in sab baaton ka koi faayda nhi....

Ye writers ki kami hai....

Pehle main logic dhundti thi show me

At last maine apna dimag side me rakh k show dekhna start kiya....

Now I’m a happy person....

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Yeh hota hai serials mein . Ek set theory ko chalayenge . Girls ko sirf kapro mein modern baneyenge soch mein nahi . Har kisi ka hal yeh hai . Toh logic ko pakro hi mat . Sehreem and Kalma , Kalmash enjoy karo !

Isliye jyada sochna nhi chahiye.... just go with flow.....

That’s why I don’t watch Hindi shows sirf raabta hi dekhti hu.... just because of kalmash.... sehreezaan

Inka raabta mujhe majboor kar deta hai sare bakwas track ko sahan karne k liye....

Kam se kam 4-5 saal baad koi hindi show ko dekh rahi hu wo bhi continuity me....

I love kalmash....

I think Malhar's character development has been pretty logical so far. CVS made it pretty clear that he has issues apologizing and looking weak/vulnerable, but he did acknowledge on a few occasions that what he did to Kalyani at the beginning of their marriage was very wrong. In the KalMa date dream sequence, he apologized to her so he knows what he did was wrong. Even in the love confession, he said that he knows that their marriage started off very badly and it was because he was consumed by the pain and anger of Sampada's betrayal.

To be fair since then, he has done all that he can to make it up to her and has treated her really nicely. The trust issues that he had during the August 15th track and Swara track were remanents of trust issues stemming from Sampada's betrayal. Even then, they were not exactly trust issues per se. During the August 15th track, he felt like she overrode his instructions because she did not trust him to save Atul not that she was actively working with the terrorists. As for the Swara issue, that was more his anger and ego speaking rather than any real trust issues. But ever since Swara showed him the mirror, and sometimes you do need some third party to show you the mirror of your actions, he really curbed his trust issues and now, he trusts Kalyani 1000%.

Now what is pretty interesting is the effect of Malhar's previous behavior and actions have had on Kalyani. Because in the past he always used to doubt her and not believe her, she has now taken to lying and going behind his back to get things done, because I think part of her is not sure when he will revert back to the old Malhar Rane. In the past, it was either he doesn't trust her or he doesn't take her seriously and overrides her decisions cause he thinks he knows best.

I think Kalyani's reaction to him now, about the abortion is also pretty logical given Malhar's past actions. I think a lot of her reaction is resentment from the past because he never trusted her and his ego that he feels like he is always right and overrides her decisions. I know Malhar was coming from a good place, but he should have not forced her to abort the child in past episodes. What he did at the moment, making a choice between her life and the child was not wrong, but in all those episodes where she was saying she wants to keep the child and he was forcing an abortion, that I thought was wrong and would end badly. Because now she just feels he was waiting for the first opportunity to abort the child and does not believe him when he is trying to explain the situation. This is bringing KalMa's love story full circle because of the role reversal in this situation. Now Kalyani is the angry one that doesn't trust him anymore. I think this is well needed and the final stage in the love story. Now the next time they get remarried, it will be a happy occasion with both of their consent, no blackmailing, or anything.

I also think that we will get to see Malhar's jealous side and him winning her back cause, unlike Rachit's or Atharva's marriage track where he KNEW Kalyani was just pretending, now he KNOWS Kalyani is not pretending and she is really done with him.

I mostly do that,too... but sometimes it's hard,like in that episode of Kalma's anniversary. Malhar mentioned having arranged a trip to Shimla for them because Kalyani likes snow... the way she remembered the ice slab punishment and started panicking, I felt so bad for her.

And if the CVs wanted to convey that Malhar had understood what she was thinking about and still laughed at it,well... that's quite insensitive of him & made me wonder whether he has even learnt anything from his awful behavior towards her.

In comparison,Sampada still got/gets the better deal... didn't he recently have an argument with her and stop with his hand midway saying something along the lines that he doesn't hit women? I was like "well, you sure as hell didn't remember any of this while using Kalyani as your personal punching bag,did you?".

I'm not saying he should've hit Sampu,just that he did much worse to Kalyani.

Originally posted by: sas79

I think Malhar's character development has been pretty logical so far. CVS made it pretty clear that he has issues apologizing and looking weak/vulnerable, but he did acknowledge on a few occasions that what he did to Kalyani at the beginning of their marriage was very wrong. In the KalMa date dream sequence, he apologized to her so he knows what he did was wrong. Even in the love confession, he said that he knows that their marriage started off very badly and it was because he was consumed by the pain and anger of Sampada's betrayal.

To be fair since then, he has done all that he can to make it up to her and has treated her really nicely. The trust issues that he had during the August 15th track and Swara track were remanents of trust issues stemming from Sampada's betrayal. Even then, they were not exactly trust issues per se. During the August 15th track, he felt like she overrode his instructions because she did not trust him to save Atul not that she was actively working with the terrorists. As for the Swara issue, that was more his anger and ego speaking rather than any real trust issues. But ever since Swara showed him the mirror, and sometimes you do need some third party to show you the mirror of your actions, he really curbed his trust issues and now, he trusts Kalyani 1000%.

Now what is pretty interesting is the effect of Malhar's previous behavior and actions have had on Kalyani. Because in the past he always used to doubt her and not believe her, she has now taken to lying and going behind his back to get things done, because I think part of her is not sure when he will revert back to the old Malhar Rane. In the past, it was either he doesn't trust her or he doesn't take her seriously and overrides her decisions cause he thinks he knows best.

I think Kalyani's reaction to him now, about the abortion is also pretty logical given Malhar's past actions. I think a lot of her reaction is resentment from the past because he never trusted her and his ego that he feels like he is always right and overrides her decisions. I know Malhar was coming from a good place, but he should have not forced her to abort the child in past episodes. What he did at the moment, making a choice between her life and the child was not wrong, but in all those episodes where she was saying she wants to keep the child and he was forcing an abortion, that I thought was wrong and would end badly. Because now she just feels he was waiting for the first opportunity to abort the child and does not believe him when he is trying to explain the situation. This is bringing KalMa's love story full circle because of the role reversal in this situation. Now Kalyani is the angry one that doesn't trust him anymore. I think this is well needed and the final stage in the love story. Now the next time they get remarried, it will be a happy occasion with both of their consent, no blackmailing, or anything.

I also think that we will get to see Malhar's jealous side and him winning her back cause, unlike Rachit's or Atharva's marriage track where he KNEW Kalyani was just pretending, now he KNOWS Kalyani is not pretending and she is really done with him.

Fingers crossed for the role reversal/full circle thing... Malhar will get a dose of his own medicine and we will get jealous Malhar Rane in action... that's when he's the most fun to watch!

Originally posted by: Kalma007

I mostly do that,too... but sometimes it's hard,like in that episode of Kalma's anniversary. Malhar mentioned having arranged a trip to Shimla for them because Kalyani likes snow... the way she remembered the ice slab punishment and started panicking, I felt so bad for her.

And if the CVs wanted to convey that Malhar had understood what she was thinking about and still laughed at it,well... that's quite insensitive of him & made me wonder whether he has even learnt anything from his awful behavior towards her.

Originally posted by: sas79

I think Malhar's character development has been pretty logical so far. CVS made it pretty clear that he has issues apologizing and looking weak/vulnerable, but he did acknowledge on a few occasions that what he did to Kalyani at the beginning of their marriage was very wrong. In the KalMa date dream sequence, he apologized to her so he knows what he did was wrong. Even in the love confession, he said that he knows that their marriage started off very badly and it was because he was consumed by the pain and anger of Sampada's betrayal.

To be fair since then, he has done all that he can to make it up to her and has treated her really nicely. The trust issues that he had during the August 15th track and Swara track were remanents of trust issues stemming from Sampada's betrayal. Even then, they were not exactly trust issues per se. During the August 15th track, he felt like she overrode his instructions because she did not trust him to save Atul not that she was actively working with the terrorists. As for the Swara issue, that was more his anger and ego speaking rather than any real trust issues. But ever since Swara showed him the mirror, and sometimes you do need some third party to show you the mirror of your actions, he really curbed his trust issues and now, he trusts Kalyani 1000%.

Now what is pretty interesting is the effect of Malhar's previous behavior and actions have had on Kalyani. Because in the past he always used to doubt her and not believe her, she has now taken to lying and going behind his back to get things done, because I think part of her is not sure when he will revert back to the old Malhar Rane. In the past, it was either he doesn't trust her or he doesn't take her seriously and overrides her decisions cause he thinks he knows best.

I think Kalyani's reaction to him now, about the abortion is also pretty logical given Malhar's past actions. I think a lot of her reaction is resentment from the past because he never trusted her and his ego that he feels like he is always right and overrides her decisions. I know Malhar was coming from a good place, but he should have not forced her to abort the child in past episodes. What he did at the moment, making a choice between her life and the child was not wrong, but in all those episodes where she was saying she wants to keep the child and he was forcing an abortion, that I thought was wrong and would end badly. Because now she just feels he was waiting for the first opportunity to abort the child and does not believe him when he is trying to explain the situation. This is bringing KalMa's love story full circle because of the role reversal in this situation. Now Kalyani is the angry one that doesn't trust him anymore. I think this is well needed and the final stage in the love story. Now the next time they get remarried, it will be a happy occasion with both of their consent, no blackmailing, or anything.

I also think that we will get to see Malhar's jealous side and him winning her back cause, unlike Rachit's or Atharva's marriage track where he KNEW Kalyani was just pretending, now he KNOWS Kalyani is not pretending and she is really done with him.

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I totally agree with each point....

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