Abir and Meenu's conversation

Woah! What a drama filled episode it was😲

One thing which went on top of my head was the conversation between Abir and Meenu. I couldn't correlate at all. It was like they talked in riddles.

I actually felt a bit bad for her today (Am I going crazy? 😳). She kept this secret coz knowing how she valued society and status, such a thing coming out is going to be embarrassing for her. Her husband cheated her and had a son whom she hid. I still can't understand if Meenu is so negative why did she even bring Parul and Kunal? Why did she even raise Kunal equally (little less maybe) to Abir and love him? Does she have insaaniyat or a motive? Tangent 😆

And what was Abir talking about Mehul? 😕

Wish Kunal discussed with his family before exploding this bomb on everyone 🤔

Anyways anyone who understood this conversation, please shed some light!

Even i not sure why she raised kunal and accepted parul.

At the moment she is saying because of insaniyaat. There might be a selfish motive too.

Abir is saying there is no need for her to be embarrassed (she said she in embarrassed and world will point fingers). It is his fathers mistake that he left you. In turn he is saying that you should be proud of yourself that you accepted your sautan’s son and everyone are praising you for that.

He is a progressive guy he never worries about duniya and naajayas and all. He is saying the same to meenu.

I feel Abir is right in this situation if kunal told here she will do some or other kaand.

Actually in intial episode there is a conversation between jugnu and abir in which he asked to jugnu why everyone is scared of Big Ben and jugnu replied that they all are not scared but respected her despite she is too much strict she is the one who actually helped them at the time of need. So it seems she strict but a nice person from heart But as the serial progressed that turned her darker. So it is difficult to predict.

I watched their confrontation again in hopes of understanding it better. I am still confused about a lot of it 😆... but I am certain about one thing now that editors have not kept all the dialogues in the scene to reduce the length of it and the end result is a jumbled up puzzle with missing pieces!

Meenu tells Abir that the world is going to laugh at us.

Then Abir consoles her saying that if that man left you then the mistake and loss is his, not yours. At that time they are standing quite close too.

Next moment Abir is standing in a different position/angle and further away and argues in frustration that he really doesn’t understand why they are discussing that man!

Meenu’s dialogues are edited in some parts, so Abir’s arguments look totally out of place and some of their conversation is not making sense here

Anyways, moving on... so Let’s dissect Abir’s arguments:

Just to protect her fake self respect, Meenu brought Parul to the house, but then kept her as a servant.

If she really thought that Parul brings her embarrassment then why did she even bring her to the house in the first place and let her stay for this long?

She considers Kunal as her son, then how can his mother bring her embarrassment?

Kunal is as much a son of this house as much as Abir, so his mother(Kunal’s mom Parul) deserves the same respect that she(Abir’s mom Meenu) gets.

Since Meenu is the one who started all this by bringing Parul to the house in the first place, Meenu has no choice but to accept this truth.

Ok, so in a nutshell, Abir’s point is that if the two brothers are equal sons of this house - Meenu herself has always established that (at least to others) - then their mothers should be treated equally too and since Meenu herself has started this by bringing Parul to this house, she has no choice but to accept it this way now.

Phew, while penning this down, I understood it myself too 😆😆

Thanks for the post 🤗

EDIT:

Some more thoughts on what Abir means by "equal status for Parul" on page 9:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/153004099

many scenes are edited in today's epi... even naanu says to truth MAH family when kunal knows truth seen in TC video and i posted in our AT...

Originally posted by: SheThought

I watched their confrontation again in hopes of understanding it better. I am still confused about a lot of it 😆... but I am certain about one thing now that editors have not kept all the dialogues in the scene to reduce the length of it and the end result is a jumbled up puzzle with missing pieces!

Meenu tells Abir that the world is going to laugh at us.

Then Abir consoles her saying that if that man left you then the mistake and loss is his, not yours. At that time they are standing quite close too.

Next moment Abir is standing in a different position/angle and further away and argues in frustration that he really doesn’t understand why they are discussing that man!

Meenu’s dialogues are edited in some parts, so Abir’s arguments look totally out of place and some of their conversation is not making sense here

Anyways, moving on... so Let’s dissect Abir’s arguments:

Just to protect her fake self respect, Meenu brought Parul to the house, but then kept her as a servant.

If she really thought that Parul brings her embarrassment then why did she even bring her to the house in the first place and let her stay for this long?

She considers Kunal as her son, then how can his mother bring her embarrassment?

Kunal is as much a son of this house as much as Abir, so his mother(Kunal’s mom Parul) deserves the same respect that she(Abir’s mom Meenu) gets.

Since Meenu is the one who started all this by bringing Parul to the house in the first place, Meenu has no choice but to accept this truth.

Ok, so in a nutshell, Abir’s point is that if the two brothers are equal sons of this house - Meenu herself has always established that - then their mothers should be treated equally too and since Meenu herself has started this by bringing Parul to this house, she has no choice but to accept it this way now.

Phew, while penning this down, I understood it myself too 😆😆

Thanks for the post 🤗

Ohhh....pretty good argument!!! 😆Abir should have been a lawyer......and the mother son duo is lit🔥

Thank you Pali for penning it.🤗

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Ohhh....pretty good argument!!! 😆Abir should have been a lawyer......and the mother son duo is lit🔥

Thank you Pali for penning it.🤗

Mini it was bothering me so much that I couldn’t understand their confrontation!! Abhi raat ke 2:30 baje, I am decoding their arguments! Main bhi paagal 🤣

chalo, ab good night from my side of the world. Ab acche se neend aayegi 😆

Originally posted by: SheThought

I watched their confrontation again in hopes of understanding it better. I am still confused about a lot of it 😆... but I am certain about one thing now that editors have not kept all the dialogues in the scene to reduce the length of it and the end result is a jumbled up puzzle with missing pieces!

Meenu tells Abir that the world is going to laugh at us.

Then Abir consoles her saying that if that man left you then the mistake and loss is his, not yours. At that time they are standing quite close too.

Next moment Abir is standing in a different position/angle and further away and argues in frustration that he really doesn’t understand why they are discussing that man!

Meenu’s dialogues are edited in some parts, so Abir’s arguments look totally out of place and some of their conversation is not making sense here

Anyways, moving on... so Let’s dissect Abir’s arguments:

Just to protect her fake self respect, Meenu brought Parul to the house, but then kept her as a servant.

If she really thought that Parul brings her embarrassment then why did she even bring her to the house in the first place and let her stay for this long?

She considers Kunal as her son, then how can his mother bring her embarrassment?

Kunal is as much a son of this house as much as Abir, so his mother(Kunal’s mom Parul) deserves the same respect that she(Abir’s mom Meenu) gets.

Since Meenu is the one who started all this by bringing Parul to the house in the first place, Meenu has no choice but to accept this truth.

Ok, so in a nutshell, Abir’s point is that if the two brothers are equal sons of this house - Meenu herself has always established that - then their mothers should be treated equally too and since Meenu herself has started this by bringing Parul to this house, she has no choice but to accept it this way now.

Phew, while penning this down, I understood it myself too 😆😆

Thanks for the post 🤗

Pali, she took parul and kunal under her shelter, so she could hide the fact that she is the second wife which makes Abir naajaaz leads to her getting defamed in the society. I think Mehul would have told her that his first wife couldn’t bear a child so he wants to get married second time to have vaaris.

So while she was away to take control on RV business, Mehul would have got back to parul. I can’t put my finger to it about why she came alone to RV to take control of RV business she could have come with her husband. Maybe it was MeRul plan to conquer fame, status and money of RVs.
BB wouldn’t have expected her husband’s first wife to come with child. It is not very hard for her to implant the thought of parul being the second wife and kunal as naajaz, because Abir is elder to kunal.
So to keep her secrets wrapped, she took parul and kunal under her shelter. At the same time, she took revenge from both of them, she sent Mehul to jail and made parul a servant but she looked after kunal as her own son for her selfish reasons and also to keep parul under her control.

To him it is his baba who cheated on both his mothers. He thinks because of his mom controlling nature she made maasi a servant.

Unknowingly, Abir woke up the animal in her today and she is going to play very cruelly this time.

Abir - Meenu convo looked disjointed but I think they made it look disjointed for more drama.

Originally posted by: SheThought

Mini it was bothering me so much that I couldn’t understand their confrontation!! Abhi raat ke 2:30 baje, I am decoding their arguments! Main bhi paagal 🤣

chalo, ab good night from my side of the world. Ab acche se neend aayegi 😆

😆😆Hota hain......Even I didn't sleep reading abt Meenu🤣

Chalo Good night .....🤗

Originally posted by: nami2811

Woah! What a drama filled episode it was😲

One thing which went on top of my head was the conversation between Abir and Meenu. I couldn't correlate at all. It was like they talked in riddles.

I actually felt a bit bad for her today (Am I going crazy? 😳). She kept this secret coz knowing how she valued society and status, such a thing coming out is going to be embarrassing for her. Her husband cheated her and had a son whom she hid. I still can't understand if Meenu is so negative why did she even bring Parul and Kunal? Why did she even raise Kunal equally (little less maybe) to Abir and love him? Does she have insaaniyat or a motive? Tangent 😆

And what was Abir talking about Mehul? 😕

Wish Kunal discussed with his family before exploding this bomb on everyone 🤔

Anyways anyone who understood this conversation, please shed some light!

We will not see th episode for another 7hours so cannot even begin to guess the meanings. But do pop over to see my post 'Random Qs' where I suggested there is a secret behind the secret Meenu has divulged....

If people can post a clip of that conversation then I can have a go analysing it.😃Otherwise will wait till it is aired in the UK.

One thing is generation gaps make people see things in different way.

What is so important to the older one is not so to th younger one.

If you and every one else is feeling bad for Meenu, then perhaps her redemption is starting. However, she is such a powerful character I am guessing not just yet. As for the precap, well she is suggesting since Parul is accepted and given a status, she Meenu would take parul's previous status.

It is all power play...