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Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Okay, I think I have saturated the AT enough with my long posts..🤗

It's night time at my end of the world..so

GOOD NIGHT❤️ and sweet mishbir dreams

Signing off, and chat again tomorrow for mishbir friday

P.S stay safe, stay happy and healthy 🤗

I think you’re are a roll today... I will comment to it later yaar. But excellent write ups I say...
Goodnight Nadhu

Take care

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

kya hogaya re? Uru bhi emotional hogayi

🤗🤗🤗 here three big jhappi for you both!

Yea I know it took me the third round of watching the scenes for it to really sink in😊

You're absolutely right yaar diya👍🏼 The more we get fixated on Mishti and Abir separately and their individual mistakes, behaviour..we start to lose the fundamental base of their relationship which was friendship, trust and companionship🤗 So when we begin to adopt mishbir's thinking process - to just LOVE and not expect anything in return, and so we just watch the episodes without overthinking...we realise how beautiful the journey has truly been.🤗 There have been bumps and some twisting of characters for drama/trp...but overall mishbir's relationship has been so beautifully discovered👏🤗 I'm sure there is way more to explore😃especially after marriage☺️

I made another long post in reply to Anu as well...

long story short: with all this writing about mishbir today, I've fallen in love for them AGAIN😳😆 All the break-up, patch-up, longing and heart-breaking emotions have just increased my admiration, respect and love for these two characters (as separate individuals but also as a couple)

I love them deeply❤️❤️❤️

xx no worries Diya, aaj mein bhi mood mein hu, lambi lambi post write karne ki😆😆 I love reading everyone's thoughts anyway, because we all understand each other and respect each other's differing opinions🤗❤️

your post really bought out the emotional connect to the scene yaar 🤗🤗 jhappis to you to for making such beautiful posts today 🤗🤗🤗🤗

ohh i'm here and you are off to sleep.. anyways dear will continue with this long chain of thoughts 🤗🤗😆

@bold - Word Nandu more than thinking from the base we just take in the current state of both that has led us to somewhat disconnect with mishbir before but now that we see the depth of mishbir and the growth in their love we see that they are still in their core character... its us who are deviated not them 😆 there is always something new in their relationship to discover everyday n that makes us love them more...

haha i read that dear and just loved it so much i read all your post and dont even know what to comment all are equally so good yaar... i dont have anything to add more to it.. 🤗👏👏👏

haha come on tomorrow being mishbir friday we gonna have even more long long post.. 😆🤗

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

completely agree diya! Now that Kunal has finally patched up with Abir and building a positive relationship with Mishti. It is about time he starts taking responsibility for Kuhu and the marriage. He's having a very nice character graph in terms of supporting mishbir, but he has a long long way to go in handling his own relationships with Kuhu.

Like Kunal said before: "mein cheezein handle nahi kar patha hu" and Naanu always points out how different Kunal is from Abir when it comes to understanding people, feelings and relationships. Kunal is ZERO with handling complicated relationships. that's why he fell for Meenu's manipulations which appeared to him like direct business deals; if I do this then that = this result. But the rest of us know, relationships are not straight easy equations, they are way more complicated.

So I'm looking forward to seeing how the writers deal with Kunal's growth as a life partner and husband. He has lots to learn. I'm sure Abir will help teach him🤗 And Kunal in return can help Abir with ngo business plans and prevent Abir from blindly trusting everyone😆😆

@Bold: nicely said👍🏼 Ku-bir relationship is quite distinct to all the others. They respect each other, but don't involve themselves in personal matters. Only when one openly comes to ask for help, then the other gives the hand of help. Otherwise they just let the other be and deal with their problems separately. Kuhu is clearly sandwiched between the two families, her behaviour and decisions have always been impulsive, she never really overthinks and contemplates the consequences of her words or actions. That's why this Kuku divorce is so important for BOTH kuhu and kunal to re-discover themselves and mature as individual people, before re-building their relationship👍🏼

xx

totally agreed Nandu kunal is not someone who thinks deeply infact kuhu is also like that they are not deep thinkers... but kuhu is much more mature in handling relationships but kunal for him everything is business n he once said to mishti too that she will be a responsibility to him during courtship time.. for him shaadi is just a responsibility, he doesnt understand the depth of love n all... he actually is falling for kuhu the offsite hospital scene but he himself is yet to discover those feelings.. kuhu too needs to come out of this relationship and clear her head n stay away from kunal and let him do the work... as always she was the one to be at the giving end, she never expected anything from kunal bt was always there for him thats also a reason why kunal took her for granted...

haha this is a nice offer kunal helps abir in ngo with preventing him from blind trust and Abir being the love guru to kunal 😆 with mishti by side she can help him with what kuhu likes n how to handle her 😆

exactly this kuhu applies this keep it separate for every relationship.. but she doesnt trust anyone easily to share her problem n also doesnt really get into others business that also explains why today even though she knew abir is missing she knew kunal is there so she is trying to concentrate on the work in hand her brothers wedding... she cant balance everything at once... divorce is the next think which is gonna take a toll on her, she is always concerned on not bringing it infront of family n end it in a less damageable way lets see looking forward to start of kuku journey.. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: The_incredible

Corona virus got detected in Kerala..omg..last tym it was Nipa and this tym yeh Corona virus..hamesha Kerala phas kyon jaate ho??

Anyway don't worry jayu..we will take care of ourselves..🤗🤗

Aise baat nahi hei. That person is a student and recently came back from China. He and his family has taken to an isolated place. But it's the first officially confirmed one. The epicenter is china and we share border with them .Toh unofficially kitne niklenge pata nahi. Everyone was talking about it in office. So thought of sharing it.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

totally agreed Nandu kunal is not someone who thinks deeply infact kuhu is also like that they are not deep thinkers... but kuhu is much more mature in handling relationships but kunal for him everything is business n he once said to mishti too that she will be a responsibility to him during courtship time.. for him shaadi is just a responsibility, he doesnt understand the depth of love n all... he actually is falling for kuhu the offsite hospital scene but he himself is yet to discover those feelings.. kuhu too needs to come out of this relationship and clear her head n stay away from kunal and let him do the work... as always she was the one to be at the giving end, she never expected anything from kunal bt was always there for him thats also a reason why kunal took her for granted...

haha this is a nice offer kunal helps abir in ngo with preventing him from blind trust and Abir being the love guru to kunal 😆 with mishti by side she can help him with what kuhu likes n how to handle her 😆

exactly this kuhu applies this keep it separate for every relationship.. but she doesnt trust anyone easily to share her problem n also doesnt really get into others business that also explains why today even though she knew abir is missing she knew kunal is there so she is trying to concentrate on the work in hand her brothers wedding... she cant balance everything at once... divorce is the next think which is gonna take a toll on her, she is always concerned on not bringing it infront of family n end it in a less damageable way lets see looking forward to start of kuku journey.. 👍🏼

I'm katti😡😭

Where were u😭...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Just copy pasting from LU: my 2 cents on Nish and Vatsal😊

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Here it goes...

Before watching Tuesday and Wednesday haldi episodes, I had read lots of comments over social media against Nishant and Vatsal's acting. Here's a few things I will like to point out in disagreement:

disclaimer: Ofcourse, I do not agree with Nannu's behaviour and goal to win Mish and defeat Abir. I too believe that this nishmish rishta is wrong on many levels, but there is substance and decent depth to Nishant's character that gives him the space to slide into the grey negative side.

• Nishant is not equal to monster Meenu. He does not have unnecessary hatred against one character. He doesn't emotionally control and threat his loved ones. He is simply very insecure, troubled and confused being who has lost his mind and ability to think straight due to his deep psychological issues. Unlike Baba's sudden negative flip; The makers have gradually and nicely built up Nishant's background as an ex-alcohol addict, who still has struggles with overcoming his guilt. recovering addicts take very long to be confident to say that they are completely free of addiction and have strong control on themselves to not fall back into relapse. Nishant is still very much in the process of recovering and very susceptible to his weakness of alcohol. On top this, he has deep anxiety issues linked with his guilt from childhood towards mah family (lower degree of ehsaan than Mishti has).
• This is where I have to give credit to Meenu and her clever attack. She found Nishant's weak-spot very well (his addiction and insecurity with Mishti), she also targeted Mishti's weak-point again (her ehsaan for family) and also hit the mah family exactly where it hurts (Nishant's addiction) Well played Meenu, Well played [and then she ruined it by dropping the doctor's report #typical]
• The best part about this flipping of Nish's charc is the fact that he KNOWS he is doing the wrong thing. He can see and understand that he is joining hands with Monster meenu. He berates himself for choosing that path, but his psychological state of mind, stops him from correcting it (or owning up to it), His insecurity and anxiety levels are so high, he self-assures himself that what he's doing his right because he thinks Mishti is in the same situation as him - the state of addiction. Nish believes that Abir and their pyar is a detrimental addiction for Mishti, after seeing Abir consistently push Mishti away, hurt her so deeply emotionally, Nishant as protector has convinced himself that Abir is a forbidden drug that Mishti should not get attached to.
• The real problem begins when Abir genuinely and calmly tried explaining to Nish about why this shaadi should stop. Abir knows Mish is too emotionally invested with the family that she will find it difficult to say no to the rishta. So his next choice is convincing Nish. So Abir tries his best to calmly explain why mishbir break-up happened, why their pyar is special and why this nishmish rishta is disaster for all 3 of them. This is where Nishant loses it. For some reason, the writers took Nish's issues quite extreme to an obsession kind of stage suddenly. Unfortunately, Nishant has suddenly dug soo deep into this Abir vs Nish and 'prize' is Mishti concept(disappointed with writers for never keeping a 3rd angle as pure friendship with lead why to force one-sided love?)
• So I will condemn the writers for dragging Nishant down so much that they showed recovering addicts and those who suffer from extreme anxiety, to lose empathy and sympathy. The fact that Nish knows Abir is missing, potentially injured and god-forbid perhaps sinking to his death, the writers used his anxiety issues to justify that he wouldn't call for help or tell the other back home!? Very disappointed with this portrayal of such psychologically disturbed individuals. No matter how troubled Nishant is, he can clearly see and understand that Abir's life is at stake, and he chooses to save himself?! This is very very hard to digest

Now on to Vatsal:

• Straight off the bat I'm gonna say; unpopular opinion: Vatsal did a wonderful job acting as the drunkard, insecure and frustrated man. Honestly, his drunk acting and dialogue delivery with Mishti and Jas, was very very good. I could clearly see an exhausted, drained and troubled Nishant.
• I've really enjoyed the gradual solo scenes of Nannu. All the monologues, the fidgety behaviour and restlessness have been executed really well. We got a really good insight into Nishant's thought process
• Other times when Nishant randomly becomes super jumpy, excited and happy, I do find it a little exaggerated. But I guess that's an acting choice. If we I can survive Rupal mam's "MEIN MEENAAAKSHI RAAJVANSH", I'm sure Vatsal's "naughty!!" is way more easy on the ears
• I guess the part where more improvement may be needed, is anger and confrontation scenes. Vatsal tried his best at the hospital in his fight against Abir. His delivery of dialogue at shouting decibels is often difficult to understand. It gets mumbled and lost in the emotion and loudness of shouting. [But Rhea on the other hand is spectacular Cannot praise her enough, ALL the confrontation scenes of Mishti from the very first mish-kun gd break, to the latest mishbir patchup, each and every sequence she nails it. Her voice and delivery is pitch perfect and crystal clear] Shah just has sheer magnetic presence and dhaansu solid deliveryMaybe also due to Vatsal's shorter stature, it was difficult to be convinced that Nish was furious. Shah as angry Abir at the hospital was super intimidating

Anyway that's all I think I have to say so far. Waiting to see how the writers, continue or put a closure to Nannu's character. Hopefully he gets proper treatment

disclaimer2: Just want to re-iterate, I don't support Nishant's actions or behaviour. I'm simply trying to cut him some slack. He is not demon-like or devil like Meenu or Baba. He has reasons (no matter how weak or illogical they may be) - addiction and anxiety are real problems.

Woah this was waay longer than expected. sorry

Thankyou for listening me ramble on and on and on Let me know what y'all think

xx

ohhh superb post Nandu totally agreed 👏👏👏🤗🤗🤗

today you are on roll with every character analysis... superb yaar.. 😆👏👏

Actually from start i've been more intrigued n interested in his mystery side maybe aadat se majboor from the time he entered i notice n kept analyzing his mystery side more than his positive which was obvious to eyes 😆 everyone only has two opinion either positive or negative so only the disappointment n all but if you start connecting with him from start with opinion on every side you will surely like his character n you will understand that its not abrupt..

he has a negative approach to everything tbh... more than seeing the positive side he thinks of the what if many times... abir loves mishti but what if he hurts her again, then his anxiety issue what if he fails his family,... he saw abirs bad side and his opinion on abir is purely based on that.. then he started developing feeling then came the proposal... he grabbed that opportunity bcoz of his ehsaan feeling n new found feeling and bm words on who is better stuck to him and he started comparing himself... even with mish accepting to marriage he was not sure he always kept stalking her to make sure she will stick to her words... remember once he said i dont trust anyone more than myself.. that applies to mishti too thats why on sangeet day even though he knew mish went out he kept quiet when mish explained everything to family n he just said its ok mishti you said the truth to us thats enough... then as abir came back his insecurity increased n he wanted to win over abir, mishti's constant assuring words were like ghee in fire even Abirs words that mish doesnt love him didnt get into his brain... slowly his confidence started breaking n he became little violent.. then the final nail in coffin was seeing mishbir last night... he knew he is loosing and the obsession went up... he fell in meenu trap n did something he didnt wanna do... his lost his control over mind n emotions took over...

obsessed people behave even more violently they can actually harm people with full sense.. .but here he is always in confused state in dilemma, he is oscillating between right and wrong, trying to reason out.. he is still in early stage of insanity yaar not yet in the extremes.. he is taking advantage of situation now..

him not helping Abir actually even in real life how many people help others when something happens everyone are ready to just be an on looker.. not blaming or criticizing anyone but when sane people can be like this in his panicked, insane state he could've acted more insanely but still he was more into getting away from there, and that message if you see it was so lame he didnt even know what he is messaging else he could've given a more logical, believable reply, then stopping kunal was also an attempt in his insane state..

actually kuku had done much more in their sane state Nannu is doing things in insane state still a better case... i no way justify him but such obsessed people do react like this and his character is not one directional like meenu or mehul but he is more complicated there is still more to discover in his character.. the mystery around him is still there, a more intriguing character that i want to look forward to 😆

ok coming to vatsal totally agreed yaar.. firstly if we understand his character then easily we would understand n see how good vatsal is doing... the transformation is so smooth n so good... he has portrayed it so well... 👏👏👏 and i totally agree with your voice modulation yaar RheSha are doing it best Rhea i'm actually suprised you know tbvh she is the first actress who i admire n look up at who is slaying in confrontation with clear voice modulation n all not even a single word can be missed she is the best... and shaheer asusual no one can beat him in voice modulation he adds even small nuances of voice shaking n all to fit the scene... vatsal actually can work on it.. agreed on this.. 👍🏼

PS: again a long post 😆

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I'm katti😡😭

Where were u😭...

ohh ohh meri sr cheli 🤗🤗 *diya gives a tight jhappi*

went out with mom yaar got a bit late came back now only dear... solly 😳🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Words yaar ...kunal and kuhu are not talking facts at all 🤔😆 ....and that is where the real problem arises ... but today I found thoda ajeeb, one scene kuhu was worried about abir bro missing and next scene she was all smiles , dressed up , excited 😆😆

That's very true yaar diya , you rightly pointed it out... mishnal bond has abir as the base whereas kubir bond was purely out of their own character interaction, they didn't bond over a person....I love their keep it separate attitude actually ....

Very true they actually havent moved an inch regarding their relationship... 😆 they are more concentrating on other issue that their own relationship has become secondary... kuhu said preleap to kunal to give a chance to their relationship but they have grown as individual character but not yet as couple.. they need to star a fresh n start talking about themselves 😆

that scene actually she worried about abir missing and then thought about nannu too then she turned to gods idol i think she left it to god... and more over what can she do she needs to handle this shaadi also and there kunal is searching abir she knew that if she gets any info she will inform him other than that she cant do anything... she let everything to god and handling the matter at hand now she cant even roam around in tensed face infront of family, so she is concentrating on shaadi... 😆 she is not mishti to try and help solve a problem.. 😆 she just does help when asked n needed..

yes i have also grown to love their bond.. the keep it separate is so inspiring yaar now i want to see how they take forward their bond after kuku divorce comes up and also mishbir shaadi..

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Aise baat nahi hei. That person is a student and recently came back from China. He and his family has taken to an isolated place. But it's the first officially confirmed one. The epicenter is china and we share border with them .Toh unofficially kitne niklenge pata nahi. Everyone was talking about it in office. So thought of sharing it.

Being a malayali myself..I actually get scared now regarding the health of mallus..I think students from all parts of India goes to China for mbbs..Kya kare..😆😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Haa yaar I wrote something in my previous post...they remind me of a dialogue of dil dhadakne do " is family mein saare upar upar se batein karte hai , asli baat toh koi karta hi nahi hai " 😆

ohh this perfectly fits for everyone yaar... 😆 when will this get fulfilled or wil it ever be fulfilled is still a question 😆