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Originally posted by: Onyourface

Your words are making me cry guruji 2.0 ....I just realised last 2 3 episodes mishbir scenes have actually been so beautiful soulful and magical, if sometimes we keep the other things aside and just feel the characters one at a time , then we realise, how neatly and beautifully mishbir story has turned out to be

Bang on when you said my man cries too , crying is not a woman right it's a human right ....you feel hurt , emotions pop up and they surface out through tears, it's natural, they feel the pain , there is nothing wrong about it , even Abir once said "rona utna hi normal hota hai jitna hasna, agar rone se mann halka hota ho toh ro lena chahie " 😳 .... which is why i was irritated with him when he went into shades zone to hide his tears , because abir dosent believe in hiding his emotions especially to mishti .... he shows his vulnerable side to mishti ....the comfort level is aa good as talking to one self

Now coming to this mishbir scene, I have to admit when I watched it first, I felt laughing because we know end game is mishbir and makers are playing around 😆 But one thing I have noticed that even after everything there is still no bitterness between them....it was is and will always pure love ans admiration for each other

Mishti's last words before good bye were so heart wrenching ,

Thank you abir, main bharosa karna chahti thi , tumne mujhe khud pe bharosa karna sikhaya

Thank you abir , main faisle lena jaanti thi tumne un faislo ki responsibility lena sikhaya

Thank you abir , main pyaar karna jaanti thi tumne mujhe pyaar pe vishvas karna sikhaya

Thank you mujhe sapno se bhi zyada sundar love story dene ke liye , meri himmat banne ke liye 😳

There is always a layer of fondness and admiration for each other , neither he blames her nor she blames him , both of them just try to understand each other in the purest way possible

This track is a loud proof to show that they actually don't need anyone to make them understand the love they have for each other , the know it , they feel it , they live it ❤️❤️❤️

wah wah beautiful post guruji!👏👏

uff all your replies are making me emotional too😳 I'm already feeling all the emotions with upcoming mishbir shaadi..now all this too #khushiKiAansu #thuthuthu

Yes! I absolutely love Abir for this notion, that men are as emotional and sensitive as well. They need to be taken care of gently and given the opportunity to open up. This idea is quite close to my heart, given my father and my brother who hid their emotions and it often builds up to a breaking point, before it just explodes😳 So Abir is just such an inspirational character, and very relevant to today's world 🤗👏 [yes I too was upset with Abir for hiding his emotions behind the shades, but tbh no one in RV family was taking the initative to look behind them. They never truly pushed to find out the truth of mishbir break-up]

aww yea, Mishti's words were so heart-touching💔❤️ It was so beautifully portrayed To all those berating mishti for never apologising to abir for her mistakes..this was a fitted reply.😆🤗

Mishbir don't keep count of their mistakes, they both realise individually when they've messed up, get angry/upset on themselves, and make-up for it, with their ACTIONS of love and support rather than words. Abir is just a personality who verbally owns up to his mistake and apologises directly too. Mishti on the other hand, appreciates Abir for who he is, and accepts her flaws infront of him,

her THANKYOUs were equivalent or even more meaningful than any verbal apology❤️

@bold: WORD uru! Have nothing more to add. You said it all perfectly👍🏼👏👏❤️

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

totally agreed Uru even though i love kunal supporting Abir but i just wanted to hit him whenever he behaves so casually to kuhu calling her biwi, haq hai and all that... he is taking her for granted n using her... he needs a reality check yaar... kuhu is almost reaching her limit soon after knowing everything she is gonna break n go ahead with divorce n maybe come back to mah house... this time kunal helped mishbir so next track is gonna be kunals turn he will realize what blunder he did, and he would want to win over kuhu n there mishbir can help him and kuku will start afresh... help means not getting into their issue but support their sibling n give their emotional support..

actually KuBir bond is something i have come to understand now... they have that non judgmental, keep it separate bond... they trust each other go to each other for help but they dont involve in each others issue... Abir clearly said to her he doesnt want to involve her in this as he doesnt want her to be stuck between family.. she too trusts Abir more than others.... if he had informed her she would understand... their bond is purely based on individuals unlike MishNal who are getting together bcoz of their common love for Abir... i want to see how these two bonds grow mishnal n kubir...

completely agree diya! Now that Kunal has finally patched up with Abir and building a positive relationship with Mishti. It is about time he starts taking responsibility for Kuhu and the marriage. He's having a very nice character graph in terms of supporting mishbir, but he has a long long way to go in handling his own relationships with Kuhu.

Like Kunal said before: "mein cheezein handle nahi kar patha hu" and Naanu always points out how different Kunal is from Abir when it comes to understanding people, feelings and relationships. Kunal is ZERO with handling complicated relationships. that's why he fell for Meenu's manipulations which appeared to him like direct business deals; if I do this then that = this result. But the rest of us know, relationships are not straight easy equations, they are way more complicated.

So I'm looking forward to seeing how the writers deal with Kunal's growth as a life partner and husband. He has lots to learn. I'm sure Abir will help teach him🤗 And Kunal in return can help Abir with ngo business plans and prevent Abir from blindly trusting everyone😆😆

@Bold: nicely said👍🏼 Ku-bir relationship is quite distinct to all the others. They respect each other, but don't involve themselves in personal matters. Only when one openly comes to ask for help, then the other gives the hand of help. Otherwise they just let the other be and deal with their problems separately. Kuhu is clearly sandwiched between the two families, her behaviour and decisions have always been impulsive, she never really overthinks and contemplates the consequences of her words or actions. That's why this Kuku divorce is so important for BOTH kuhu and kunal to re-discover themselves and mature as individual people, before re-building their relationship👍🏼

xx

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I'm emmoosnal dear😭.. Thinking at last our MishBir are getting married😭😆

ahh achaa khushi ki aansu eh?

Me too I'm getting all the feelz😭😒❤️🤗🥳 All mixture😆

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Nandu🤗

Some times I think do the original writes reverb think about all this🤔😆

The one reason why we adore MishBir is we as fans are able to see the soul connection between MishBir😃..n we go deep discussing it....

But after the initial breakup track.... Many of us were upset about the reason that we've kept MishBir ka love in such a high pedestal that if something wrong is done by the writers than we'll absolutely hate it😆

What u said is absolutely true.. Reading this n understanding MishBir have😳

haha ikr! I also feel the writers don't even have a clue how far and deep we analyse and think high of mishbir😆😆 Or they just don't realise how high they set the standards of mishbir during the first 100 episodes of the show...and now they struggle to keep the same level, to meet trp, and ITV drama expectations🤔That's why the initial break-up by Abir was so hard to digest, because they had tweaked with both Mishti and Abir's innate behaviours, just for Baba track drama But the essence was not ruined, mishbir's connection is stronger than any of that👍🏼

Absolutely, when we truly see and feel Mishbir's soul connection, we really respect and admire the beauty of the writing and direction🤗

❤️❤️❤️

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Both Rajvansh n mahas failed Yaara.

Both the families are responsible for current state of all the children

1. Be it Kunal n Kuhu

2. Be it nannu

3. Be it MishBir

Yaar aasa kyu hota hai

N yes they have not shown Mishti reaction to that talk of bade Papa n jas😆....

I really want Mishti to know what all had happened between Abhir and nannu.. What nannu has done

She trusted nannu blindly... She needed him as her friend n not as her life ka decision maker😡😆

Very correct yaar, the families remind me of a dialogue of dil dhadakne do movie " is family mein sab upar upar se baat karte hain , andar ki baat toh koi karta hi nahin " 😆😆

No one has guts to call out the elephant in the room....they don't address the real issues and keep on finding temporary solutions to problems....everyone knows thoda thoda ...no one knows the actual reality , if we talk about kuku mishbir or even nannu ....from elders of the house who is their go to person? Where do these 5 kids go to when they need some real guidance....? No one ....🤔🤔 And that is sad ....they all keep it on themselves and andar hi andar ghut te rehte hai saare and meenu takes unfair advantage of all from time to time 🤔😆

Yes the truth should definitely come out , mishti and others should know what nannu is upto ....he is gone crazy and if not controlled on time , the consequences are dangerous ....extremely dangerous

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

haha ikr! I also feel the writers don't even have a clue how far and deep we analyse and think high of mishbir😆😆 Or they just don't realise how high they set the standards of mishbir during the first 100 episodes of the show...and now they struggle to keep the same level, to meet trp, and ITV drama expectations🤔That's why the initial break-up by Abir was so hard to digest, because they had tweaked with both Mishti and Abir's innate behaviours, just for Baba track drama But the essence was not ruined, mishbir's connection is stronger than any of that👍🏼

Absolutely, when we truly see and feel Mishbir's soul connection, we really respect and admire the beauty of the writing and direction🤗

❤️❤️❤️

That's absolutely true Yaara...... Writers don't think even half of what we think Yaara...

We love MishBir n love the way their story was shown..... Hence we have that attachment😃

Just copy pasting from LU: my 2 cents on Nish and Vatsal😊

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Here it goes...

Before watching Tuesday and Wednesday haldi episodes, I had read lots of comments over social media against Nishant and Vatsal's acting. Here's a few things I will like to point out in disagreement:

disclaimer: Ofcourse, I do not agree with Nannu's behaviour and goal to win Mish and defeat Abir. I too believe that this nishmish rishta is wrong on many levels, but there is substance and decent depth to Nishant's character that gives him the space to slide into the grey negative side.

• Nishant is not equal to monster Meenu. He does not have unnecessary hatred against one character. He doesn't emotionally control and threat his loved ones. He is simply very insecure, troubled and confused being who has lost his mind and ability to think straight due to his deep psychological issues. Unlike Baba's sudden negative flip; The makers have gradually and nicely built up Nishant's background as an ex-alcohol addict, who still has struggles with overcoming his guilt. recovering addicts take very long to be confident to say that they are completely free of addiction and have strong control on themselves to not fall back into relapse. Nishant is still very much in the process of recovering and very susceptible to his weakness of alcohol. On top this, he has deep anxiety issues linked with his guilt from childhood towards mah family (lower degree of ehsaan than Mishti has).
• This is where I have to give credit to Meenu and her clever attack. She found Nishant's weak-spot very well (his addiction and insecurity with Mishti), she also targeted Mishti's weak-point again (her ehsaan for family) and also hit the mah family exactly where it hurts (Nishant's addiction) Well played Meenu, Well played [and then she ruined it by dropping the doctor's report #typical]
• The best part about this flipping of Nish's charc is the fact that he KNOWS he is doing the wrong thing. He can see and understand that he is joining hands with Monster meenu. He berates himself for choosing that path, but his psychological state of mind, stops him from correcting it (or owning up to it), His insecurity and anxiety levels are so high, he self-assures himself that what he's doing his right because he thinks Mishti is in the same situation as him - the state of addiction. Nish believes that Abir and their pyar is a detrimental addiction for Mishti, after seeing Abir consistently push Mishti away, hurt her so deeply emotionally, Nishant as protector has convinced himself that Abir is a forbidden drug that Mishti should not get attached to.
• The real problem begins when Abir genuinely and calmly tried explaining to Nish about why this shaadi should stop. Abir knows Mish is too emotionally invested with the family that she will find it difficult to say no to the rishta. So his next choice is convincing Nish. So Abir tries his best to calmly explain why mishbir break-up happened, why their pyar is special and why this nishmish rishta is disaster for all 3 of them. This is where Nishant loses it. For some reason, the writers took Nish's issues quite extreme to an obsession kind of stage suddenly. Unfortunately, Nishant has suddenly dug soo deep into this Abir vs Nish and 'prize' is Mishti concept(disappointed with writers for never keeping a 3rd angle as pure friendship with lead why to force one-sided love?)
• So I will condemn the writers for dragging Nishant down so much that they showed recovering addicts and those who suffer from extreme anxiety, to lose empathy and sympathy. The fact that Nish knows Abir is missing, potentially injured and god-forbid perhaps sinking to his death, the writers used his anxiety issues to justify that he wouldn't call for help or tell the other back home!? Very disappointed with this portrayal of such psychologically disturbed individuals. No matter how troubled Nishant is, he can clearly see and understand that Abir's life is at stake, and he chooses to save himself?! This is very very hard to digest

Now on to Vatsal:

• Straight off the bat I'm gonna say; unpopular opinion: Vatsal did a wonderful job acting as the drunkard, insecure and frustrated man. Honestly, his drunk acting and dialogue delivery with Mishti and Jas, was very very good. I could clearly see an exhausted, drained and troubled Nishant.
• I've really enjoyed the gradual solo scenes of Nannu. All the monologues, the fidgety behaviour and restlessness have been executed really well. We got a really good insight into Nishant's thought process
• Other times when Nishant randomly becomes super jumpy, excited and happy, I do find it a little exaggerated. But I guess that's an acting choice. If we I can survive Rupal mam's "MEIN MEENAAAKSHI RAAJVANSH", I'm sure Vatsal's "naughty!!" is way more easy on the ears
• I guess the part where more improvement may be needed, is anger and confrontation scenes. Vatsal tried his best at the hospital in his fight against Abir. His delivery of dialogue at shouting decibels is often difficult to understand. It gets mumbled and lost in the emotion and loudness of shouting. [But Rhea on the other hand is spectacular Cannot praise her enough, ALL the confrontation scenes of Mishti from the very first mish-kun gd break, to the latest mishbir patchup, each and every sequence she nails it. Her voice and delivery is pitch perfect and crystal clear] Shah just has sheer magnetic presence and dhaansu solid deliveryMaybe also due to Vatsal's shorter stature, it was difficult to be convinced that Nish was furious. Shah as angry Abir at the hospital was super intimidating

Anyway that's all I think I have to say so far. Waiting to see how the writers, continue or put a closure to Nannu's character. Hopefully he gets proper treatment

disclaimer2: Just want to re-iterate, I don't support Nishant's actions or behaviour. I'm simply trying to cut him some slack. He is not demon-like or devil like Meenu or Baba. He has reasons (no matter how weak or illogical they may be) - addiction and anxiety are real problems.

Woah this was waay longer than expected. sorry

Thankyou for listening me ramble on and on and on Let me know what y'all think

xx

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

totally agreed Uru even though i love kunal supporting Abir but i just wanted to hit him whenever he behaves so casually to kuhu calling her biwi, haq hai and all that... he is taking her for granted n using her... he needs a reality check yaar... kuhu is almost reaching her limit soon after knowing everything she is gonna break n go ahead with divorce n maybe come back to mah house... this time kunal helped mishbir so next track is gonna be kunals turn he will realize what blunder he did, and he would want to win over kuhu n there mishbir can help him and kuku will start afresh... help means not getting into their issue but support their sibling n give their emotional support..

actually KuBir bond is something i have come to understand now... they have that non judgmental, keep it separate bond... they trust each other go to each other for help but they dont involve in each others issue... Abir clearly said to her he doesnt want to involve her in this as he doesnt want her to be stuck between family.. she too trusts Abir more than others.... if he had informed her she would understand... their bond is purely based on individuals unlike MishNal who are getting together bcoz of their common love for Abir... i want to see how these two bonds grow mishnal n kubir...

Words yaar ...kunal and kuhu are not talking facts at all 🤔😆 ....and that is where the real problem arises ... but today I found thoda ajeeb, one scene kuhu was worried about abir bro missing and next scene she was all smiles , dressed up , excited 😆😆

That's very true yaar diya , you rightly pointed it out... mishnal bond has abir as the base whereas kubir bond was purely out of their own character interaction, they didn't bond over a person....I love their keep it separate attitude actually ....

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Uru maybe thats why both girls almost are dependent first kuhu was ready for marriage n she is more of herself in rjv, and mishti is more dependent on abir.. they dont share anything with the family or involve them in their issue... family has somewhere failed to make the kids feel home... i dont know something is off between the kids n family...

Haa yaar I wrote something in my previous post...they remind me of a dialogue of dil dhadakne do " is family mein saare upar upar se batein karte hai , asli baat toh koi karta hi nahi hai " 😆

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