Why dont you ask your RKB to not fall in love with Ishita? He didnt listen to us in 6 years he might just listen to you! Lol jokes apart! If Ishita is so goody two shoes and is double faced why do u think Raman fell head over heels in love with her? What might have attracted him to her? She is definitely not hot and sexy or fashionable as Shagun, she is very moderately fashionable girl next door, she is beautiful but simple so what is it? And if that is taken out of the equation you think RKB can be healed? You need to ask these questions before calling Ishita names! As the qualities you are bashing her for are exactly the things he likes about her and her ability to do the right thing irrespective of the people or situation is what he admires cause deep down he knows she is the light of his life and will never let him do anything wrong and that precisely the reason he went to Ishita to ask her to be his strength in Amma accident track when he realised he went overboard with Adi and need to correct himself cause he knew she will be on the right side and does hold a courage to do the right thing, why not go to Mihir his best friend and confidante? ...also she rebuked Raman cause her family was involved, Raman sent them to jail so she went to studio to expose him! Also they kept crossing each others way even initially as they were neighbours which was natural and the banters were natural too as might happen between two neighbours who cant see eye to eye. Shagun has always been a non entity for Ishita, just Ruhi's mother! She never even saw her as Ramans wife! Her existence only bothered her when she used to divulge some past details of how they were as a married couple otherwise Ishita has always been indifferent to Shagun! And you only want to change people you stay with or in love with, so she fighting with Raman is justified being his wife and not fighting with shagun is also justified as she never felt the need to justify herself in front of outsiders.
I see! So you read my rant post ignoring my humble "sensitive-fans-do-not-read" request! Interesting!
Well..thats okay! I can sense the anger in your post and honesty I am not feeling bad at all. You like her and so you have all the rights to defend her! But at the same time there is another prevailing right! And that is, everyone is entitled to their own opinions! My opinion about the FL stems from my beliefs of how I expect her to be! There is no denying that Ishita thinks well for everyone but when her Jan-kalyan projects creates discomfort in the lives of her near and dear ones then that doesn't sit well with someone like me who believes that family is above everything...above one's own values also! If Raman is asking her to maintain some distance from Shagun because Shagun reminds him of his bitter past, is evil and might create problems for them then what good is she doing to Raman by bringing Shagun back in their life time and again! Is this your idea of a good wife who prefers doing social-service at the cost of his husbands peace of mind!!!❓
Next let straighten out some facts about Raman- Ishita -Shagun equation strictly using what was shown:
1. also she rebuked Raman cause her family was involved, Raman sent them to jail so she went to studio to expose him!
So the queen of kindness believes in taking revenge also! Thats kindness-overloaded!
2. Shagun has always been a non entity for Ishita, just Ruhi's mother! She never even saw her as Ramans wife!
And thats why during the time when Raman was defending Shagun in the hit and run case, she told her Amma that she sees a lot of love in Raman's eyes but that love is only for Shagun-his first wife and not for her! She also told Raman that she knows he loves Shagun very very much and she is fine with it as she was his wife! He can lover as much as he likes but she expects a little bit of responsibility for herself too as she is his LEGAL wife!S She umpteen times told herself also that Raman Shagun se kitna pyaar karte hain aur kyun! So see, it very clear that she never saw Shagun as Raman's wife! She always thought that Shagun is some RANDOM women whom Raman loves dearly😉! After all, Raman is such a womanizer you see!! 😆
3. Her existence only bothered her when she used to divulge some past details of how they were as a married couple otherwise Ishita has always been indifferent to Shagun!
#And thats why she brought her home when she was lying on the road drunk and wasted! She could have checked her in a hotel room! But no! She not only brought her home but took her to her husband's bedroom because thats what all of us do when we are indifferent to someone! See how unconcerned she is!🤣
#And she asked Mihir to be Shagun's brother and take care of her and support her in her marriage with Ashok! Why? Because thats the most important thing we do to prove that we are indifferent to someone!😉
#She told Mihika that Shagun deserves great things in life in spite of what she has done and she needs her help in making things better for her! How uncaring! Thats indifference 101! She only did this because this is the most common thing everyone does to prove their indifference! Show deep care and concern to people we are indifferent to! Interesting! Haan! 😎
And remember, I haven't even watched one tenth of the show so far! I am sure she would have created many more milestones by not caring about Shagun because she is indifferent to her!
Now, RKB falling or not falling in love with Ishita is not up to me to decide! He is a fully grown man with a mature mind and kind heart! I being a well-wisher will eventually learn to like whatever he likes! After all his happiness is all that matters! I am not someone who will prefer to stick to her values even if that means ignoring her loved ones happiness! 😉
Now just for the sake of argument, lets try to analyse the fact of Raman falling in love with Ishita from a slightly unconventional perspective! We all know very well that he is a Gentleman. He managed to a love a women like Shagun who hardly cared for his family and rarely reflected back his love! Even when she is not the Mother-Tersa-Ishita type, he still cared for her! He would have spent a lifetime with her even if she hadn't abandoned him! So isn't it a lot easier for him to fall in love with a wife like Ishita who is loyal and a better person than Shagun and who takes good care of his family as part of her routine work! Do you think he would cease to love Ishita if she stops caring for him and his family! No! He would still lover her as long she doesn't betray him! So one doesn't need 6 years of viewing experience to understand that a man like RKB will always love his wife if only she doesn't cheat on him!❤️
And by the way, I don't know if you are a fan of RKB or not but if you are one then you stating the facts in bold that RKB's type of girl is someone who is hot and sexy and fashionable then you are not only ignorant , you are also insulting him! How can you think so little of him? Do you think he is that superficial? If there is something which is clear as daylight about RKB is that he is not a man who goes after skin-deep-beauty! He is someone who craves for love and loyalty only! And the qualities of Ishita which you mentioned are things which will make her a likable person for absolutely anyone! Everybody likes a person who tries to please everybody! Raman can't be an exception in this context!
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