Is Rashmi really the victim in the Arhaan situation? - Page 4

Originally posted by: peeyara

COpy pasting my post from DDT:

2 cents on Rashmi-Arhaan:

Its clear that Rashmi agreed to do BB for sake of Arhaan which directly implies that Rashmi-Arhaan romance bit was scripted!

But then several controversies started against Arhan projecting him in bad light and controversies of such nature that couldn't be ignored!

BB got trapped in its own making. If they hadnt let Rashmi know, they wud hv got backlash from her family and fans plus morality wud have been questioned as to how they cud allow destruction of someone's life by keeping them in dark. So BB being BB found a smart way to kill 2 birds wid a single stone - let Rashmi be aware of whats happening outside(morality ticked) and it will grab eyeballs too!

BB must have been relying on Rashmi's outburst and ugly break up on national tv which eventually will get them TRPs but Rashmi flopped it big time.

Rashmi genuinely loves Arhaan I feel cause she was upset over son bit but she was confused about how to handle it. Rashmi have iterated again and again how Arhaan has helped her emotionally during her lowest time. That compassion and help didnt allowed Rashmi to completely mistrust him.

Then this weekend she was told by guests, paras and salman about his road comment! Now she is torn between what she knows and what people are telling her.

She comes across as total non-confrontional type on national tv. She is valuing her dignity by keeping mum about this issue and not shouting out her lungs on Arhaan.

She took right decision to handle it gracefully on national tv and wash her dirty linen outside show.

Her state of mind is being confused - she is neither attacking Arhaan nor trusting him completely.

Had she still trusted him blindly, she wud hv been big fool and if she had lost trust on him on the sign of first chink, she wud hv insulted her love! Love doesnt come without trust and if at first instant had she broken up, I, for one, would have questioned her love.

She has taken a middle approach to this complex situation and IMO she is handling it with dignity!

People are mocking and judging her and shaming her but her sensitivity must be considered. You love some guy and people imcluding family are telling you stuff against him and he is swearing his innocent, how would you deal with it? Trusting him completely means defying family and not giving him benefit of doubt means insulting your love. Its catch 22 situation for her.

All in all I feel it started as scripted but its aint scripted anymore!

Sensible and neutral views on Rashami-Arhaan issue! 👍🏼

@peeyara , @silentsilver

You both have summed it up very well. I have been saying the same in other threads. Rashmi obviously took up the show to help Arhaan gain visibility. She signed up for the showmance bit ( only to an extent though...never seen the two get really mushy or indulge in too many sweet talks. Pahira and sidnaaz have given us more of those.) If one wants to call that bit scripted, it is.. None of what unfolded later was scriped and Rashmi looked genuinely clueless. Even Arhaans ex Amrita said she had no idea about the kid and she was living with him for 5 years. I do not think Rashmi knew at all.

Not sure why people expect Rashmi to give dramatic reactions openly... that obviously doesn't come naturally to her. Shes time and again said that she doesn't want any drama in her life as she's looking to settle down soon.. she was never going to react like vishal and madhurima did on NB. Her reaction convinced me that none of those revelations were scripted... had Rashmi gone OTT with her reactions, people would have blamed her even more for curating a whole love - break up story onscreen. Shes actually been asking /listening to hints that the guests are dropping for her... she even asked Hina what she should do.

Whats worse, shes actually being blamed for getting Arhaan into this mess when her only intention was to help him out.

Originally posted by: -PD-

Thank you so much for writing this.

My thoughts exactly. It started as script to end up with marriage but rumours coming out made BB change his script.

Rashmi coming to BB for Arhaan statement is one way of contract breech which Rashmi or Arhaan cannot do except colors. Generally they never reveal such things at all but colors was forced to say it because of Arhaan rumours.

Rashmi handled the situation very maturely and i really appreciate her.

She gave benefit of doubt only and only to Arhaan till her brother came. She got shock of her life on national TV. Her first question to Arhaan says alot " what exactly you told on national TV that my brother came to warn me"...

Rashmi emotions are not scripted but real

I missed this. This was probably the red flag for Rashmi..even after the letter task, she was telling vikas how important it is for her to communicate with her family at this point.

Option 2 - it was all scripted.

It's complicated just like their relationship

Their showmance was for sure scripted and she herself accepted that she came here for arhan but all this show is doing is tarnishing his image badly.. So I believe it's a mix of both

But whatever it is.. Please stop this nonsense