only to say 'Love' at the end? - Page 2

Originally posted by: sweetmagic4u

I don't think it's fair to generalize all guys...

Some might really start out as friends and fall into love..

Some might be the type you and Gauri said, "maatlabi" only to get what they want..

And some like Return_to_Hades said, might be shy because of cultural restrictions..

Interesting post 😊

so whats the way to find these some from all 😕

Originally posted by: anon

No i disagree, not at all many girls feel that. Depends on the society you live in. Western Culture would not feel that as much as Eastern. 😳

I do not think it is correct that Guys only make fiends to say ILY at the end of it. Not certainly with manyof the guys i will daily talk to in school, as that what school is for mixing, talking etc...

Yes i have come across cases where the aim to be friends was to get close, but mostly in daily life no, you talk, become friends and if love happens then it happens naturally....not because that was the intention. 😛

-Saira

Nice views Saira.. what i think is that now-a-days, these guys makeup girls's mind like they are feeling for us like hell. even these girls scared b4 doing friendship

Originally posted by: * A P P L E *

so whats the way to find these some from all 😕

*shrugs* experience I guess😳 get to know the boy before you make friends with them😊

Originally posted by: * A P P L E *

so whats the way to find these some from all 😕

I would advice not trying to over simplify or complicate things. Human behavior is complex and cannot be classified or judged, at the same time it is simple enough not to lose sweat over. Go with the flow, follow your senses and instincts, second guessing the future and intentions does nobody any good.
Its a simple process really. You find someone attractive - but you cannot just go tell them I love you. You ask them out for a date or try to be friends so you can know each other better. If in due time you are sure you love them and express that, whats the harm in that.

Whatever the reason for a persons friendship, it does not change who they are. Yes things change there maybe requited/unrequited feelings that change things; but people are just people.