Riddhima’s Trust Issues.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I'll be honest, I can understand why Riddhima would do this. Lets not forget that she was given the biggest shock of her life when she found out that she was ADOPTED. Remember that? Having your friends or boyfriend lie to you is one thing, but your own family? I can understand why she would have a hard time trusting anyone after such a big shock. Plus, Armaan knew about that too. I agreed when he said to himself that it wasnt his place to say anything--its better coming from her parents. But she didnt see it that way, so in the back of her head shes wondering, "What else is he lying to me about?"

Rahul (who I love very dearly, hes a good guy) told her about Armaan's past...all of his girlfriends, climbing up into a girls room, staying out in the rain all night for a girl, cheating on a girl, etc. Again, another huge blow. Yes, I realize that he has changed, but I am looking into this situation from the outside whereas Riddhima is in the situation. He did all of those things to "woo" Riddhima....and shes wondering "Am I really the only girl in his life?"

Finally, Muskaan. I like her too, but its her family that scares the hell out of me. Those people are crazy lunatics who are just waiting to get their daughter married to Armaan. What is Riddhima suppose to think of all this????

I dont think that its fair for all of us to be like Oh Riddhima take him back PLEASE! As a viewer, I too want them back ASAP but we have to realize that these people all have a past which has affected them mentally and emotionally.

Trust me, I want them back as soon as tomorrow. But past experiences, immaturity and love wont let that happen soon. We have to be patient and not get mad at Riddhima for being who she is.

Edited by brownbutt - 17 years ago

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Posted: 17 years ago
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u really make me think bout dat ........
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Posted: 17 years ago
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yaa i agree,trust is built over a period of time....and ridz is right in hr part....but she cud say sumtimes things,more TACTFULLy....like she shudn't have said ki she still doesn't know wt's between her n armaan n is confused...atleast she cud have said...ki she's not ready yet...i think tht wud have sounded better...it'z necessary in a relation to express wt u feel...but the person in front of u shudn't be downrightly hurted.....tht's my opinion 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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but she is confused more over the times.... i think if she cant armaan then she should leave him!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Yup totally agree with you, I think Ridz has been through a lot, and you can't just blame Riddhima for whats going on in there relationship, Ridz would trust Armaan if he would let her. Like maybe if he told her about Muskaan, then she would trust him.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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yur right, but she have to think abt armaans feelings as well, and wht wud she do if she ws in armaans place. she hs to see to frm armaans point of view. agree dat riddhi is so hurted but thrs no fault of armaan 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanober88

but she is confused more over the times.... i think if she cant armaan then she should leave him!

correct.........juuuus leave him....😡...mean watelse she wann him 2 do......bu bhi karooo hadh hai yaaarrr.. 😕

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Posted: 17 years ago
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ok many times woh hurted ti but comm on shak ek baar hota hai baar baar nahi if you love someone then they must be a base of trust aur usne kia hi kia ta jab woh muskaan ke saath pujab gaya ta h? ok it was wrong ke usne ridz ko kuch kaha nahi ta but ok after that he was sorry aur ridz angry that was alo ok but what the hell usne use toli ridz par cheat kia ta and to hurt someones feeling like this over the top just as i said before i dident expect her to respond the kiss she could say armaan i am not ready for it lekin woh hai ke we all know that she still loves him but she said she is not sure about her feelings and he is just a friend for her then dose she care about whom armaan hugs or not
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Posted: 17 years ago
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yooooo man shes.....sooo daaammm... 😭
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ridz is just scared. She doesn't want to jump into a relationship, she wants to take her time. I actually don't blame her for that, given what her family did to her.

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