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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: geetika314

so why not hanuman taking babita name, only women have to take to proof they are proud of their partner and according to babita, surname is identity

Hone ko toh bohot kuch ho sakta hai. Like Mini practicing what she preaches?

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

LOLLLL.

Babita bhi dil ki buri nahi hai!

I'm fed up of everyone in the world telling her what's right and what's wrong. I'd rather let her make mistakes and figure out on her own what's right and what's not.

Agar surname se identity hoti hai then let her figure it out. Let her realise that.

Honestly, I don't see anything wrong here. She's proud of Hanuman toh kyun na rakhe uska naam?

Babita was never dil ki buri. Bechari now we are having to compare her with Lovely to make a point 🤔.

Mannn I don't even know what to say or analyze anymore. Pani saar ke upar se chala gaya hai. 🤪.

She can choose whatever she wants to as her surname. Point is she can be a Babita Singh and still an entrepreneur. Changing her surname shouldn't mean loosing her identity.

Ye shaadi sabse badi galti nikli teeno ke life mein 😆

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL once again, this promo is being completely misinterpreted and everyone is blindly blaming Mini for supposedly not wanting Babita to tie herself in relationships. 🤔


What Mini is talking about is not losing your identity in relationships.....yeh kab bola ki rishta hi mat rakho? 😕

A name is part of your identity....it's your choice how you want to keep it.....but you shouldn't be adding a surname to erase your own identity completely and lose yourself in that of your husband or in-laws. That's all Mini is trying to say. Uske liye bhi Mini ko gyaani aur pata nahin kya kya ka label mil raha hai.....LOL

I hope the execution doesn’t fall flat and message gets lost somewhere. Base here is superb.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Trust me its so frustrating to see Babita's character ruined like this. The only thing thats left to show is writers whitewashing Ashok and Babita apologizing to Ashok, which seeing the way story is progressing, I won't be surprised if Babita ends up apologizing to Ashok 🤪.

I didn't sign up for this either. Maybe I never understood this show or Babita's basic characteristics in 200 episodes after all.

Yup. And let's see how far they can go with it. I mean people are still hanging in there because of HS and Minnie, but let's see how far they can take this story with no growth of babita. Until now show progressed with her story. Babita moving out, her divorce, her odd jobes, her own business.... Let's see what exactly story is going to be if she's going to be nothing but a housewife sitting at home and being an emotional burden on everyone.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL once again, this promo is being completely misinterpreted and everyone is blindly blaming Mini for supposedly not wanting Babita to tie herself in relationships. 🤔


What Mini is talking about is not losing your identity in relationships.....yeh kab bola ki rishta hi mat rakho? 😕

A name is part of your identity....it's your choice how you want to keep it.....but you shouldn't be adding a surname to erase your own identity completely and lose yourself in that of your husband or in-laws. That's all Mini is trying to say. Uske liye bhi Mini ko gyaani aur pata nahin kya kya ka label mil raha hai.....LOL

At this point there are so many things that needs to be bothered about, surname change should be at the bottom of the list. Are these writers the same people who wrote first 200 episodes? Clearly at this point a redemption arc for babita is needed (sooner the better), but I don't see any signs of that happening. Maybe HS' Chachi would give some momentum to otherwise stagnant story.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Yup. And let's see how far they can go with it. I mean people are still hanging in there because of HS and Minnie, but let's see how far they can take this story with no growth of babita. Until now show progressed with her story. Babita moving out, her divorce, her odd jobes, her own business.... Let's see what exactly story is going to be if she's going to be nothing but a housewife sitting at home and being an emotional burden on everyone.

That’s what I wonder too. That how far show can go if we are to stick around only for HS and Mini. Third wheel stays at the same place without moving and in some cases, even moves backwards.

Show will get extremely stagnant if Babita doesn’t have a growth. And viewers resign which I see already happening.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Meghna_IshRa


And that too when only a handful of us have actually see it 😆...

I am going by your written update. 😆

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I feel that has already happened.

It's so frustrating that there's not a single good thing shown about babita since the wedding. How do writers expect us to like a show when one of the protagonist (I hope she's a protagonist) shows no signs of growth. And damage done so far is so bad that I don't see a redemption arc without 360° changes in personality.

And from what we saw in last 2 months or so, it feels like maybe writers didn't want babita's character to grow the way we expected. Maybe they're going to get her divorced for the second time (to prove the point that Ashok was not completely responsible for 1st divorce and then she'll understand about her own flaws). In any case, I didn't sign up for this. For me, PB is already down in the drain.

sometimes i feel writers have no heart. Do they even know what a real life woman like babita goes through in her life? Really sad to see the thinking of the writers now a days. I would request them to stop saying that this is reality, when the storyline is far far away from reality.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Through this promo, what I understood is, through Babita writers are throwing shades at different women characteristics. Not necessarily that only one woman would have it.

Like this identity bit. She has been gushing about losing herself in love since few days.
Saroj also has similar views. She said something like.. sindoor mein aap pe bahot jach raha hai. Sach Didi, Pati ke naam ka sindoor hi ek aurat ko khubsurat banata hai or something like that. Basically if you aren’t married, there is no worth to you as woman.

So this promo doesn’t only focus on Babita but all those women who thinks Sindoor, pati, suhaag are woman’s identity.

It’s a great plot only if the message gets across properly. These days I fear execution very much.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

LOLLLL.

Babita bhi dil ki buri nahi hai!

I'm fed up of everyone in the world telling her what's right and what's wrong. I'd rather let her make mistakes and figure out on her own what's right and what's not.

Agar surname se identity hoti hai then let her figure it out. Let her realise that.

Honestly, I don't see anything wrong here. She's proud of Hanuman toh kyun na rakhe uska naam?

meri bhi samajh main nahi aata. There is no connection between name change and progressive woman. Babita is proud of being hs wife, and if this is what she wants then there is nothing wrong in name change. Even when my hubby, before our marriage suggested name change, i was a bit reluctant. But during our engagement period of 6 months i realised he was such a good supportive person and many of my cousins and relatives personally called my mom to tell her how good and sweet your son in law is. I felt ke theek hai yaar, naam main kya rakha hai, if he can make me happy then he deserves happiness too. So i did not object at all. But this does not mean i have lost my identlty at all. I want the makers to be sensible in this case.

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