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Originally posted by: najma123

That's where you hit the nail! If my Dad had told me, I'd have gotten angry, but he's not my step Dad in who's house I am living. And if HS had said that after a few months, then it would have made more sense. Their marriage has been only s few days or weeks old at max, and things are raw and new. Saying that adds to the alienation.

You can question your kids! But not how Babita did it! Ridiculing her in front of her friends, asking her if she plans to cheat on her best friend etc. And going away wasn't fully right, and going away uninformed was wrong too. But I think the Babita-Mini conversation set the base for the confrontation. Mini is still pissed about the Meeta comparison, Babita needs to realise that, that comparison was highly out of line and once you say something that doesn't make sense or is wrong, the other person holds on to it and can't get anything else in their head.

And, the fact that she left uninformed, got lost in transit amidst Teri Shaadi Kaise hogi comment. Why would Babita bring in that unnecessarily?

I agree Hannie need to have talk...bjt again we wanted him to behave like a father and when he is doing it we only labelling him as step Dad.... Lol... Minni needs to understand that being a dad doesn't means that he will love her always but will also scold her and will say harsh words...

Baby did mistake of getting meets in here that too comparing Minni with her and this needs to be acknowledged... Hope the door it... HS should know it...

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Yes it was the same for me... She could have said no to him.. But she did go to meet him and lied to HS... If you think you were right then why did you lie...

so u think it was a breach of trust by mini to her parents or to preet. here we are talking about crossing the line with regard to preet with preet mickey a pair and mini mickey friends

and mini has always hid her late night gallery talks from babita and hs. naim bi even caught him once and i think HS also caught him once.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This is what I'm trying to say. There are multiple problems here: Minnie's rudeness and temper, Babita and Minnie having fights and HS not knowing all the details, Babita and Minnie's differences in opinions.

The point of this "talk" of his was not about the subject matter of the fight. It was about establishing authority and reminding both of them actually that there needed to be discipline and decency in the house.

To address the subject matter, there needs to be other talks or one-on-one sessions to deal with that specifically between Hanita and Hannie, but most important between Babita and Minnie. No matter how many times HS intervenes, it doesn't change the fact that mother-daughter have to discuss things. He cannot be policing them all the time (pun intended).

My point is not whether each of them is wrong or right. My point is that the reason/theme of this scolding was for a sole purpose from HS' point of view: to establish some order in this madhouse.

Do you know what I mean, Gur?

I completely understand that but I don't know if his approach was correct.

As for one on one conversations, I don't know if either of the women are in the correct head space for that. Kya baat karna chahiye ga aur yeh kya samjenge. Even between maa-beti, they won't understand each other as they're too caught up in their own heads right now.

Given the upcoming segments, I think it was effective to some point but I dunno for how long. Considering how they haven't addressed so many issues still, there's bound to be another fight between them all.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

I agree Hannie need to have talk...bjt again we wanted him to behave like a father and when he is doing it we only labelling him as step Dad.... Lol... Minni needs to understand that being a dad doesn't means that he will love her always but will also scold her and will say harsh words...

Baby did mistake of getting meets in here that too comparing Minni with her and this needs to be acknowledged... Hope the door it... HS should know it...

Originally posted by: najma123

That's where you hit the nail! If my Dad had told me, I'd have gotten angry, but he's not my step Dad in who's house I am living. And if HS had said that after a few months, then it would have made more sense. Their marriage has been only s few days or weeks old at max, and things are raw and new. Saying that adds to the alienation.

You can question your kids! But not how Babita did it! Ridiculing her in front of her friends, asking her if she plans to cheat on her best friend etc. And going away wasn't fully right, and going away uninformed was wrong too. But I think the Babita-Mini conversation set the base for the confrontation. Mini is still pissed about the Meeta comparison, Babita needs to realise that, that comparison was highly out of line and once you say something that doesn't make sense or is wrong, the other person holds on to it and can't get anything else in their head.

And, the fact that she left uninformed, got lost in transit amidst Teri Shaadi Kaise hogi comment. Why would Babita bring in that unnecessarily?

If he thought I should say this in few months the I wouldn’t be able to relate to that HS. The way he acted today is more in character- and he has been saying Minnie is rude for months now so this threat is not a shocker. Minnie has been warned before too by HS for that. This time he upped the threat. I find it amazing how much emphasis is being given to that one line when what Babita and Minnie said to each other is way way worse. If that can shatter their 17 years of relationship then what are the chances of that if HS has waited a few more months Minnie would have been okay??

Originally posted by: shazam1

If he thought I should say this in few months the I wouldn’t be able to relate to that HS. The way he acted today is more in character- and he has been saying Minnie is rude for months now so this threat is not a shocker. Minnie has been warned before too by HS for that. This time he upped the threat. I find it amazing how much emphasis is being given to that one line when what Babita and Minnie said to each other is way way worse. If that can shatter their 17 years of relationship then what are the chances of that if HS has waited a few more months Minnie would have been okay??

I think that Mini needs to stop lying and hidding things from her Babes if she is to move on now. If you cannot talk to your Mother properly and without respect and stop being over smart and taunting your Mother to cover up your mistakes etc.

I think had Mini has to be straight with Babes about Mickey and his Character as a romeo and 2 timing girls and chasing her and then settling in Preeti and Mini still going out with Mickey and midnight texts and climbing down Balconies to meet Mickey and falling into his arms every time. And worse was the passionate hug with Mickey and him running his hands on her hair and in front of his GF.

Should be a warning for Mini not to play with fire as all of this will be toxic fallout and better to be honest about it now and not later when it will be too late.

Maybe she should think of the Mita comment in this soulmate love nonsense, as what Babita said is not wrong looking at the trio, where 2 out of the 3 are not honest with the 3rd.

The bigger picture is why was she upset with the comment from Babita in front of her friends, has the toughts crossed her mind and its this that is the problem.

If she told all about Mickey to Babita with honesty than maybe Babes can help her.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Your parents do get a say in what they are comfortable with.. Micky Mini can decide and Babita can stop.. that's how parents and kids relationship work.. parents are supposed to stop their kids if they think their kids are crossing boundary..

Let's just say, Mini is quite vulnerable at the moment.. she is already conflicted about her feelings for Micky.. how long can it take for thoughts to change in such a situation?

you think if mickey mini do not be touchy or if they meet less there will be lesser chances of mini's platonic attraction turning into romantic attraction for mickey. Physical proximity is not the only thing required to develop romantic feelings or to fall in love . its a mental thing which has to be dealt with mentally. Here babita is only addressing the aspect of what people will say. You cannot stop love from happening not by by staying away nor by not talking. If mini feels romantic attraction towards mickey how she deals with it is the question. and the question is still if it happens

Originally posted by: najma123

I feel SO bad for the grandparents here. 😒 Seriously. I can feel their helplessness, they can't do shit. They are here taking favours from their former Bahu, who whatever said and done is doing them a favour. And they can just hope Mini has a place there and they can't feel it. Yeah, maybe they could have been stricter parents and retained their house and shit, but well, whatever, they are old. Their kids are gone. And only a granddaughter is there. And they see all this. I almost cried looking at that. It's so goddamn sad. Screw you Babita. I have had similar fights with my Dad and I can SO relate to Mini, I would have said the exact same thing, been defiant. The difference is, my Mom never incited my Dad to discipline me, and of course he's not my step Dad. So things work differently.

Screw you Babita. Seriously. 😡

Agree with u.I felt extremely bad for mini and even for grandparents.