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I feel SO bad for the grandparents here. 😒 Seriously. I can feel their helplessness, they can't do shit. They are here taking favours from their former Bahu, who whatever said and done is doing them a favour. And they can just hope Mini has a place there and they can't feel it. Yeah, maybe they could have been stricter parents and retained their house and shit, but well, whatever, they are old. Their kids are gone. And only a granddaughter is there. And they see all this. I almost cried looking at that. It's so goddamn sad. Screw you Babita. I have had similar fights with my Dad and I can SO relate to Mini, I would have said the exact same thing, been defiant. The difference is, my Mom never incited my Dad to discipline me, and of course he's not my step Dad. So things work differently.

Screw you Babita. Seriously. 😡

Originally posted by: tantal

How can a grown man. who is lauded for his sensitivity and wisdom, use a 17 yr old kid to prove a point to his wife? First babita and now HS is bashing, humiliating and demeaning Minnie in front of others (friends, grandparents) all in the course of one day. Is a 17 yr old not supposed to have any self-respect or dignity. They couldn't.. the two grown azz parents.. taken her to a secluded spot to speak their harsh comments?

He did say private conversation but the Khuranas were listening in, not that they could avoid it with his raised voice. LOL!

I am still trying to understand the segments given the way episodes have been lately

That said, Mini's decided of being a survivor was like ugh.. The makers are really overdoing this Mini's victimhood saga

Hanuman bringing in Ashok is as low as Babita bringing in Meeta. even more so because Babita vented out in frustration while Hanuman did it to make a point to Babita..

We are gonna get lots of Mini's victim saga in the coming episodes.. Just thinking about it enough to give me a headache

Also, Ashok didn't kick her out of the house. Like everyone here stated, she left on her own free will. Moreover, he wanted her back in the house.

He even tried to pressurise Babes when he got them a cab to go home once because meri beti's safety and all that. Minnie never left her Babes because it was her choice.

Originally posted by: tk2015

They're not. That's the entire issue. They're not talking the way they used to. We've not had a single scene of HS coming home from work and Minnie just talking non stop all around him.

The entire essence and foundation of Hannie has been altered. If they don't talk, Babes will get restless and move in to try and make things better. It's another story that she ends up making everything worse.

I still don't see anything wrong in Babita provoking Hanuman to invoke discipline in Mini.. that is one of the basic jobs of fathers.. She should have narrated the whole incident though.. That one is where she went drastically wrong

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold this is ironic, right?

She wanted to see her mother make her own decisions, but when Babita has started to do something that contradicts what Minnie wants, she is concerned that her mother is no longer the same person. So yes, she has to deal with it.

Exactly.. I am not saying Babita has not been wrong... She definitely has been multiple times.. But then so has Mini.. But in Mini's mind, the whole problem is Babita and her ego.. Thats where the problem is..

Babita cannot be expected to have the same opinions as Mini and vice versa.. Both of them need to understand that.. Being close does not mean having the same brain

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Being rude is one thing. He has been harping on this for a while now, but the fact is that he still didn't ask her as to what happened. And if we look at it, Minnie was loud and rude to her during the selfish wala comment. With this whole Mickey fiasco, she has remained calm and spoken to her rationally. Even though her statements may not have been completely correct, her tone was much lower compared to Babita's. She was wrong to not pick up Babita's phone calls, so I'm okay with HS calling her out on that too. But Babita needed to be scolded too. To compare her teenage daughter to Meeta, and then humiliate not just her but also her friends? Come on, that's not right either.

I don't think Babita understood that. She just saw HS going too far with the house wala comment. I mean, isn't this what she wanted? What else did she expect was going to happen? And then the constant looks she was giving to Minnie's room and crying? Just why?? She already hurt Minnie so much and then on top of that she provoked HS even more and he yelled at his chhori even more and it's just all so messed up now.

This is what I'm trying to say. There are multiple problems here: Minnie's rudeness and temper, Babita and Minnie having fights and HS not knowing all the details, Babita and Minnie's differences in opinions.

The point of this "talk" of his was not about the subject matter of the fight. It was about establishing authority and reminding both of them actually that there needed to be discipline and decency in the house.

To address the subject matter, there needs to be other talks or one-on-one sessions to deal with that specifically between Hanita and Hannie, but most important between Babita and Minnie. No matter how many times HS intervenes, it doesn't change the fact that mother-daughter have to discuss things. He cannot be policing them all the time (pun intended).

My point is not whether each of them is wrong or right. My point is that the reason/theme of this scolding was for a sole purpose from HS' point of view: to establish some order in this madhouse.

Do you know what I mean, Gur?

Originally posted by: tk2015

Also, Ashok didn't kick her out of the house. Like everyone here stated, she left of her own accord. Moreover, he wanted her back in the house.

He even tried to pressurise Babes when he got them a cab to go home once because meri beti's safety and all that. Minnie never left her Babes because it was her choice.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This look sums up the entire episode for me. I think it was bloody brilliant what the CVs did in this episode. I can't believe I'm saying this but after ages things made sense.

aniruddh's acting...👏

only performances r left to applaud .