Proof of Family - Page 12

Hanuman did not shower love on Mini to impress Babita.

He never said that. He just said that he called himself her father on Pooja day to assure Babita.

But He loves Mini. His assurance to Babita doesn’t take anything away from His Love for Mini!

Assuring Babita and His love for Mini are two separate things.

Just coz he wanted Babita for himself and fell for her without Mini being in the picture, doesn’t make him the bad guy. He was alone for 7-8 years. Coming to an empty haveli, living in darkness and loneliness, there’s nothing wrong if he desired companionship. If he fell attracted towards Babita, it’s still makes him human. I found his confession really honest and real.

We keep expecting Babita to not be guilty of her wants and desire, shouldn’t the same apply to Hanuman? Why should he be guilty for falling for Babita before he considered Mini, his daughter. It just doesn’t meet up with the narrative that members here running with, Hanuman wanted to marry Babita to keep Mini, and that’s the disappointment.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Why is she constantly labeled Imarti ki beti?

HS can’t see her as his own daughter unless he first sees her as Imarti ki potential daughter?

Just like Babita needs everything spoon fed to her, HS can’t accept anything unless an Imarti parallel is drawn to it? 😕

Mini can never be his daughter for her own self? It has to always be in the shadow of Imarti or Babita? 🤷‍♀️

There is a very good reason for all this, I am guessing. Sure, he sees in her the daughter he never had with Imarti. He doesn't stop yearning for what could have been a beautiful family with Imarti and he's still not over her.

That fear and missing haq of HS which eventually will need to be resolved so that he can claim her as his daughter without needing a third person in their equation.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Hanuman did not shower love on Mini to impress Babita.

He never said that. He just said that he called himself her father on Pooja day to assure Babita.

But He loves Mini. His assurance to Babita doesn’t take anything away from His Love for Mini!

Assuring Babita and His love for Mini are two separate things.

Just coz he wanted Babita for himself and fell for her without Mini being in the picture, doesn’t make him the bad guy. He was alone for 7-8 years. Coming to an empty haveli, living in darkness and loneliness, there’s nothing wrong if he desired companionship. If he fell attracted towards Babita, it’s still makes him human. I found his confession really honest and real.

We keep expecting Babita to not be guilty of her wants and desire, shouldn’t the same apply to Hanuman? Why should he be guilty for falling for Babita before he considered Mini, his daughter. It just doesn’t meet up with the narrative that members here running with, Hanuman wanted to marry Babita to keep Mini, and that’s the disappointment.

I agree. Everyone has their own priorities in life and love. I don't think it's fair to compare his emotions for Minnie with anyone else or to try and weigh them. This is what pissed him off too yesterday.

Originally posted by: inlieu

There is a very good reason for all this, I am guessing.

That fear and missing haq of HS which eventually will need to be resolved so that he can claim her as his daughter without needing a third person in their equation.

They don’t even provide us with good reasons for the HS Mini equation in general these days. You really think they will bother giving us a reason for why a third person is always needed in the equation? 🙄🤷‍♀️ Sigh.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

They don’t even provide us with good reasons for the HS Mini equation in general these days. You really think they will bother giving us a reason for why a third person is always needed in the equation? 🙄🤷‍♀️ Sigh.

Who knows? These days it's hard to expect or predict anything.

I can’t speak for others but I personally never said that HS should feel guilty for falling in love with Babita. I very much view his love for Mini seperately from his love for Babita.

What I take issue with is the over obsession he has developed with Babita off late at the cost of Mini. The writers have skewed the relationships in a contrived manner IMO.

I think Babita's character was always super messed up and they have retained that. Her sudden, I am the Mother avatar is going nowhere. I loved it when Mini said, Ladka jugadlungi 🤣 Serves you right, Babita. As a mother, she needs to know HOW to convey things to her daughter who's 18 years old. She can't randomly bring up Meeta analogies, so if the rest of her supposed life lesson is lost, it's because she brought that. And that is SOLELY because she listened to Kammo. Kammo is NOT a benchmark for societal thinking. Nobody in that area gives TWO shits about their life except for Kammo and Khatri. Ki farak padta hai Yaar. Let them think whatever.

And HS' character going for a downhill is the worst. I still don't understand why he had to question her on the CD issue. It's almost as if, in that scene, there were two parties, Babita who had switched sides from Mini to HS with HS and Mini on the other. That's where I see it right now. But all three of them were cohesive.

And, getting married to Babita meant accepting Mini too, if not as HIS daughter but as his wife's daughter. So questioning her about the CD was big time wrong, and believing her only after proof, was heart wrenching but Mini would take time to get over it.

But Babita randomly springing this Mickey issue, relating it with HS, her marriage, his being a father or not being a father. She's out of hand. She doesn't know how to hold different things together. And right now, Mini is defiant. HS, is on a proving spree. Why does he have to prove to Babita is beyond me. You can't prove shit to her. Uggh.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I can’t speak for others but I personally never said that HS should feel guilty for falling in love with Babita. I very much view his love for Mini seperately from his love for Babita.

What I take issue with is the over obsession he has developed with Babita off late at the cost of Mini. The writers have skewed the relationships in a contrived manner IMO.

My post wasn’t directed at you. I don’t think I ever read a post of yours where you said - HS wanted to marry Babita to keep Mini with him.

There were a lot of posts pointing towards disappointment in HS and I couldn’t quote all so I made a general reply about it.

I understand your POV. HS is definitely in Babita zone more than he is thinking about Mini and her needs. Sometimes I feel it’s organic other times I think it’s deliberate attempt of writers to isolate Mini. so I am conflicted on that front that why HS is total ignorance mode for Mini. Coz I do understand he is newly wedded in that lattoo over Babita phase. But at the same time his not pondering over Mini’s state of mind is so unlike him.

After seeing todays episode, one dailouge comes to my mind which I had heard long long back in a serial, no idea which one in which kanwalajit Singh says

"jab MA ya Baap ki dusari shaadi hoti hain toh unke bache teesre Ho jate hain"

Right now minne is feeling confused & lonely

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I understand your POV. HS is definitely in Babita zone more than he is thinking about Mini and her needs. Sometimes I feel it’s organic other times I think it’s deliberate attempt of writers to isolate Mini. so I am conflicted on that front that why HS is total ignorance mode for Mini. Coz I do understand he is newly wedded in that lattoo over Babita phase. But at the same time his not pondering over Mini’s state of mind is so unlike him.

Based on today’s update, it seems more and more like it’s a deliberate and contrived attempt to isolate Mini.

Warna aise overnight incompetent nahin ho jaate Log. HS is a newlywed, fine. But that doesn’t excuse how overtly they’ve shown him neglecting Mini. They are literally enjoying creating convoluted situations simply for drama. Nothing organic about this right now.

I just feel so exhausted. Episode bhi dekhne ka Mann nahin kar raha.

PB once used to be about a positive heartwarming feeling....now it’s just constant negativity.

There is no direction to the plot points anymore. They just keep dragging out the drama for the heck of it and deliberately not showing the characters communicating cuz communicate kar liya toh sab solve ho jaayega 🤷‍♀️