Proof of Family - Page 11

Originally posted by: Jiarao

This seems to be their intention but it's not working for me one bit. Even in yesterdays episode I could feel the immense love he has for Mini . May be I am wrong here but I think there is much more to come from his side. After so many days we heard Mini's pov regarding CD issue but we have yet to hear HS pov. When we hear that we might get some answers.

Whatever CVs show I will never believe HS showered love on MIni to impress Babitha. Yo baat phinal hai. The guy is simply incapable of even thinking that way.

Yes, I guess HS ka POV from the CD fiasco is still pending. He apologized for not trusting Mini but he still hasn’t fully explained what his thoughts were regarding the father angle he raised that day.

I don’t know if he will say anything unless Mini questions him about it or explains how she still has that hurt inside her 🤷‍♀️

I don’t doubt HS ka immense love for Mini. Hum Babita thode na hain 😆

What the writers are trying to show is that he called himself Mini’s dad only for Babita ki khushi....they aren’t showing that he didn’t otherwise love Mini.

Waise honestly bolun? This is way too twisted for aam junta to process. Hum Logon ke liye difficult ho raha hai toh aam junta will find it even harder to distinguish the points. Writers have twisted this too much in trying to show faltu drama. There were better ways to show HS Mini ka struggle and hurt with figuring out this bond.

Toh I don’t know TRP junta ko Kuch samajh bhi aayega of this twisted execution 🙄

Originally posted by: naq5

@ bold there is a way to talk to mini and explain her to keep boundaries intact was the way to go about it. Not ask her to break friendship with mickey. And mickey preet are dating mini will have to stay away from preet too that way. And i will say this again mini needs mickey in her life as a friend now. what happens later if they develop romantic feelings is another case. im sure mini will not cross her boundaries even if that happens and babita needed to explain that to her. But has babita maturely ever talked to anyone. can babes understand and be a friend to mini and give her a perspective the way mickey gives?ifshe cannot replace someone in mini's life she cannot ask her to let go ofher friends like that.

Babita’s approach was very wrong. She could have set down with Mini and asked her what’s the deal with her and Micky.

Mini when came back from doctor’s visit with her grandparents, should have told Babita — you don’t want to keep relation with Dadu Biji, fine. They are my grandparents and they are old. I will meet them and take care of them.

What did Mini do? Guilt-tripped Babita.

So both haven’t been rational in their reactions or arguments.

I think both need to introspect a lot. They haven’t had a decent discussion since proposal. Babita and Mini, in their anger always a go at each other but they come around. Let’s see what happens this time.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Babita too has taken a stand for Mini a lot of times.. when Mini wanted to change her surname.. it was when Mini was brought into equation and was getting affected that Babita had the courage to go ahead with diborce.. So Babita too always have utmost importance to Mini

If Mini really understood Babita, she wouldn't have left her wedding to console her grandparents.. she wouldn't have called Babita seofishfor standing upto Khuranas or giving importance to her marriage.. she wouldn't have given a clean chit to lovely.. she would have understood why Babita was finding it hard to forgive Hanuman for his character remark

There have been many instances when Babita and Mini both have not understood each other

First stand was when Meeta was accusing Mini of being poisonous teenager. and Babita stood up.

She always does for Mini.

kheer - tu chha jati hai yar with your posts. Very balanced and covers lot of points. Brilliant!

Originally posted by: tantal

That's why I am kind of surprised that more people are not noticing how HS's character has suddenly been showing such gaping holes.

People are talking about this a lot on social media. Many are really disappointed and angry.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Writers need to be move forward rather than circling back over and over to past scenes and conversations and giving them ulterior meanings

Enough already

Clean up yer mess and move the F on

Just give me one episode where everybody is where they are supposed to b

Mini in school

PB at her biz

HS at police station

NB doing her presidential duties

Just one normal siapa free epi

You are asking for too much. Lol!

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I agree. Mini’s loneliness was so piercing despite having her friends around her.

When she said, “ main itni bhi brave nahin hoon”, it just broke my heart and I so badly wished for HS to show up somehow and tell her that she will always be his brave girl🤗

Remember that scene during the depression track when only he could get through to Mini? When he told her ki Ab itni bhi brave banne ki zaroorat na hai, and she broke down and hugged him? How I loved that scene. Sigh.

So yes, Mini needs him. And he needs her. But he is too caught up with Babita ke endless dramas 🤷‍♀️....Babita ki aakhein padhne mein busy hai Ab toh Mini ko kaise samjhega🙄

Atleast one question got answered yesterday. Mini did want a father in her life. And she did start to feel HS could be that person before it got all twisted.

Itne delicate relationship ko repair karne ki bajaaye Babita is stomping around like a bull in a china shop 🤦‍♀️....not even an iota of cognizance in this woman of how to manage delicate relationships.

Yes. That's what I took away from Minnie's dialogs too, that being with HS stirred in her some kind of yearning for a father, something she had never quite thought about before. This was her first step towards acknowledging that there is a void in her life, one that only HS can fill. It was very much needed because without this feeling she would never be able to accept him as her father.

Don't expect me to forget how Imarti's essence passes on through Minnie and how she has already taken on bits of HS' legacy. Or how even Nanu felt she could have been Imarti's daughter. It's all in there but everyone's blind to it.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

This seems to be their intention but it's not working for me one bit. Even in yesterdays episode I could feel the immense love he has for Mini . May be I am wrong here but I think there is much more to come from his side. After so many days we heard Mini's pov regarding CD issue but we have yet to hear HS pov. When we hear that we might get some answers.

Whatever CVs show I will never believe HS showered love on MIni to impress Babitha. Yo baat phinal hai. The guy is simply incapable of even thinking that way.

Aap ke moonh mein ghee shakkar

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, I guess HS ka POV from the CD fiasco is still pending. He apologized for not trusting Mini but he still hasn’t fully explained what his thoughts were regarding the father angle he raised that day.

I don’t know if he will say anything unless Mini questions him about it or explains how she still has that hurt inside her 🤷‍♀️

I don’t doubt HS ka immense love for Mini. Hum Babita thode na hain 😆

What the writers are trying to show is that he called himself Mini’s dad only for Babita ki khushi....they aren’t showing that he didn’t otherwise love Mini.

Waise honestly bolun? This is way too twisted for aam junta to process. Hum Logon ke liye difficult ho raha hai toh aam junta will find it even harder to distinguish the points. Writers have twisted this too much in trying to show faltu drama. There were better ways to show HS Mini ka struggle and hurt with figuring out this bond.

Toh I don’t know TRP junta ko Kuch samajh bhi aayega of this twisted execution 🙄

Totally agree, that the regular audience will struggle to get all this, especially those who joined recently. We analyze all this and still struggle so much. What about them? Lol!

Originally posted by: inlieu

Don't expect me to forget how Imarti's essence passes on through Minnie and how she has already taken on bits of HS' legacy. Or how even Nanu felt she could have been Imarti's daughter. It's all in there but everyone's blind to it.

Why is she constantly labeled Imarti ki beti?

HS can’t see her as his own daughter unless he first sees her as Imarti ki potential daughter?

Just like Babita needs everything spoon fed to her, HS can’t accept anything unless an Imarti parallel is drawn to it? 😕

Mini can never be his daughter for her own self? It has to always be in the shadow of Imarti or Babita? 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I agree. Mini’s loneliness was so piercing despite having her friends around her.

When she said, “ main itni bhi brave nahin hoon”, it just broke my heart and I so badly wished for HS to show up somehow and tell her that she will always be his brave girl🤗

Remember that scene during the depression track when only he could get through to Mini? When he told her ki Ab itni bhi brave banne ki zaroorat na hai, and she broke down and hugged him? How I loved that scene. Sigh.

So yes, Mini needs him. And he needs her. But he is too caught up with Babita ke endless dramas 🤷‍♀️....Babita ki aakhein padhne mein busy hai Ab toh Mini ko kaise samjhega🙄

Atleast one question got answered yesterday. Mini did want a father in her life. And she did start to feel HS could be that person before it got all twisted.

Itne delicate relationship ko repair karne ki bajaaye Babita is stomping around like a bull in a china shop 🤦‍♀️....not even an iota of cognizance in this woman of how to manage delicate relationships.

@bold yes I also remember that scene when Minnie said this. It was so beautiful. The way he could not control his tears seeing her in that state. ❤️