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Originally posted by: divyadaya13

we think it is sadistic. But after a long time todays episode was so true and related to real life. Kehna aasaan hai baap beti jaisa relationship, but jab tak shaadi nahi hua tha it was asaan.but after marriage will mini be able to take hs ka full on haq wala mode? Beti banna chahti hai toh use hs ka discipline bhibfollow karna padega. Babes ko jaisa baat baat pw lecture deti hai waisa ho nahi sakega hs ke saath😆 aur jaisa khuranas ko ghar lane ke liye babes ko lecture deke emotional blackmail kiya waisa hs ke saath nahi kar payegi😆

Originally posted by: najma123

I don't think Mini interfered after their marriage, actually I liked that scene when she tried to patch them up without interfering. And, forcing him to be the father when he never signed up for it is too much. To be honest, they should have sat and discussed all this stuff BEFORE the marriage. A second marriage is tricky, especially with kids involved. At least they could have shown Mini and HS talking and clearing shit out. And moreover, I think Mini taking the mantle for the wedding and such a grand wedding was pointless. They could have kept it simpler and easier. Coz I think during the course of the wedding, things changed.

No, not post marriage, but pre marriage. After her patch up with HS, she kept trying to get them together and speed up their courtship, when really she should have left them alone and proceed with things at their own pace.

That's the problem with them all. They all just presumed things and ran with the shaadi. No body asked Babita what she wanted out of the wedding, but apparently she wanted a father for Minnie only. Minnie wanted a husband for Babes and maybe a father but she wasn't entirely sure. HS on the other hand, wanted both a wife and daughter but isn't really getting either.🤔

Loll, we've all said enough about Minnie and her controlling nature during the shaadi. I don't really have the energy to go through it all again. 😆

Originally posted by: najma123

I think they already lived like a family, a simple marriage, a slight change in equation would have done them wonders. Half the time, one or the other ends up thinking about society, or some other shit.

They had a much more beautiful, connected and organic relationship before marriage. Has there been a single HS-Minnie scene apart from the GP (which wasn't just between them anyway)? Has there been a single mom-dughter scene where they were just talking to each other like earlier? Every relationship seemed to have suffered after the wedding

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I know I'm not making sense. But I read that Mini said she sacrificed her career for Babita. But who told her to do that? Regret karlo ab karna hai toh but why blame Babita?

That is what she said. It sucks but it's not the end of the world. She's only 17. She can apply again and still make her career. Now that I think about it, her crying over her career was a bit absurd since she's still in school and studying. So kaunsa career sacrifice kiya hai isne? 😕

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I know I'm not making sense. But I read that Mini said she sacrificed her career for Babita. But who told her to do that? Regret karlo ab karna hai toh but why blame Babita?

Originally posted by: tantal

They had a much more beautiful, connected and organic relationship before marriage. Has there been a single HS-Minnie scene apart from the GP (which wasn't just between them anyway)? Has there been a single mom-dughter scene where they were just talking to each other like earlier? Every relationship seemed to have suffered after the wedding

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That is what she said. It sucks but it's not the end of the world. She's only 17. She can apply again and still make her career. Now that I think about it, her crying over her career was a bit absurd since she's still in school and studying. So kaunsa career sacrifice kiya hai isne? 😕

The photography course. That too I wouldn't take it as a sacrifice exactly. They didn't have any sort of funds for expensive education and Babita wouldn't have got a loan too.

Jo bhi hai, be a sport and own it up girl. And now that you feel it then go ahead and amend it! Kisne roka hai?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That is what she said. It sucks but it's not the end of the world. She's only 17. She can apply again and still make her career. Now that I think about it, her crying over her career was a bit absurd since she's still in school and studying. So kaunsa career sacrifice kiya hai isne? 😕

Originally posted by: najma123

Why not? She need not be disciplined to become his daughter. Strict parents don't always have model disciplined kids.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

hs is not strict he is a sensible man. And the way mini behaves with people around her needs to be handled with discipline. And discipline dosent means to be overtly strict. But even she has to learn where not to cross the line.