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Just one random thought I got after watching the precap- HS might be saying that on purpose so that Mini impulsively retorts that nahi aap father nahi ho mere.

Cause putting up a facade about this is even worse.

Pata nahi yaar. This whole family shit is coming off as extremely fake now. It's like kuch sach hai hi nahi, bharosa hai hi nahi.

Mini wasn't clearly selfless in helping Babes and that is why she's upset. She wanted something in return it seems which she didn't get.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I just don't get why though. He's her husband now, toh ab kis baat ka darr hai isko? It's like HS said, they can put up whatever front they want to the world but they should at least be honest with each other.

Sometimes I just want Babita to let HS be so that he can have a moment of peace.

Yeah I understand your frustration. I truly do, and I probably would have been frustrated if I was in HS’s place having to constantly explain to her. But that’s who Babita is. It takes her time to accept things, to come to terms with things. Because Mini blames her for loosing her control over her feelings, she doesn’t want to accept that whatever she felt for HS during their dosti time was attraction or love even. However, you see how she kept looking elsewhere and not directly towards HS, that’s because she knows he’s speaking the truth but she is in denial mode right now. I agree with everything HS says barring the attraction pre-divorce because that’s not how it was shown to the audience (writers seem to have forgotten idk but I will ignore that).

However, she will accept it it seems and will also apologize for HS. So let’s see. I have a little bit of hope from Babita. Hopefully writers don’t ruin this 😆

I liked the episode. All 3 of them.

So Kammo said 2 things..

1. dosti dosti ka swang rachakar.. khel khel rahe the Hanuman And Babita. (Something along the lines)

2. Gaay ko kabu mein karne ke liye.. bachhde ko kabu mein karna padta hai.

Now HS said their truth is they were always attracted. True. May be surface level but attraction was always there.

From Babita’s side May be after divorce coz until then she had so much going on.
After divorce - when she left the job, she came to HS and asked him - is he disappointed in her? She was sorry to let him down. Bhai aap landlord ko let down kiya aisa kyu sochoge?

Even though Babita denied having any attraction, her denial was so downer. No energy wala. Naa bolne khatir naa bola. There was no vajan. felt like she was done running away from it!


so yeah HS is right about feelings being there.

He agreed that Kammo’s words were partially right. He was pointing towards point 1.

Babes mind ran with point 2. Kammo’s words about gaay and bachhda analogy.

And her worst fear stood in front of her eyes.

Mini’s trust being broken is totally understandable. Her feeling suffocated in the house. Not feeling it’s her home. This is 17 years old. At that age, this type of thinking - pretty normal. I could totally see where she is coming from. She is bit stubborn though. She never fully reflect on her own mistakes. And she is always sure that how she deducts the situation, how she concludes - is the final deal. Well that’s not how it is. Long life ahead so hopefully she will learn!

I liked Precap. After Hospital track when HS was telling Mini about her anger, he told her - ghar ke bahaar khada kar dunga.

My house had the same rule growing up. Never raise your voice on Mom or disrespect her. My father wouldn’t take it. All other things we had all the freedom in the world. But not shout at Mumma. Even if she is wrong. Nope! So I can understand where HS is coming from. True to his character.

Let’s see how 3 of them find their way to each other. I am hoping by Diwali. I really wanna see some nice happy celebrations in the Haveli. Please writers 🙏

Originally posted by: najma123

I swear. Everything else kept aside, this was bad. And Mini's reason that he trusted her only after the proof is SO valid. And I don't understand. Before the marriage when Mini was in hospital, HS was almost like a father figure, but what changed? Moreover, I am absolutely detesting Babita's thinking here. She does nothing to diffuse the situation, but everything to flare it up further.

And, genuinely, just coz two people have remarried, it does not mean, the guy has to love the kid like a daughter. They need to get along well. Which they do. HS-Minni got along SO well, there was no need to stamp a name on their relationship.

What changed were the writers and their writing style. 🤔

Loll, Babita was just a tad bit too much for me today. Both Minnie & HS laid out what was in their hearts and mind and yet all she had was na, na and more na on her lips. Like, problem kya hai, yeh toh bata de. 😵

Exactly! And who decides what a baap-beti rishta looks like anyways? It differs in every family. Heck, even within families that rishta is different. The kind of relationship that my dad had with his, or my brother has with mine is different than the one I have. It doesn't diminish the relationships in any way.

Babita shouldn't interfere in the baap-beti rishta and Minnie shouldn't have interfered in Hanita's. They both should have let each other be.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I liked the episode. All 3 of them.

So Kammo said 2 things..

1. dosti dosti ka swang rachakar.. khel khel rahe the Hanuman And Babita. (Something along the lines)

2. Gaay ko kabu mein karne ke liye.. bachhde ko kabu mein karna padta hai.

Now HS said their truth is they were always attracted. True. May be surface level but attraction was always there.

From Babita’s side May be after divorce coz until then she had so much going on.
After divorce - when she left the job, she came to HS and asked him - is he disappointed in her? She was sorry to let him down. Bhai aap landlord ko let down kiya aisa kyu sochoge?

Even though Babita denied having any attraction, her denial was so downer. No energy wala. Naa bolne khatir naa bola. There was no vajan. felt like she was done running away from it!


so yeah HS is right about feelings being there.

He agreed that Kammo’s words were partially right. He was pointing towards point 1.

Babes mind ran with point 2. Kammo’s words about gaay and bachhda analogy.

And her worst fear stood in front of her eyes.

Mini’s trust being broken is totally understandable. Her feeling suffocated in the house. Not feeling it’s her home. This is 17 years old. At that age, this type of thinking - pretty normal. I could totally see where she is coming from. She is bit stubborn though. She never fully reflect on her own mistakes. And she is always sure that how she deducts the situation, how she concludes - is the final deal. Well that’s not how it is. Long life ahead so hopefully she will learn!

I liked Precap. After Hospital track when HS was telling Mini about her anger, he told her - ghar ke bahaar khada kar dunga.

My house had the same rule growing up. Never raise your voice on Mom or disrespect her. My father wouldn’t take it. All other things we had all the freedom in the world. But not shout at Mumma. Even if she is wrong. Nope! So I can understand where HS is coming from. True to his character.

Let’s see how 3 of them find their way to each other. I am hoping by Diwali. I really wanna see some nice happy celebrations in the Haveli. Please writers 🙏

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Well he kept saying how attracted he was towards Babita and that it was always love and all. So, all in all, I think for him he loved Babita first and then he started loving Mini, being father figure towards her (not necessarily to impress Babita), but he developed soft corner towards her because Mini reminded him of Imarti's choori. So, I don't know what the writers are trying to prove. Its contradicting statements.

Babita did understand HS though she was in denial mode, and she will because she apologizes for her behavior to him later on per the segments, and we also saw how she's totally basking in his love. She says she wants to take all of that and just wants to enjoy it. So, I feel after their conversation, she truly is trying her best. She's happy. One segment she also says "mein koi compromises nahi chahti, puri tarah doop jana chahti hun iss pyaar mein, bas woh rahe, mein rahoon aur teesra koi nahi". She's finally coming out of guilt, fear or perhaps log kya kahenge crap I feel. Of course, Mini will feel neglected in all this. But thats another topic all together.

I don't think there's really a point in arguing over who he loved first. He very well could have done it at the same time but the most important part is that he loves them both deeply.

Loll, HS is a HUGE softie considering how easily he forgives Babita. 😆 I really want some of her introspection. We've been getting a lot of it from HS and Minnie's POV, but never enough from Babita's. Hence, why I feel so disconnected from her at times.

It's funny how now she doesn't want any teesra in between her and HS when just a few weeks ago she yelled at HS for saying the same thing.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I liked the episode. All 3 of them.

So Kammo said 2 things..

1. dosti dosti ka swang rachakar.. khel khel rahe the Hanuman And Babita. (Something along the lines)

2. Gaay ko kabu mein karne ke liye.. bachhde ko kabu mein karna padta hai.

Now HS said their truth is they were always attracted. True. May be surface level but attraction was always there.

From Babita’s side May be after divorce coz until then she had so much going on.
After divorce - when she left the job, she came to HS and asked him - is he disappointed in her? She was sorry to let him down. Bhai aap landlord ko let down kiya aisa kyu sochoge?

Even though Babita denied having any attraction, her denial was so downer. No energy wala. Naa bolne khatir naa bola. There was no vajan. felt like she was done running away from it!


so yeah HS is right about feelings being there.

He agreed that Kammo’s words were partially right. He was pointing towards point 1.

Babes mind ran with point 2. Kammo’s words about gaay and bachhda analogy.

And her worst fear stood in front of her eyes.

Mini’s trust being broken is totally understandable. Her feeling suffocated in the house. Not feeling it’s her home. This is 17 years old. At that age, this type of thinking - pretty normal. I could totally see where she is coming from. She is bit stubborn though. She never fully reflect on her own mistakes. And she is always sure that how she deducts the situation, how she concludes - is the final deal. Well that’s not how it is. Long life ahead so hopefully she will learn!

I liked Precap. After Hospital track when HS was telling Mini about her anger, he told her - ghar ke bahaar khada kar dunga.

My house had the same rule growing up. Never raise your voice on Mom or disrespect her. My father wouldn’t take it. All other things we had all the freedom in the world. But not shout at Mumma. Even if she is wrong. Nope! So I can understand where HS is coming from. True to his character.

Let’s see how 3 of them find their way to each other. I am hoping by Diwali. I really wanna see some nice happy celebrations in the Haveli. Please writers 🙏

Bold - exactly! Mini got away with the WHOLE crap she said to Babita. HS would've been mad if he'd heard that.

This wouldn't happen in personal life. I would've been kicked out if I dare said something like that.

I love the discipline part but I feel they're not in the right zone of feelings at the moment to learn from this. Mini will think he's being very rude to her and may distance herself even more. And Babita might not be able to speak up against his avatar which will make Mini feel that now her Babes wouldn't stand up for her.

Whatever it is, the writers have sure become sadistic AF.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I've tears in my eyes reading only the update.

😵

You'll be fine. 🤗

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

What changed were the writers and their writing style. 🤔

Loll, Babita was just a tad bit too much for me today. Both Minnie & HS laid out what was in their hearts and mind and yet all she had was na, na and more na on her lips. Like, problem kya hai, yeh toh bata de. 😵

Exactly! And who decides what a baap-beti rishta looks like anyways? It differs in every family. Heck, even within families that rishta is different. The kind of relationship that my dad had with his, or my brother has with mine is different than the one I have. It doesn't diminish the relationships in any way.

Babita shouldn't interfere in the baap-beti rishta and Minnie shouldn't have interfered in Hanita's. They both should have let each other be.