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Originally posted by: najma123

Yeah, but posing a condition such as that, saying if you abide by my rules, you can be my daughter, otherwise not, is not what parenting is about. He can teach her lessons as a father or as an uncle or as a step dad, but those lessons cannot be prerequisite for her to become his daughter.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i have learned in PB that we cannot make judgements seeing only precap. So i would really wait for the next episodes as well as further episodes😊.

Originally posted by: najma123

I haven't even watched the episode. My response was only to what you had written. XD

Originally posted by: najma123

Yeah, but posing a condition such as that, saying if you abide by my rules, you can be my daughter, otherwise not, is not what parenting is about. He can teach her lessons as a father or as an uncle or as a step dad, but those lessons cannot be prerequisite for her to become his daughter.

his anger is purely out of anger/hurt which babita has caused . minni will bear the brunt , thus adding more to her misconceptions .

Originally posted by: tantal

They had a much more beautiful, connected and organic relationship before marriage. Has there been a single HS-Minnie scene apart from the GP (which wasn't just between them anyway)? Has there been a single mom-dughter scene where they were just talking to each other like earlier? Every relationship seemed to have suffered after the wedding

handiwork of writers !!

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I guess she never got him off that high pedestal as we thought she did. She still thought of him as being that perfect figure for her.

Or, it might be that she had thought he would be different than Babes. Babes bina baat pe uss par shaq karti rehti hai. Without thinking things through, she'll yell at her, slap her, kuch bhi. She had thought that considering all the time they have spent together, that at least he would see her differently. That he understood her as an individual, just like Mickey does. But chalo shaq kar bhi liya, aur ghusse mein kuch bol bhi diya, but he didn't come to speak to her about it later. He only touched the subject when he got proof that he was wrong. I had questioned this before too: had the correct CD not arrived, would he have continued to believe that Minnie really did such a thing? Would he have ever spoken to her about it or would they have carried on living in their own hurt and pain?

exactly what i feel too.

he dint trust her untill he got proof. like Arre yaar said he was too involved with babita and his hormones

And yes mini does think that he understands her better trusts her better, but in precap tomorrow he is behaving in the same way like babita giving ultimatums. now mini is an adult. how far are you going to clip her independence by telling she has to listen to all what babita says otherwise she cannot live in the house. She dosent earn on her own yet and is dependent on them financially. You cannot stifle a child like that. And secondly some children would take to talking like that and some will not. I dont think talking to mini like that helps. HS has first hand experience that explaining to her calmly helps better. The thing about parenting is that each child is different and needs to be treated differently. Mini already feels her mother dosent understand her if HS also dosent trust her then where does she go. Tomorrow if babita asks her to leave her friends and mini has to listen to her to stay in the house is it fair to her.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i had written based on todays episode thats why you can see the laughter emojis😊

Originally posted by: kriya_12

his anger is purely out of anger/hurt which babita has caused . minni will bear the brunt , thus adding more to her misconceptions .

Originally posted by: najma123

I don't think Mini interfered after their marriage, actually I liked that scene when she tried to patch them up without interfering. And, forcing him to be the father when he never signed up for it is too much. To be honest, they should have sat and discussed all this stuff BEFORE the marriage. A second marriage is tricky, especially with kids involved. At least they could have shown Mini and HS talking and clearing shit out. And moreover, I think Mini taking the mantle for the wedding and such a grand wedding was pointless. They could have kept it simpler and easier. Coz I think during the course of the wedding, things changed.

offcourse the whole grand wedding thing was futile .

this should hv been hanita's thing , them truly understanding what they r getting into , realizing from their experiences & what truly matter to them .

Originally posted by: tk2015

Exactly. Babes needs to come out of her fears and accept things to be the way they are. Society will always have something to say.

so mini was not wrong when she spoke about guilt. we just dint know the reason why she said guilt for loving HS but today HS did clear why the guilt was for