The complicated web of relationships - Page 8

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

mujhe laga ab toh shaadi ke baad mini will be shown interested in her future and career. Lekin nahin ab cvs are making her grandparent saviourafter her mom. This is too much.

I think this grandparents issue will get resolved in 1-2 weeks max and aage college stuff hi aayega Mini ka.....

As I said a few days back, they are resolving all the issues from the wedding day ek ek karke.....pehle HB ka kiya, phir HM ka.....what's left pending is the rift between Babita and the Khuranas....usko normalize karne ke liye hai yeh track.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think this grandparents issue will get resolved in 1-2 weeks max and aage college stuff hi aayega Mini ka.....

As I said a few days back, they are resolving all the issues from the wedding day ek ek karke.....pehle HB ka kiya, phir HM ka.....what's left pending is the rift between Babita and the Khuranas....usko normalize karne ke liye hai yeh track.

True... Babita is just thinking only the one side of the story... But the part does have her daughter and the elder khuranas with bond which she can never break... That she have to get it... U cannot force it kids not to meet their grandparents.. We know that Khurana were wrong but not completey...as said by Minni and HS Babita never claimed her rights... Ek kahawat hai... Anyay karna jitna bura hai use sehna bhi utna hi bura hai... She can't blame them for those 17 yrs completely... Yes she did seva and khuranans made her stay for the same as well and they never treated her like family when they have to choose her and their kids they always chose Their kids... But u know Babita gave them that chance to do with her....

And just staying away from them will. Not erase her past she have to deal with it just like how she dealt with Ashok...with Ashok Minni was not attached but with khuranas Minni is very much attached she can't make Minni to cut ties with them just like that...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

As I mentioned in my post, nobody compelled her to maintain the relationship with them post the divorce....she did that on her own.....LOL so why now the presumption that she will be compelled to do so?

Babita has proven that most of what she says is not really what she's thinking....time and time again....and you still take her for her word? 😆

As I said, I'm willing to bet she will herself unravel and make up with the grandparents....she is projecting all this bitterness right now to hide whatever twisted emotions she has of her time with them.....as usual, it's some fear driving her that will have to be talked through.

Fears that need to be talked through... surely we see a pattern that could be better addressed by.... a therapist? I wonder if they will be bold enough to show her going to see one. HS and Minnie can only do so much. She needs an expert.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL why are you acting surprised? Isn't Mini being mocked since morning for "putting Babita through this"? 😆

And why won't she hide things from Babita given how Babita is reacting? She's proven once again that she doesn't care about the hiding....she just stubbornly wants Mini to break off from the grandparents.

Babita scope kahaan rakhti hai communication ka? She just gives ultimatums to people....lol and people are expected to work around them.

I can't blame Mini this time...she's in a very tight spot because she cares about her grandparents and cares about her Mom too....her Mom unfortunately is as usual caught up in her own head and hasn't taken a moment to consider her child's emotions....suddenly she's forgotten how attached Mini is to her grandparents.....lol

I don't blame Minnie at all, and especially not for hiding this because as you said, there's no scope to have a proper conversation about it without all hell breaking loose. Doesn't mean it's the right way but Minnie's showing signs of being tired of babying her mother too. I think her outburst is partly because of that. Also it makes sense why HS would ask about the Khuranas staying over by talking about it from NB's perspective instead of Minnie's - Babita just wouldn't understand this. Sure, it's better to tell her directly but she's not at that stage where she can maturely handle things. This can't go on for too long, he'll have to stop shielding Babita at some point.

I know things haven't been so good between HS and Minnie recently but I am still really glad he's around. She needs an anchor of sorts as this whole situation with her grandparents is making her feel quite insecure. That look on her face when she overheard Irfaan... jeez.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

🤣....Tu itna gyaan without watching the epi de rahi hai?😆

I'm not a fan of the Khuranas either and I very much remember the selfish things they've done....but I'm talking about the realities of life.....old age mein sab saath chhod dete hain.....but kisi ko toh step up karna padta hai.....is it always "fair" who ends up being the one taking responsibility? No it's not....but life isn't always fair....you work within what you get....there are no perfect solutions.

And same.....main bhi wohi soch rahi thi....Babita herself has seen times where she was helpless and homeless in a sense.....tab HS ne madad ki, NB ne madad ki.....ab wohi log Khuranas ki madad kar rahe hain when they are in a helpless state toh chubh raha hai? lol sab apne apne perspective se hi dekhte hain.

Neither are the Khuranas saints, nor are they monsters.....and same goes for Babita.

@bold and this came up again. If NB wanted to, she could have refused to help the parents of the guy nearly cost her son his job, but she chose to help them in their time of need.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Why is Mini madam not thinking about calling Lovely and Ashok and letting them know of Khuranas's situation? Mini itni samajdaar hai, apne dadu-beeji ki taklif samajhti hai, so she needs to call her biological father or her aunt and tell them to come and sambhalo their responsibility. At the end of the day, it is Khuranas's children that should take care of them, not Hanita, not Mini.

LOL, I think Minnie has no hope that her father or aunt are even up for this. Both are useless.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Oh and the other thing that made me laugh so loud was irfaan saying why khurrans don't live with their kids despite them being well setlled hahahahah the pot is calling kettle black🤣 Irfaan mian aap kyon NB ko saath nahi rakh sakte despite being a lecturer at aligarh. Apna dikhai nahi deta dosron pe ungli uthao pehle khud aine main shakal dekh lo apni. I wish Hanuman said that to him vada aaya kahin ka chahudhry

HS nahin to NB zaroor bolegi Irfan ko ek din. Waise bhi kaafi din ho gaye unki gaaliyan suney huey,

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Arey but he did say in the last scene with Khatri na that he wants to take his mom with him😆....that's his grand plan apparently....to sell the house and take his mom back with him to Aligarh.

But mujhe toh lag raha hai ki he wants to kill two birds with one stone....ghar bech ke paise milenge and NB ko saath le jaayenge to take care of the kid while the parents work.

HS aajkal neutral observer mode mein hai....kuch nahin bolega😆....bachpan ki dosti ka lihaaz and all😆

I think HS is wise if he chooses to remain neutral in this for now at least. Life mein kam siyappe nahin hein kya?

He will step in when NB needs him.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Exactly.

I also don't think it will make any difference whether Khuranas move in or not..1. ..Mini will keep running to them anyways, so Babita will still be affected by things regardless if she acts so rigidly.....it has to be handled sensibly.

Complicated situation hai toh thoda impact toh hoga hi on all three of them...2..I just want to see some development of HS-Mini ka equation.

3.HS-Babita ka toh what to say😆.....she's still mostly in her own head....two way street nahin hai so far.

2. This is what I am concerned about. If not a true father-daughter they can atleast go back to Hanuman uncle-Veer balika equation. I miss their conversations.

3. Once she becomes indifferent to Ashok and Khuraanas their relationship may actually evolve into true companionship. I liked it yesterday that he did not mask his worries with smile infront of her. She could notice it.