The complicated web of relationships - Page 10

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Hopefully Babita won't have the brilliant idea of buying the khuranas their own old home back 😕

Also, about the BA exams of Babita, Biji has also said that she made her finish it just so she could tell her neighbors that her DIL is college educated... Purely selfish motivation on her side

I don't think BTW that Babita would have the time to care fore the khuranas as before anyways cause of her own business which she should be back to soon. They have felt quite entitled though in the past, e. g. The mango ice cream scene.

The Cd issue is ambivalent but that might even have been a coincidence... Or has she kept it on purpose, I can't remember the episode when she got rid of the other stuff?

They have been entitled because she doesn’t speak up and communicate....she’s spoilt them with all the years of Seva...she did it because she wanted them to like her....they expected it because she was their DIL....so kind of selfish motivations on both sides without genuine intent.

In all this, somehow, living 17 years together, they do have a soft corner for each other....mixed in with all the twisted emotions. That’s the sense I get.

Oh, is buying their old house back for them an actual option? 😲 I think the issue at this point is more that they can’t be alone and need someone to take care of them. Maybe Babita can hire a caretaker for them.

Re: CD....Babita specifically said on the wedding day that she had deliberately kept the CD hidden away deep in her closet somewhere under layers of other things. She had to have taken it with her when she left Ashok’s house.

She burnt all the other stuff from her marriage after the divorce but for some reason, the CD itself stayed🤷‍♀️....so it seems she still has baggage that she is repressing under layers just like she stored the CD away under the layers in her closet.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

They have been entitled because she doesn’t speak up and communicate....she’s spoilt them with all the years of Seva...she did it because she wanted them to like her....they expected it because she was their DIL....so kind of selfish motivations on both sides without genuine intent.

In all this, somehow, living 17 years together, they do have a soft corner for each other....mixed in with all the twisted emotions. That’s the sense I get.

Oh, is buying their old house back for them an actual option? 😲 I think the issue at this point is more that they can’t be alone and need someone to take care of them. Maybe Babita can hire a caretaker for them.

Re: CD....Babita specifically said on the wedding day that she had deliberately kept the CD hidden away deep in her closet somewhere under layers of other things. She had to have taken it with her when she left Ashok’s house.

She burnt all the other stuff from her marriage after the divorce but for some reason, the CD itself stayed🤷‍♀️....so it seems she still has baggage that she is repressing under layers just like she stored the CD away under the layers in her closet.

All the years when ashok was away it was only the cd which babita watched & rewatched. watched it more than she ever interacted with ashok. Remember mini telling Ashok how her babes keeps watching the cd to get a glimpse of him. the cd did hold a lot of value for babita then.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I liked that she sensed he was worried about something too but I still don’t really get a sense of a unit from them.

Babita is too much in her own head all the time....she’s more comfortable with him now, yeah but the sense of true companionship isn’t there.

Remains to be seen how/if the writers develop it to that extent 🤷‍♀️😆

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

No body said that Babita is wrong... She have full. Right to take her own decisions but she dint have right to force them on Minni even if she is her mom... Mini is almost 18 and mostly she have only raised her to be independent then why is she expecting Minni to say yes to whatever she says....

And most importantly nobody is forgiving Khurana not even Minni have but she is considering them bcoz they are her Dada dadi and old age ppl who are almost abandoned by their kids... Then what do suppose to do leave them on streets if irfan asks them to go or taking them to hospital doesn't means Minni have forgiven them bcoz sh knows they are equally responsible... Is that the case then HS should not have taken care of his father who was worst than Khuranas but he did bcoz he was his father and his duty but he had never forgiven him for abusing his mom.... The same goes to Minni.... It's her duty to take care of them as their kids are not bothered about them....

But neither Minni nor HS are forcing her to forgive them... Bcoz they know it's difficult for her... But she also needs to understand that Minni can't break the ties just like that.... If that was case then she should not go to Khurana when Minni was suffering from depression....

And getting away from past doesn't means to run away from it... I have to face it and should be in peace with it so that it shouldn't effect ur present and future....

Originally posted by: naq5

All the years when ashok was away it was only the cd which babita watched & rewatched. watched it more than she ever interacted with ashok. Remember mini telling Ashok how her babes keeps watching the cd to get a glimpse of him. the cd did hold a lot of value for babita then.

Oh that's too bad then. It's not holding on to her memories of those years then but just to the illusions of it as she would have wanted it to be. And in a way it is a good contrast to her 2. Wedding where she cannot hold on to an illusion because it wasn't picture perfect at all so she should be able to focus on the actual marriage at some point, Cvs willing...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh, is buying their old house back for them an actual option? 😲 I think the issue at this point is more that they can’t be alone and need someone to take care of them. Maybe Babita can hire a caretaker for them.

Don't worry, I was just contemplating absurd scenarios how the immediate problem of not having a place to stay at could be solved🙃🙂 I still think the whole issue will lead to the opening of yet more rooms in hs's haveli do other stories of rather traumata can surface.. As an addition to the Minnie-Babita issues

Originally posted by: naq5

All the years when ashok was away it was only the cd which babita watched & rewatched. watched it more than she ever interacted with ashok. Remember mini telling Ashok how her babes keeps watching the cd to get a glimpse of him. the cd did hold a lot of value for babita then.

Oh wow this CD had been mentioned in the story before? I didn’t know that....I haven’t watched the early epis in detail.

In that case, it becomes even more obvious that she still has baggage associated with the mirage of her marriage with Ashok. So someone needs to talk to her about why she still saved the CD after the divorce 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Them being a unit will take time. She has to come out of her past and fall completely and truly in love with him. Makers will find some way.

Waise I have to give it to the makers....they are showing that simply having sex in marriage doesn't mean you've truly and completely fallen in love.....it's just one aspect....there are many other things to navigate to get to true companionship.

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

Yeah no I totally disagree.It's actually dissapointig to see women here making such remarks and judgements. Oh well,such is society.ye to firvi fictional h,real life me people pass even worse judgy remarks .Internal misogyny sucks

I know... Real. Life the society comments are really irritating but do u really think if Minni leaves dadu beeji to their fate the society won't comment anything or if Babita takes care of khuranas the society won't pass any judgements no they will...

Aap kuch bhi karo society have to be judgemental... So bottom line is Society jaye bhad me do what u feel is right and what u wish... Jaise HS bolta hai.. As u wish is u like....

That's what is the point koi galat nahi hai everybody are right on their point of view...but koi bhi baat rakhne ki ek tarreka hota hai jo dono maa beti ko nahi aata... Ya phir baatein chupati hai ya impulsive reaction dete hai...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh wow this CD had been mentioned in the story before? I didn’t know that....I haven’t watched the early epis in detail.

In that case, it becomes even more obvious that she still has baggage associated with the mirage of her marriage with Ashok. So someone needs to talk to her about why she still saved the CD after the divorce 🤷‍♀️

yes cd has very much been in picture before.

1st or 2nd epi when ashok is coming back babita watches the cd along with mini.

A few days later when mini speaks to Ashok inspite of babitas warnings to take them to london with him, she mentions how her babes has over watched the marriage CD mostly everyday just to see ashok and cries and smiles while watching it, makes mini too watch along with it.

After the EMA truth is out Mini again talks about how babes kept watching the CD to see him and how much she waited for ashok.

The CD actually has been the main connect to Ashok for babita for those 17 years

I was actually annoyed why HS was questioning mini instead of babita as to why she even actually kept the CD. Looks like Babes is to too innocent and a tortured soul so no one questions her