Minilicious : ajao saray - Page 25

Originally posted by: naq5

well babita said something today they got angry because it was first time. Babita has never answered them back so they are used to it. If babita makes it a habit instead of going back n fro they will get habituated to it

speaking from what i have seen in real life, they would have gotten used to it had babita answered 17 years back. now they are used to a meek and docile babita. any change would be a big hit for them, specially their ego - jis bahu ne itne saal jawab nahi diya, woh aaj kaise jawab de rahi hain and all. how dare she.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i was just watching old episodes, and how babita speaks up to ashok. she had reached the end of her patience with him and hence spoke up and gave it back to him and did not feel guilty afterwards.

i think here she feels guilty with lovely, and by extension, biji and dadu becuase

1. she has not reached the end of her patience

2. mini's relation to these ppl and

3. despite all the bad moments, she has shared nice moments over the years with lovely, biji and dadu

when she comes out of anger and the heat of the moment, she becomes emotional and remembers those moments and feels guilty.

I completely understand Babes here.

Had a similar relationship with my Dadu. He was horrible to my mother but absolutely adored me. Now that he's gone, there's always this feeling of how I wish things had been different. There's still love for him but it's also tinged with guilt and regret.

For Babita, I don't know what the proportions of good-bad moments are with her. If the good outweigh the bad, then she'll be inclined to forgive them.

Not that they ever would, but they should apologize for the way they have behaved with her. Especially Beeji. 😡

Originally posted by: annx

But that is to show that not everyone can be fixed with positive attitude... All Babita did was to show them the real side, be with them, and be honest... Kamo and Madhu took in all the positivity, accepted it and learnt from it... Rano on the other hand, well she was their neighbour for 17 years... usko 17 salo me samjh ni ae ub khak ae ge... some people just never change!

As they say, you can't help people who don't want to help themselves.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I also remembered that invisible cousin! I hope we see bapu again and I have a feeling more Imarti flashbacks are coming up.

Oh goodness, it was bad enough seeing Babita upset and now we'll see HS crying too. My poor heart.

Oh gosh, I really don't want to see HS crying again. 😭

Aur yeh hai yaar. Har function se pehle itna rona dhona hora hai. 😵

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh gosh, I really don't want to see HS crying again. 😭

Aur yeh hai yaar. Har function se pehle itna rona dhona hora hai. 😵

He already cried when he walked off angrily after Babita was asking him to prove his love, now he's going to cry about Imarti.

Mhaare se na dekha jayega.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

yahi toh problem hai. Babita ne hs se itna kuch share kiya injustice with bahu ko lekar and aaj phirse wohi baat ki beeji lovely kya sochenge. It gets on my nerves.

That's what naa. Its the confidence issue. She herself thinks low about herself so validation from people around her becomes necessary for her. Absolutely imperative that people should and should think good about her.

This will go away with time, as confidence builds up.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But this is telling... He hasn't thought this all the way through, as to the emotional and practical implications of being her husband and truly giving her the place of a wife.

I still feel on some level the marriage is for his sense of security, he doesn't want to lose Minnie or Babita, so his focus hasn't been on some of the other things. His main goal is to get married and as long as that is happening and everyone around is happy, he is happy too. I could be wrong but I will go so far as to say I don't think he has even thought about the intimacy side of things. If he had, the would not have been so relaxed about the marriage or so non-chalant about all the rearrangement of stuff at home. He just hadn't thought of all this at all and frankly, I won't be surprised if he isn't yet at that stage where he can think of Babita in that way. He's too respectful by nature and way too shy.

Agreed.

HS loves Babita, but it's not for her body. It's for her soul. He has had his moments where he has admired her from afar but it was never in an objectifying way.

Previously, while they were sharing the same home, they weren't necessarily in the same immediate space. There was always a healthy distance between them. But with them having to share the same room, HS will have to be confronted with a lot of things he had otherwise sealed away.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I would call it writing mishap. Clearly they are focusing on Mini as the center point.

Which she is. But if partners don't connect on individual level, then what is the point of it all. Sometimes, too much Mini gets to me. She was there all along and yet HS and Babes connected on personal level. Fell for each other. I just want that old charm back. I highly miss that in current PB.

I second this! The reason why I primarily loved Hanita was because of their growing relationship outside of Minnie. Yes, Minnie's issues united them for many instances, but there were quite a few moments where they bonded on matters outside of her.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Agreed.

HS loves Babita, but it's not for her body. It's for her soul. He has had his moments where he has admired her from afar but it was never in an objectifying way.

Previously, while they were sharing the same home, they weren't necessarily in the same immediate space. There was always a healthy distance between them. But with them having to share the same room, HS will have to be confronted with a lot of things he had otherwise sealed away.

Yes, indeed. He will see the woman in her more, the truly feminine side of her and of course as a husband it is natural that he will be drawn to it but on some front he will resist because this is all uncharted territory for him.

On a lighter note, at least they don't have to worry about snoring issues. Neither of them have been shown to have this problem. 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

He already cried when he walked off angrily after Babita was asking him to prove his love, now he's going to cry about Imarti.

Mhaare se na dekha jayega.

Oh gosh, if he cries because of Imarti again, then my heart truly won't be able to handle it.