love is not enough jindal sahib !!!more than that

bestowing love is not enough .

ppl fall out of love not that love is vanished from there system but the pain overpowers the love in them .

if at all u want ur loved ones back in ur life

make ur foot ground stronger

try to mould urself accordingly be flexible be the one giving urself for the love of ur life

that comes with patience ...

aj needs is patience being hyper doesn't work neither the urgency to win her heart .

it has to be baby step ..

1. giving guddan the space to breathe not forcing to love her .

instead rebuild the friendship instead

2.obsession doesnt work it will break future

3.go with the flow

4. let guddan decide don't force ur wish on her .

she deserves respect more than love in this relationship ...

aj always has respected her want him to do so ..(minus antara tricks he broke her trust )

give guddan time most important ...

key thing -- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhXrz_mTP0w

its always not about u thnk about what guddan wants in life if she wants she will come back wait for that moment ..

go dig deep in her heart rather than trying to impress her..

find a way to fix these 2 incidents

1.

2.

trust and auda (position)u need to provide guddan so that there is looking back .

ring was just a materialistic thing but removing the bond u have with her was a sin

the relationship u had with her u took it for granted .(find a way to fix it)

slaps she got verbally+physically needs to be fixed both from u and ur dam double dolki mom..

---2 important persons in her life after marriage was u and ur mom u both were her pillars but now both have hurt her beyond repair (its up to u and ur mom to mend that mistakes never to repeat it again )

ball is on ur court now

back then u had healed her wounds

love had blossomed--

now ur life is full cycle u need to build it again from the scratch ...

so all the best but be subtle use ur intelligence don't push her instead set her free so that she can find ways to come to u on her own ..

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Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

efforts kuch nahi re ….gif is easy to make ..

anyways tu sudregi nahi tho hum bi thanks bolte hai …

anways ….

we share same thoughts ...always

dadi is useless double dolki more than aj guddan should give nice dose ..

• Wahi toh, she should mind her business

aj got some genes from dadi no wonder he didn't use brain but lately and future aj will be intelligent ..

• AJ allowed his Blast from the past Antra to control him, he unintentionally gave her a leverage, which shouldn’t have happened but it did

show is back hope it gets more interesting by the day ..

• I was missing the comedy element and the nok Jhok of Akshan so I am happy that it is back

more than aj loving tanvessh and he reminds me of perv I miss him thr most hope perv returns

• Fingers crossed hope Pervy returns

the other day I made a topic wondered why no one liked it I want u to read it

bestowing love is not enough .

ppl fall out of love not that love is vanished from there system but the pain overpowers the love in them .

True

if at all u want ur loved ones back in ur life

make ur foot ground stronger

try to mould urself accordingly be flexible be the one giving urself for the love of ur life

• In order for the marriage to work both partners should be adjustable and adaptable to taste of their partner. Like Guddan loves bright colors but after marriage she wore dark colors because her Pati dev Uncle AJ loved Dark colors.

that comes with patience ...

aj needs is patience being hyper doesn't work neither the urgency to win her heart .

it has to be baby step ..exactly all relationship starts with baby steps

1. giving guddan the space to breathe not forcing to love her .

AJ has to understand the depth of the Chot, Hurt he has caused Guddan by breaking her confidence and not trusting her.

instead rebuild the friendship instead

Hmm maybe he can start by saying lets be friends

2.obsession doesnt work it will break future

3.go with the flow

4. let guddan decide don't force ur wish on her .

she deserves respect more than love in this relationship ...

aj always has respected her want him to do so ..(minus antara tricks he broke her trust )

Antra Conspiracy & entrance shook the foundation of Akshan Trust, their respect, love and everything is their. But the one thing that AJ & Guddan as couple n individual work hard in building in their relationship was the foundation of Trust.

In Good and Bad times husband and wife should be each others Eyes, Ears and Pillar of Strenght. During VDay even though it wasn’t love or friendship, Guddan trusted the guidance of her Jindal’s Saab & his eyes to lead and guide her so she doesn’t fall

Here AJ did a mistake of letting his Past bi heavy on his Future

give guddan time most important ...

key thing -- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhXrz_mTP0w

its always not about u thnk about what guddan wants in life if she wants she will come back wait for that moment ..

AJ should listen to the adivce of Bhushan Papa regarding time and giving their relationship Time, because with time wounds are healed.

go dig deep in her heart rather than trying to impress her..

find a way to fix these 2 incidents

With time, he will heal and should mend this. I want a parallels scene where he writes each good qualities of Guddan on the chit. My wish is that I want on Guddan Birthday, AJ to openly and in front publicly or his family members say ten qualities of Guddan that he likes or admires.

1.

2.

trust and auda (position)u need to provide guddan so that there is looking back .

ring was just a materialistic thing but removing the bond u have with her was a sin

Akshat Jindal the husband told Guddan when Antra first entered that she is a person who cannot hurt anyone, in fit of rage, the evidence that was created by Antra’s conspiracy made him snatch the ring from her hand. He shouldn’t have done that, one of the options should have been him holding Guddans hand and taking her upstairs in their room n talking.

the relationship u had with her u took it for granted .(find a way to fix it)

slaps she got verbally+physically needs to be fixed both from u and ur dam double dolki mom..

I am not forgiving Dadi that easily I am sorry she should have used her experience to read people but she was blinded in her Greed for Waris

---2 important persons in her life after marriage was u and ur mom u both were her pillars but now both have hurt her beyond repair (its up to u and ur mom to mend that mistakes never to repeat it again )

ball is on ur court now

back then u had healed her wounds

love had blossomed--

now ur life is full cycle u need to build it again from the scratch ...

so all the best but be subtle use ur intelligence don't push her instead set her free so that she can find ways to come to u on her own ..

Wonderful points and POV Shailu

I will not blame neither Akshat Jindal nor Guddan Akshat Jindal during this Bhootni Blast From The Past track both have ade equal amounts of mistakes that indirectly and directly resulted in the current situation.

One of thing that Akshan were missing and Bhootni took advantage of his Time! In Dosti & Bua’s track Akshan no matter what the situation and conspiracy were created, they toook time to talk to each other n solve each others issue. Here Akshan as couple lacked time, neither discussed how they felt with Antra’s entry and their POV.

Since the beginning of Akshan’s relationship, even though Akshat Jindal never compared Guddan and Antra with each other.

But the guilt of loosing Antra due to Angad’s pagalpan and him not saving her was always overshadowing his present. He even though he was slowly opening up but the guilt of moving on from Antra was killing him.

Due to Antra Saachi Revelation now he is free to move on and the black shadows n clouds that was hovering over Akshat Jindal is erased n he is free to move on openly and show PDA affection to Guddan

Husband and wife should be able to show affection, support, nok Jhok and being each others pillar of strengt in public.

Regarding Ring I will make another post

I do not want the ring that was Uttran of Antra to be back into guddan’s Hand, God that is horrible, it will be a reminder for Guddan that her rights as Wife, was snatched from her and her trust of her husband and the promises he made was broken. Its horrible.

AJ should start everything fresh with a new ring that shows Guddan that she is his Number 1 priority

I agree with you Guddan and AJ should start everything fresh and from scratch, have a proper courtship know each others wishes & dreams, POV, like and dislikes, most importantly they should give each other their time. I understand they have created small moments in their relationship and built trust but now it needs to be rebuilt where 3rd person from past or futures shouldn’t be able to break the bond.

In the past year Guddan and Akshat Jindal did create lots of moments between each other and in their foundation, but as the Head of the household both of their main responsibility was the Jindal Bhavan and Family, they hardly gave each other time. Now the should learn to give each other time & making it number one priority like pillow conversation, having tea or coffee together, talking in the terrace, at night while handling their responsibilities of being Head of the Household.

Akshat Jindal the husband has though road ahead, not only he has to win the Trust & Assurance of his Wife Back but he has to tell her that she is not Option but she is his Choice and his Number 1 Prioritiy in Life.

Originally posted by: Piku_S

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Wonderful points and POV Shailu

I will not blame neither Akshat Jindal nor Guddan Akshat Jindal during this Bhootni Blast From The Past track both have ade equal amounts of mistakes that indirectly and directly resulted in the current situation.

One of thing that Akshan were missing and Bhootni took advantage of his Time! In Dosti & Bua’s track Akshan no matter what the situation and conspiracy were created, they toook time to talk to each other n solve each others issue. Here Akshan as couple lacked time, neither discussed how they felt with Antra’s entry and their POV.

Since the beginning of Akshan’s relationship, even though Akshat Jindal never compared Guddan and Antra with each other.

But the guilt of loosing Antra due to Angad’s pagalpan and him not saving her was always overshadowing his present. He even though he was slowly opening up but the guilt of moving on from Antra was killing him.

Due to Antra Saachi Revelation now he is free to move on and the black shadows n clouds that was hovering over Akshat Jindal is erased n he is free to move on openly and show PDA affection to Guddan

Husband and wife should be able to show affection, support, nok Jhok and being each others pillar of strengt in public.

Regarding Ring I will make another post

I do not want the ring that was Uttran of Antra to be back into guddan’s Hand, God that is horrible, it will be a reminder for Guddan that her rights as Wife, was snatched from her and her trust of her husband and the promises he made was broken. Its horrible.

AJ should start everything fresh with a new ring that shows Guddan that she is his Number 1 priority

I agree with you Guddan and AJ should start everything fresh and from scratch, have a proper courtship know each others wishes & dreams, POV, like and dislikes, most importantly they should give each other their time. I understand they have created small moments in their relationship and built trust but now it needs to be rebuilt where 3rd person from past or futures shouldn’t be able to break the bond.

In the past year Guddan and Akshat Jindal did create lots of moments between each other and in their foundation, but as the Head of the household both of their main responsibility was the Jindal Bhavan and Family, they hardly gave each other time. Now the should learn to give each other time & making it number one priority like pillow conversation, having tea or coffee together, talking in the terrace, at night while handling their responsibilities of being Head of the Household.

Akshat Jindal the husband has though road ahead, not only he has to win the Trust & Assurance of his Wife Back but he has to tell her that she is not Option but she is his Choice and his Number 1 Prioritiy in Life.

So happy u read it

I loved ur analysis dear

Somewhat close we match in our thoughts

Ya ur right as bhushan says aj should give her time

Waiting for ur ring analysis bbb karo