Originally posted by: amritat
@Pranpriya - I think you added multiple duplicate posts, which I am having issues in quoting.
A few points:
Veer's father would not be a "feminazi" for accepting Mishti's rejection positively. He would be rather large-hearted, kind and wise instead, and it has nothing to do with gender as such.
What I wanted to convey is slightly different. Every person - man or woman - has the right to choose his or her ideal partner. (My peeve with MisHaan is for the way things unfolded between them while Mishti was still engaged). Anyway, coming back to the point, very few have the maturity to deal with rejection with grace, particularly when the rejection comes from a girl to a boy. All the more, when this rejection comes just a month before the marriage. Most resort to "grapes are sour" or depression/anger. In light of that, Veer's dad's reaction is quite realistic and natural, if not entirely righteous. It would be delusional on our part to expect him to side with Mishti here and understand her dilemma, instead of his own son's.
But not siding with Mishti, and resorting to violence against her or Ruhaan are 2 different things. Let's see what Monday's episode shows us, only then we can judge Veer properly.
Coming to stalking, I am in two minds. Stalking physically is a crime. Veer currently looks like a jilted lover freshly out of a break-up, who is brimming with curiousity - What is she doing? Who is she with? Is she already seeing someone else? I am confused how to judge Veer in this, and thus neither supporting him nor bashing him.