Good morning girls! I missed so much.
Ok so I want to clarify some things:
- I definitely don’t think having besties of tbe opposite sex means that Parth and Erica cannot be in a relationship. This is why I objected to the whole point about her being a tomboy and that’s why they can’t be dating. And the same applies to Parth. I don’t feel like he’s closer to scarlet than he is to other people in the Bangalore gang or his Puna friends but even if he was, so what. I made that very in my post so it’s unnecessary to misunderstand this.
- I also find the idea that guys like Parth end up with homely girls like Erica that some have said in their comments, pretty old fashioned and also insulting to women who are not like quiet and homely like Erica (example me🤪).
- my point was that they are similar in so many ways and these similarities have been quite obvious in addition to their growing friendship over the last few weeks - it’s been happening right in front our eyes. But these two weekends also showed me how different they are in some fundamental ways. Being friends with someone who has these differences is something being in a relationship with someone like that is very different. Life partners share theirs life in a way friends don’t and I have seen enough divorces to know this.
- also like I said, I feel very discouraged about the relationship aspect. not about the friendship just the romantic bit. But I also said that I will defend the shippers here but neither us shippers nor the non-shippers know really wants going on. We all see things and imagine that parth or Erica are thinking this or that because this is what WE would think. But they are not us and not matter know much we have watched or observed them - some of you for many years - we don’t know them.
- it’s so funny to see people who have burst my bubble in tbe past come out as shippers thanks to this. Ahhhh! Secret shippers, eh?
- who knows what I myself will be like. I’ve said before that I am off the ship. It’s like quitting smoking. Will I stay off or will I start agajn the next time someone offers me a convincing BTS? 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂