Is after marriage same as before marriage? - Page 3

mishti has not broken her engagement with veer yet .so I wish she had not allowed ruhaan to kiss her that day .both were going for a liplock also.mishti told veer many times that she loves him and had intimate moments also so veer will feel cheated suddenly when she falls for some one else.

Originally posted by: Ardhanarishwara

Sree, i am unable to understand what are you trying to ask.😕

I am still confused whether what mishti is doing is cheating or not.. Because in my view cheating is you having an affair behind your partners back without any intention of breaking up..If a person falls for someone else while being in a relationship, then she confess it to her current partner and break up with him and then move on with the new love interest, then thats not cheating for me.. So whether mishti is cheating or not that will be decided by the upcoming episodes only..

And call me old school, but marriage is a big deal for me.. Leave aside season2, if i remove marriage from season1 and imagine mauli-kunal as just engaged then i dont feel even 10% of the disgust i felt for kunan in season1.. And also erase a few more points like Mouli helping nandini putting her own life at stake, and also mouli working tirelessly 24×7 to fullfill kunals dream etc then i dont feel even 1% of the disgust i felt for kunan in season1.

we cant say that the engagement was not taken out of love .if there was no love mishti would not told veer many times that she loves him.she would not have had intimate romance with veer if there was no love

Originally posted by: shiny9911

Both marriage and commitment are important factors and it should be.

I don't find Mishti cheating cz her engagement was a planned one not out of love. Of course, it's a mistake on her part cz it's going to hurt Veer. But Mishti is also a human being and she too can commit mistakes. She has no one who can guide her and teach her the true meaning of love.

I don't know from where had she heard the half-baked stories of her bio-father leaving her Mom cz of the "time factor"....... But actually these half-baked stories have put her and the ones related to her into this mess.

Anyways, it will be a cheating for me if she doesn't informs Veer now cz it's hightime she has realised her feelings for Ruhaan.

Cheating is cheating whether it's bfr marriage or after and in my pov Mishti is yet to cheat.

I do value commitment bfr marriage too but what if their is no love? It's better to call off the wedding.

I saw the pre-cap wherein Pari is taunting Mishti about her breaking up with Veer and moving on with Ruhaan. She also taunts her following her father's suit. While she has always professed of commitment.

But what I would like to point out is being honest to thyself is more vital that being committed. If Mishti stays faithful to her commitment then she will be cheating not only herself but also Veer.

What I liked about the new promo is Mishti comes out clean with Veer unlike her father and her mom's best friend who cheated Mauli right under her nose.

At least Mishti is being honest. How can Pari put Mishti on par with her mother Nandini. Unlike Nandini who never had the courage to come out about affair with her best friend's hubby. On the contrary, she lied to Mauli while meeting Kunal on the sly.

While in Mishti and Veer's relationship one could perceive that it was more of arrangement for Mishti than love. While in Kunal and Mauli's relationship, one saw how Kunal was crazy about Mauli and one fine day, all that love just evaporated.

Agreed, this can happen either ways, before or after marriage. What's vital here is while Mauli broke her relationship the moment she realized she would be cheating Veer if she went ahead with their marriage. While Kunal and Nandini kept on cheating Mauli until they were caught red handed.

As far as I am concerned, am liking the season 2.

Thank you girls, for sharing your thoughts. I am so happy to see, almost all of us have same thoughts on cheating.

Now it's my turn to share my thoughts.

For me, cheating is cheating, when trust is broken. When the other person trusts you so much, is in genuine love with you, does things for your welfare, and you end up making someone important than all these things and that too, without having the courtesy to inform them. This applies to all relationships including relationship with your parents .I would prefer a sad good bye rather than a deceiving relationship.

And more than anything if you have done cheating, better be brave to accept it rather than doing it in the back and pretending to be goody goody outside.

Mishti now realised that she's in love with Ruhaan than veer. I'm going to wait for her confession to veer. If she doesn't ,there ends my respect for her. (I'm okay with her breaking up with Veer. Had Ruhaan not been there, still she would have broken up, may be after some months of marriage. Now, since Ruhaan is there, her break up is happening early. But veer must be informed)

Mishthi wanted to marry veer that means she knew about veer and still wanted to be with him. She loved him but after ruhaan entered her life she realized that she doesn't love veer. Kunal and mauli's marriage was perfect, he loved her but after Nandini's entry everything changed for him. We still don't know where Mauli lacked that Kunal had fallen for Nandini. But if love is true it won't change. If it changes, it's not love.