Inferiority complex among desi's - Page 2

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Ok here is the true reason... people coming to western countries are aware that they are coming to a better place, thats enough to create feelings of inferiority compared to those who are born with that privilege. Doesnt mean the ABCD's are better off.. The overall inferiority springs from somethings thats average to something thats good.. whether its money, life-style, different though not superior culture...all this gives feelings of inferiority.....these feelings are nothing to do with personal looks or abilities.. but just the unknown and unlearnt things while getting around...

Thanks..u know what point am trying to bring foward...only point like foriegners don't loose thier originality being in India why should desi's do otherwise..

I think complex people always feel some kind of complex.......😳they always wanna show others or always try to hide the actul intention.😊

Chak de complex😉😃

Originally posted by: raj5000

Have you observed foreign nationals in any country are kinna of stepped down state of mind, but to a level.

But seeing desi's in US am like...I mean even tho they are right ...they don;t hitch to say sorry... and accepting a mistake which they never made.

Keep wondering why?? is it becuase of complex or its just the fact any foreign national will adopt the same atitude, fearing the locals.

Aren't we over cautious and considerate in foreign nations ?

i think desis lack confidence by and large. they might be academically bright but are generally awkward in social settings. that's a cultural thing i think. so even when they might be right, they are generally not confident enuff to know they are right and to hold firm. they are also probably quieter, more cerebral and less confrontational, all of which makes them cut a sorry figure as the easier way out of their discomfort. 😊

Originally posted by: raj5000

Have you observed foreign nationals in any country are kinna of stepped down state of mind, but to a level.

But seeing desi's in US am like...I mean even tho they are right ...they don;t hitch to say sorry... and accepting a mistake which they never made.

Keep wondering why?? is it becuase of complex or its just the fact any foreign national will adopt the same atitude, fearing the locals.

Aren't we over cautious and considerate in foreign nations ?

Originally posted by: raj5000

Thanks..u know what point am trying to bring foward...only point like foriegners don't loose thier originality being in India why should desi's do otherwise..

you forgetting one point raj.. foreigners coming to india unless they are from bangladesh or pakistan or some other like country might feel that way.. but not those coming from the western world...western world people would be more like condescending...and wont have inferiority complex......most of the time.. some of them yes.. sure if somebody from alabama visits mumbai they will appear bumpkins..😆

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

you forgetting one point raj.. foreigners coming to india unless they are from bangladesh or pakistan or some other like country might feel that way.. but not those coming from the western world...western world people would be more like condescending...and wont have inferiority complex......most of the time.. some of them yes.. sure if somebody from alabama visits mumbai they will appear bumpkins..😆

😆 yeah and imagine their dissapointment when they don't see snake charmers and elephants on every street corner. 😉

Originally posted by: raj5000

Have you observed foreign nationals in any country are kinna of stepped down state of mind, but to a level.

But seeing desi's in US am like...I mean even tho they are right ...they don;t hitch to say sorry... and accepting a mistake which they never made.

And here, dey never accept id! 😆

Keep wondering why?? is it becuase of complex or its just the fact any foreign national will adopt the same atitude, fearing the locals.

Well i feel its more out of respect.. In thier own country dey feel dat the culture is to inferior to even say sorry while there they respect thier culture, laws etc!😳

Aren't we over cautious and considerate in foreign nations ?

Yes bec we feel dose nations are more "civilized" den us which itself is a wrong attitude!😳

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

weird topic...perhaps a USonly phenomenon???? 😆

In UK we have no such problem that I'm aware of

All desis go about their business in the normal way like all the rest of us "born and bred" types....

Just my English POV!

😡 M 😡

Is it because we pride in being inferior after 200 years of their rule?😆...😆😆

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Is it because we pride in being inferior after 200 years of their rule?😆...😆😆

erm....not quite sure whether you talk as a Yank or are referring to me as an Angrez.....

I certainly dont believe I'm inferior to anyone and would like to think fellow Asians in UK feel exactly the same. Different people may feel they have been treated in an inferior way, but we certainly dont hold ourselves out to be anything less than the next person...

Whew! That's a lot of explaining....hope it made sense!😆

😡M😡