Of putting love in a box - Page 4

Originally posted by: PranPriye

I don't think the circumstances of how Misti and Veer came together are shown. So we don't know whether Misti's love for Veer (if she loves / loved him) was a practical decision and not an emotional one.

Although it wasn't shown, there have been repetition of how Mishti has very carefully decided to marry Veer, how she has carefully planned her future etc which does infer that not just emotions,a lot of logic was put into her decision.

Originally posted by: ria2794

These things that beauty doesn't remain same is true but not everyone wants to fall in love with someone just on the basis of how great that person is and what is right and r wrong about them. There are thousands of people who love someone based on their looks and marry them, their priority is not to find someone who is good or bad they just enjoy their relationship that way.

I don't think love has anything to do with how good a person is.If that was the case no criminal would be loved by their partners. You like someone and start interacting with that person. You like somethings about that person and dislike some other things about him/her.If majority of the person's habits grow on you,you bond.If it doesn't,it remains a crush and never moves on to the stage of becoming a relationship. The point is,you start interacting most of the time because you already like a person.You find their good or bad habits or qualities later which probably determine whether you stick by that person or not.

Originally posted by: Haalim

I've read your posts in ISA forum when the show started. I love your posts. They are so on point.

Even I've read from scholars that love has various stages like Ishq etc and love itself is not a stage.

I agree with ur points regarding love and attraction.

I don't understand why do people find attraction superficial when it often is the basis of a romantic relationship. It may lead u to love or it may just end up as an attraction only. Nothing big deal in getting attracted to someone. The actions following a certain emotion decides our character.

Exactly.Attraction is attraction,there is nothing superficial about it.Whether it eventually brings love into the equation or remains attraction is a different story.

Thank you for appreciating my posts.

Originally posted by: Ardhanarishwara

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A very informative post.. You have penned down everything so beautifully.

@Blue : I was having a hard time connecting with mishtis changed behaviour towards Veers proximity.. But your explanation makes complete sense and now i can connect with mishti in this.. Thank you for that.

I am glad I could give some perspective

Originally posted by: pratyay

Great post indeed dear.👏 Emotions can't be explained in terms of right and wrong, truth and lies. The way humans act on them, their choices and decisions can be judged. The whole concept of falling out of love is scary coz it brings uncertainty and chaos. Hence we chose to mark it as taboo and refrain ourselves from going in that direction.

Please keep posting. We can discuss about such informative stuff here.

Thank you.I will try interacting more from now on.

Originally posted by: ria2794

People do that all the time. Not the uneducated people. Brilliantly educated people do that too.

Even if you are in love with someone and too deeply involved with them and they too love you as much as you want then too people get separated. Love is not everything in a relationship. In might sound rude but a marriage is way more than just love or lack of it.

Right.Love is not everything in a relationship and it takes way more than just love to keep a marriage working. Again, the other side remains the extent to which many people can go for the sake of love.They leave their marriage and children,family and friends to be with the person they fall in love with. While the ideal scenario would be to love your spouse and honor your marriage, in the real world, it may not happen as often as we would like it to happen.

Originally posted by: Vartika026

A very enlightening post dear. Loved the way you explained things, why don't you post more? I'd love to read more of your views😊🤗

Thank you.I will try to interact more from now on. It is kind of difficult to make time given all my commitments but it's always nice to peek in into the forum.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Great post . Can't agree more with the points you've made.

Thank you.Glad you liked reading it.