Of putting love in a box - Page 3

Great post indeed dear.👏 Emotions can't be explained in terms of right and wrong, truth and lies. The way humans act on them, their choices and decisions can be judged. The whole concept of falling out of love is scary coz it brings uncertainty and chaos. Hence we chose to mark it as taboo and refrain ourselves from going in that direction.

Originally posted by: ramita94

Great post you write so well. I agree that being attracted to someone can be the first step of love and also on the other hand love and attraction are not exclusive of each other, you can just be attracted/find someone attracted and not be in love with them. However, the fact that you stop loving someone just because you no longer find them attractive is kind of shallow in my opinion. Looks, beauty, youth.. these things don't stay forever they will fade. Every second we are getting older and proceeding towards deteriorating (thats the truth). There must be something about that person which is why you love them, though you might not be able to pinpoint it, but if its just because their looks then I don't thinks it was love in the first place. Prehaps they changed as a person or you no longer find their personality attractive.. who knows.

Originally posted by: ria2794

People do that all the time. Not the uneducated people. Brilliantly educated people do that too.

Even if you are in love with someone and too deeply involved with them and they too love you as much as you want then too people get separated. Love is not everything in a relationship. In might sound rude but a marriage is way more than just love or lack of it.

Originally posted by: khatimeethi

Thank you this was good post.

Also academically you are so on point,have read so many essays regarding same.

PS Since u teach psychology can u please suggest a good books

Sure.You want to read books on psychology or human communication?

Originally posted by: shiny9911

You really explained it so well.

Thanks for sharing!😊

Thanks for reading!

Originally posted by: pranurosid

Thanq for this post.It's really required at this time😃

Thanks for reading!

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

love your post you explained it so well🤗

Thank you!

Originally posted by: athai

Sure.You want to read books on psychology or human communication?

psychology😳

Originally posted by: ramita94

Great post you write so well. I agree that being attracted to someone can be the first step of love and also on the other hand love and attraction are not exclusive of each other, you can just be attracted/find someone attracted and not be in love with them. However, the fact that you stop loving someone just because you no longer find them attractive is kind of shallow in my opinion. Looks, beauty, youth.. these things don't stay forever they will fade. Every second we are getting older and proceeding towards deteriorating (thats the truth). There must be something about that person which is why you love them, though you might not be able to pinpoint it, but if its just because their looks then I don't thinks it was love in the first place. Prehaps they changed as a person or you no longer find their personality attractive.. who knows.

Attraction does not necessarily mean you get attracted to a person's physical appearance.You see someone,you get drawn to that person and that person may not be what people would call good-looking either. Having said that,you may not fall out of love when you stop finding the other person attractive but you definitely lose that pull,that intense affection that you feel for that person.By then,if you have been with each other for a very long time,you have become fond of that person,are used to that person's presence in your life and the emotional attachment is what keeps the relationship going.

Love is a feeling,only a person who has experienced it or is experiencing it can say if s/he is in love or not. Although books and movies glorify love to an extent where it becomes something eternal, in real life, it's not necessarily something that only happens once or once it happens,it can't happen again.Everything depends on a couple's ability to keep the relationship working.

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

Nice read, love is not the same for everyone of course.
I think the reason why so many people detest seeing people fall out of love is because it shows an awful situation that can happen to anyone. If Kunal can fall out of love with Mauli and Mishti can fall out of love with Veer, whats stopping our partners to fall out of love with us? Its an unpleasant thing to consider which makes us uncomfortable watching it on screen (even though we know the concept of Silsila beforehand).

My sentiments exactly.We crave for security and the knowledge that our security blanket may not be secured after all becomes difficult for us to handle.