NB: March 29th AJ's Action & Acceptance

New Bulletin March 29th 2019: AJ Action& Acceptance

Mixture of my rants & analysis

AJ action

• The volcano inside AJ erupted when he learned that his Chote thought of putting MS on his Bhabhi. How dare you? You have no right?
• AJ was the "Husband, not the Elder Loving Bhai who has patient for his brother or he will easily let go of the attempted heinous crime of putting MS on his wife.
• AJ expression was very dangerous and he will not tolerate anyone coming in between him and his wife, n loosing his wife, the Junoon for Guddan was clearly shown.
• AJ action, this is the first time he raised a hand to someone that means world to him. His action of almost slapping Angad showed that He will not Sacrifice, he will not hide Angads mistake no matter what his brothers state of mind is.

AJ Decision of Hiring Nurse

• Bravo, shows as Husband he will do anything to keep His Wife Guddan Akshat Jindal away from his unstable brother Angad Jindal, her safety matters to him.
• AJ as both the husband and brother does not want Angad to live under the misconception that its alright to see his Bhabhi more than friend or sibling.
• AJ message & step was loud & clear I am not going to live my wife alone in your presence and encourage your madness.
• Stay away from her, because She is Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal my wife and my life and be in your Rishta Ki Maryada.

Guddan Knows

• AJ told Guddan the truth regarding Angad and what he tried to do.
• Guddan herself went to clear the misunderstanding planted inside the head of Angad.
• She was very conscious and alert of her actions.
• Instead of seating next to Angad, she took the chair from the corner, kept a safe distance from him, specifically told Angad that Jindal Saab is her husband, she & Angad are Dost.
• Guddans action showed that: listen Angad I am your Bhabhi, it does not matter what kind of realtionship I share with my husband and your brother Akshat Jindal.
• You and I will only be friends & sibling, I dont see you in a romantic way.
• As the Lady of the House, Saas & Patni of Aksaht Jindal are the reason I am looking after you because you are part of Jindal Saabs Family and nothing more. Since you are my husbands responsibility you have automatically became my responsibility.

Dadi Knows

• I am so happy that Lalla shared everything with his Mother, regarding Angad's action & Pagalpan of tying the Mangalsutra on his Bhabhi Mrs.Guddan Akshat Jindal.
• Dadi was worried & scared.
• At the back of her mind Daid will havin a subconscious fear history repeating itself.

AJ's Dilemma

• When AJ was talking to Dadi regarding Angad's matter, he was in both delimma and denial mode.
• Delimma that he doesnt want Guddan to ge wrong message that he will give her Rights of Wife, have Pati-Patni realtionship with her. He can only give her respect.
• Another reason for dilemma, he didnt realize the action of him removing and breaking the Mangalsutra in anger in front of his Family will create a Big Misunderstanding, Big Misconception, result in having Guddan Life in danger by his Mental Ill brother.
• AJ is in Denial because deep down inside his Heart and His Mind both has accepted Guddan Akshat Jindal as his wife, he is not admitting to himself or to his family because he is scared of loosing Guddan from his life. No matter how hard AJ tried to safe guard his heart it is already taken by Guddan and she left a permit MOHRA on his Heart forever that will beat for her.

Guddan Gratefulness

• Guddan had a tear of happiness in her eyes, when she heard the conversation between Dadi & Akshat Jindal about him ready to accept her & put MS on her.
• To Guddan this means that Akshat Jindal her HUSBAND is ready to accept her has his WIFE give her Rights and Rescept she deserve as his wife.
• Right now Guddan does not want the Pati-Patni physical or love relationship.
• For Guddan its important that she gets the RESPECT for being the Wife of Jindal Saab both from himself and his family member.
• After her Husband ties the Mangalsutra from his Heart it will show her and their family that AJ has accepted her as his wife from his DIL, he wants to be married to her, he is going to give her the RESPECT of a Wife, he is going to treat her his equal.

AJ Acceptance

• He realized and admitted to himself that he was wrong of snatching and breaking the MS from Guddan and he made a big mistake.
• Today he realized and admitted to the fact that Guddan Akshat Jindal is his WIFE, no matter what he says or does he cannot change the Fact or runaway from it forever.
• I loved how he said to suppose Guddan that I realized the importance of the MS & our realtionship, I am ready to put the MS on you from my DIL without any pressure or Majboori but with respect. Indicates he is ready to move on with her and give the respect & rights to Guddan that she deserves as his wife.
• I loved how he asked suppose Guddans permission before putting MS on her. He is a gentleman and he will not do anything without Guddans permission and agreement.

Sindoor Falling

• Partial sindoor fell from the Sindoor Dibbi, not entire sindoor fell from the dibbi. Indicating the life of your Suhaag will be in danger but ensuring that nothing

Negativity

• After AJ comes back, he will sunafoy and punish Durga, because today it was the Dayan who stopped AJ from slapping Angad and punishing him for the wrong did.
• Deep down inside his heart & back of his mind, AJ knows how much Durga dislikes his wife and her Saasuma Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal but he doesnt realize to what extent his Adarsh Bahu Durga Kishore Jindal will go to to remove Guddan from his life, and Jindal

• His actions and his behavior is not justified but we have to also consider that he being used as a MOHRA by both Durga Jindal & Saraswati Jindal.
• Angad Jindal mental health is not stable because Durga Jindal gave him high does of wrong medication.
• Being under the high dosage of wrong medication its creating affect on him, where all his senses, the right & wrong are blocked.
• This is not the same person who we saw in Goa, he is totally different because of Dayan revenge mode.

Akshat Stabbing

• Is a eyeopener for Akshat Jindal to realize what kind of family member he has been supporting in his House by providing them Shelter, Bread & Butter.
• In one way its a step closer for Akshat Jindal to let go of his past, his past Guilt of not saving Antra from the accident and being scared to move on in his life.
• Now after this incident, nothing will stop Akshat Jindal from moving on in his life, and starting is life fresh with his wife Guddan Akshat Jindal.
• Only a few luckily ones receive an opportunity to have Second Chance in their life but they have to recognize it and accept it.

Precap:

• Poor Guddan, the wife inside her knows that nothing is wrong with her husband, her Jindal Saab. She is getting a wife intuition because the realtionship she has with her husband is more stronger than they want to admitted to themself or each other.
• Poor Guddan she is in state of shock for loosing her Jindal Saab the Man who she married, the man for whom she always made excuse to come back & not live Jindal House because he is important to her and he is precious to her.
• Angad Action of giving the MS & Red Duppta is loud her clear what his intention are. Both Dadi & Guddan were informed & alerted by AJ regarding Angad behavior for Guddan.
• After Guddan comes out of her shock, with the help of Lakshmi Bahu, maybe Dadi & Kishore, she will start connecting the dots.