Best friends as roomies/ Neighbours - Page 3

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Originally posted by: Naughty_n_nice

Alright, then imagine a situation where your best friend's your roommate... Say (and hope that doesn't happen) you have a really huge fight, which you absolutely can't resolve. Something pretty serious, let's assume. Would you just move out of the same place and stay separately, but remain the best of friends, or would that affect your friendship too? Would you able to, so clearly, cut across the 2 relationships - roommate and friend?

It's not unusual for roommates to fight though what you're saying happens very rarely. And, just cos two people are best friends doesn't mean that their friendship can't end, everything comes to an end and so can the bestest of friendship. However, the fights which arise cos of sharing problems are not so serious and serious fights are usually about entirely different issues (read as 'girls' in case of guys). And these fights can happen whether you're living with a stranger or a friend.

I can't speak from personal experience as all the hostels that I've lived in I've moved in with complete strangers. And all of them became friends within a few days, which I must say was very fortunate for me and I never had a single fight with anyone of them. Fights usually occur between people who have very less tolerance and can't compromise. Like many guys can't sleep if the light is switched on, and if he's stubborn about it that the light must be switched off by a certain time everyday then obviously there'd be frictions. Then there are guys who even fight over who'd take a bath first or how much time they want to spend inside (it might sound trivial but these actually happen). Like in the last hostel I lived in, out of us four only one was a non-smoker but that guy had the habit of spending atleast half an hour in the bath every morning merrily singing. So, he compromised on the smell of smoking and the rest three of us found a way to work around his half an hour in the bath. But then there were some guys who were very particular about the fact that noone should smoke in their room, not even their roommate or some who will start a fight if his roommate spent more than ten minutes inside. Another thing is there were many times one of us forgot to do something, like switching off everything before going out, but we always found it better to just remind that person that he forgot this thing and left it at that. But there are some people who will even start a fight over that.

So, I'd say it ultimately depends on the nature of the person, and it's immaterial whether s/he is your best friend, friend or stranger. But since you already know your best friend well and both of you are well aware about each others habits, it's expected that the chances of things working out between you two are more than with a stranger.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

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Dont you just want to pick up that Tilex bottle from the window sill and give the room a nice thorough scrub down?

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And no, the point of this reply wasnt just random chitter chatter. I was also going to compliment Souro ^ on his very good response...and I completely agree that it really does just depend on the nature/personalities of the people involved.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Bachelor room Aisa Hota --😆bohoot na insaafi hey taaakoor ye photo post kyu kiya😕😆

Wow What a beautiful room😊.............Naye zamane ki hair style ki tara😉...interior design rocks👏 ...room looks modern 👏👏

Originally posted by: souro

It's not unusual for roommates to fight though what you're saying happens very rarely. And, just cos two people are best friends doesn't mean that their friendship can't end, everything comes to an end and so can the bestest of friendship. However, the fights which arise cos of sharing problems are not so serious and serious fights are usually about entirely different issues (read as 'girls' in case of guys). And these fights can happen whether you're living with a stranger or a friend.

I can't speak from personal experience as all the hostels that I've lived in I've moved in with complete strangers. And all of them became friends within a few days, which I must say was very fortunate for me and I never had a single fight with anyone of them. Fights usually occur between people who have very less tolerance and can't compromise. Like many guys can't sleep if the light is switched on, and if he's stubborn about it that the light must be switched off by a certain time everyday then obviously there'd be frictions. Then there are guys who even fight over who'd take a bath first or how much time they want to spend inside (it might sound trivial but these actually happen). Like in the last hostel I lived in, out of us four only one was a non-smoker but that guy had the habit of spending atleast half an hour in the bath every morning merrily singing. So, he compromised on the smell of smoking and the rest three of us found a way to work around his half an hour in the bath. But then there were some guys who were very particular about the fact that noone should smoke in their room, not even their roommate or some who will start a fight if his roommate spent more than ten minutes inside. Another thing is there were many times one of us forgot to do something, like switching off everything before going out, but we always found it better to just remind that person that he forgot this thing and left it at that. But there are some people who will even start a fight over that.

So, I'd say it ultimately depends on the nature of the person, and it's immaterial whether s/he is your best friend, friend or stranger. But since you already know your best friend well and both of you are well aware about each others habits, it's expected that the chances of things working out between you two are more than with a stranger.

Very well put on the reply, so you're saying that there wouldn't BE a fight to worry about such things?... Really cool.... Really, very fortunate though, to have good roommates!

and oye, smoking is injurious to health. ☺️

Originally posted by: Naughty_n_nice

Very well put on the reply, so you're saying that there wouldn't BE a fight to worry about such things?... Really cool.... Really, very fortunate though, to have good roommates!

and oye, smoking is injurious to health. ☺️

Yeah, that's right, at least I won't worry about such fights. I'll say the worst roommate you can have are the one's who have the habit of stealing, as in all other cases if you don't really like your roommate then you can avoid him/her and spend most of your time in some other room of the hostel where you have more friends but if your roommate is a snitch then it's always better to change the room or the roommate immediately.

Well yeah smoking might be injurious to health but smokers are the first to bond well and form a group among themselves you know.😳 Not trying to justify smoking, just saying...😆