Aapne to humse hamara guroor hi chheen liya - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mages

I wonder why men gets married when they can't be loyal to their wives..its better they don't marry at all...why destroy a innocent...a women who left her own house and family...come to stay in your house...take care of your family...take care of you...give you love emotionally and physically...give birth to your kids. her whole life revolves around you...your family and your kids but what you give her in the end roving eyes for another women..tell her i don't love you anymore since i have another women in my life...you gift her infidelity...break her heart and put her in depression

Originally posted by: adoremevirgo

I dont think we should stereotype men...there r numerous cases of women hving extramarital too and leaving their husbands to be with the new men in their lives...just because men do not come and stay at their wives' house that doesnt mean those men feel less cheated than mauli like women...

its not about gender...its about character of some ppl...just like not all men are disloyal similarly not all women are loyal...i even know of women leaving behind their small kids with their husbands to get married again...

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

nice post kavya..

wanted to add few more things to it..

this is what i have seen around me..

the basic difference between the acceptances of a man and a woman's cheating on their respective partners says all about the importance given to men in our society.

when a man cheats, woman's pride is hurt more than her ego and yet she is expected to accept back that cheater..

and when it is reverse , a man's ego gets more hurt than his all other emotions..

and i am yet to find out such person who can accept his cheater wife..

Originally posted by: yurimehta11

I knew two three cases and its not accepting cheater wife.

Whatever I witness women's cheating doesn't discusses openly. Its about "You failed to control your wife or satisfy her so she look elsewhere" thing for man which is way more humiliating for him. In all three cases these cheater wife burdened with household work, husband shifting back to with his parents, she can't move out alone and given a child in womb. So women bear very harsh punishment if she cheats.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

god!! this is horrible.. 😲

this is terrible..

i dont know what to say after this reply of yours. 😕 i guess i am okay with the stupid reel things than this harsh reality of life..

Originally posted by: yurimehta11

Anahi don't feel terrible nowadays women also running away for love.Everybody doesn't face such harsh punishment.We don't know what happened to such ladies after they found guilty and stay .

may be they were abused may be not.

May be they're loved ,may be not.

May be the upcoming child isn't love child.

May be his heart contradicted between loving her or hating her.

Is the humiliation by society in muffled words prick his heart?

Is he able to trust her and forgive her?

We don't know as this is not explored.Man is shown as cheater mostly so when he got cheated we don't know what is the outcome. I don't think people sympathies with cheated husband as they do with cheated wife.