Enough is Enough!!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: anmirza

@sandiab and @arshi_asya
I agree with whatever you guys said word for word!
Nandini and Kunal's character has been butchered by the writers to such an extent and they're garnering this much hate!
They can't be shown romancing like any other normal tv couple because they aren't a usual couple! If they hadn't shown the disgusting sex scene then things would still be very much under control! Even most of the normal couples intimacy is usually implied and there isn't always an elaborate consummation scene in all the shows then why was it necessary here??? What did they expect??? That people will melt seeing their disgusting lustful moments??? I dunno how much say an actor has while filming those scenes but if they do then how I wish the actors would've put their foot down here because it isn't a regular romantic couple we're witnessing onscreen but a couple is being shown committing adultery which isn't acceptable at least for most of the people!
N exactly all the clinical insights have failed in Nandini's defense because it's not coming from the showmakers but Nandini's apologists or neutrals!
And yes the most abhorrent factor about Nandini is her betrayal towards a friend like Mauli! Nothing justifies backstabbing someone who's as selfless as Mauli!

Originally posted by: pamk06

I think every human being deserves a chance. We all know that they have committed a sin but that does not mean that we have to look at their every action with prejudiced glasses. Yes, its done, they have broken Mauli. But sometimes there is redemption and I think its high time, we start keeping an open-mind to see her next actions. We need to judge both of them on their effort and their actions based on the circumstances from this moment on. We do not have to like her, we do not have to support her but we should atleast give her benefit of doubt for their next actions. This was an EMA show and however they showed it to us, we were going to reach this point.

We cannot keep saying that her every action is to gain sympathy or her shivering/tears is an act. I think they have shown it more that enough times for us to accept that it is part of her personality. Just because we cannot relate to her does not mean such people do that exist. Frankly, I am surprised that they had the guts to go face Mauli because in real life, most of the time people run away instead of standing to face the wrath. That would not have been easy for both of them but that was necessary for Mauli to start taking her first step to recovery. But instead of giving them a tiny-miny credit, all of us have already found her guilty, condemned her to suffer for all of her life and waiting to take pleasure in it.

If thats the attitude we keep, then in real life, when a person makes a mistake they will not even try to improvise on it, because well they have crossed the line and based on what I have been reading on this forum, good to bad is a one way street and there is no coming back.

I agree completely! This whole Nandini vs Mauli or Rajdeep thing has blown way out of proportion. Yes, we all know that Nandini is extremely wrong in having an affair with Mauli's husband. No one is saying that she is right. But some of us can actually understand her pov and where she's coming from...it doesn't mean we support or justify her actions. It's just that we see the reasoning behind it. Unfortunately, even understanding Nandini's state of mind is seen as sooo wrong here in the forum. There are so many people who are like Nandini- naive and bholi bhali who will fall for any trick or get smitten so easily. It doesn't mean that they are necessarily pure evil. Sometimes these people realize what they've done after it happens. Also, her past doesn't excuse her current actions but at least we know that her past explains her current actions. Just because some of us are saying that her past experience with abuse led her to become mentally weaker doesn't mean we're saying she's right for hurting Mauli. As you said, no one is perfect. Not even dida, radhika, or Maulii. There's just so much hate here...i don't get it lol.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I think every human being deserves a chance. We all know that they have committed a sin but that does not mean that we have to look at their every action with prejudiced glasses. Yes, its done, they have broken Mauli. But sometimes there is redemption and I think its high time, we start keeping an open-mind to see her next actions. We need to judge both of them on their effort and their actions based on the circumstances from this moment on. We do not have to like her, we do not have to support her but we should atleast give her benefit of doubt for their next actions. This was an EMA show and however they showed it to us, we were going to reach this point.

We cannot keep saying that her every action is to gain sympathy or her shivering/tears is an act. I think they have shown it more that enough times for us to accept that it is part of her personality. Just because we cannot relate to her does not mean such people do that exist. Frankly, I am surprised that they had the guts to go face Mauli because in real life, most of the time people run away instead of standing to face the wrath. That would not have been easy for both of them but that was necessary for Mauli to start taking her first step to recovery. But instead of giving them a tiny-miny credit, all of us have already found her guilty, condemned her to suffer for all of her life and waiting to take pleasure in it.

If thats the attitude we keep, then in real life, when a person makes a mistake they will not even try to improvise on it, because well they have crossed the line and based on what I have been reading on this forum, good to bad is a one way street and there is no coming back.

This isn't common mistake we're talking about here. It's committing adultery with your best friend's husband! Killing someone's trust is just as bad as murder but unfortunately betraying someone isn't a felony!

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