Aditya was and is NOT wrong!

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Sudha

@Sudharies

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

Bang on ... Totally loved your post...

Thanks for making this thread. You have summed up very well... This is what many of the members are trying to say, not at all bashing Pooja. But without even giving a chance to adi she gave up on him. If she had tried to make him understand but he hadn't then it's right to blame him. He was irresponsible , stupid, immature, never tried to know what pooja was feeling. but it wasnt his fault entirely. He wasnt selfish but ignorant just the way he is ignorant and takes advantage of Arjun... Its his nature, and if Pooja had a problem with it she could have talked to him.. He would have definitely changed himself for her..

Sakshi said that day that you assumed that you were a perfect husband, but you couldn't even become good husband to her, forget being a perfect... But someone should have asked her back, if he wasnt good why didn't Pooja let it out that she wasn't happy with him.. Nobody can read minds. only through communication people understand each other.. If that was totally absent can we blame Adi??

He wasnt perfect husband like he assumed, but he wasnt a bad husband either... he just didnt know or was made to realise where he was going wrong. and we cant blame him for that.. So yeah he wasnt wrong, imo as well!

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shailu

@rs-shailu29

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#22

Tm
Bang on
Without even expressing how could pooja assume Adi can never be good hubby
Her impulsive decision of aborting the child it was her decision only Adi did was he freaked out
Young couple take time to plan for kids
Same Adi thought he wants to enjoy his life
What's wrong in that
Adi is sarcastic and prankster his nature is like that knowing him since childhood pooja should know his flaws more than anybody
Neither he was selfish nor mcp

Just that he was not ready for kids
But if pooja was pregnant why didn't she confirm it and even if he freaked out at first she could have said " look Adi it's time we have kids and look u need to take responsibility henceforth time for u to grow up " why didn't she say that .
Instead of venting it out she chose to keep inside burn inside and opt for abortion and claiming that marriage was over already without even thinking from Adi side he was happy with her .
Sakshi and pooja mother and daughter are weird not once pooja mom guided her not to abort or talk with Adi " look Adi ur doing wrong better u behave like a hubby than a friend to pooja " Sakshi could have guided Adi right but both chose to be quite
Pooja had EMA and her mom knew it yet she hid it from Adi shows that they were never loyal to Adi

Pooja had a option yash so she blamed Adi if yash was not in the picture her life would have been normal happy with Adi
When ppl do wrong to justify themselves they blame close ones that's what pooja did .

Anyways pooja will kill the kid in Adi for sure
Don't know what happens but the Adi we knew might not be the same some change is inevitable.

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mans1234

@mans1234

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Both AdiJa were wrong .. Aditya was flawed and he did make lot of mistakes but the thing is he is being blamed for things he was not even aware off .. if given a chance he would worked on the same .. These accusations put by sakshi and the way she put was horrible .. .. Pooja kept everything to herself and to add on those assumptions became a problem . instead of expressing more in dairy i think it should have been more verbal ...

I mean he is being blamed for abortion and failed marriage by them was very insensitive and harsh ..

Till now they kept showing how AdiYa failed and made them guilt driven .. now i hope makers also show how PooSh also totally failed by assuming everything and not communicating anything ..

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