* disclaimer: not to offend anyone we have opinions *
@accusing ( she said he had his career placed for him )
Infact she is the one who went to his home telling him that she is not that naive anymore .
My bad i thought she went to return the soft toy . Moving i on meant ..
Also,
By accusing i mean , when two different people come together .
- They are two different people ,have different visions about everything, growing up they saw the world with two different thought process .
- They have different povs. So we can't expect their thinking to be similar
When manik said no
He might have his own thoughts towards marriage or when he's ready , his career plans might a longer time to reach than hers.
Her reaction was like a outburst
She's always been way more understanding than that. I don't expect her to a bahu or whatever, heck i don't even watch daily soaps . If he said he never wanted marriage in life it's a different thing. I don't see why you would take a break from your boyfriend if he says he doesn't want marriage now . The more the time you spend together more you get adjusted to each other.
Compromise is important in a relationship it's a constant process . Your partner isn't good at something you help him out , you aren't good at something your partner helps you out . You don't start hyperventilating and feeling hurt about it.
For example
Scenario one
If Sahil proposes and rhea says no .
Sahil sits down and understands and softy makes her feel like he'll be there for her .
Scenario two.
Sahil says he needs a break. Rhea starts feeling all these years we were together and it all boils down to marriage . Because she doesn't have similar opinions ,she will start feeling guilty , thinking she's wrong for him.
Something very simple is made way more complicated in serials , there's no sacrifice or losing self esteem required here.
Edited by fanista - 7 years ago
