c I really haven't met many ppl who have fallen in love at first sight..
bt yes true love takes time to build upon..
and sometimes there is no romance in it.. or shud I say.. there is no conventional kind of romance that we are made believe it to b..
for me romance is very subjective thing.
Here Naina's love definitely was infatuation, but I still believe she saw that better person in him the moment her eyes gazed into his.. sometime ppl can judge instantaneously from a gaze or a smile (which happened in my case ) or a small act ...
I wud say it generates interest a curiosity to know whether what we assumed is true or not.
for Naina, she assumed a lot of things like u said but later on found really good qualities in him tht she started falling for.. it was just that it was too late for Sameer to realize that her projection of him was what he always was underneath.. she was the one who brot forth that real Sameer from underneath him..
he had fallen for her simplicity and innocence long back.. and perhaps when they met for first time.. thy connected at some level.. tho defining it at that moment is always difficult..
regarding this eye connection thing I didn't believe in it either.. but recently I had met a person who I felt tht connection with which was strange and different tho I know that person but not good enuf.. but it definitely wasn't love.. coz my heart lies with my husband.. but I guess thr is certain attraction tht remains unexplained...
it's upto us whether we act upon this or give it tht much importance.. I rubbished tht idea or that strange thing tht I felt coz it didn't make sense.. to me.. for I know I m totally committed to my husband.. and my value system wud never allow me to commit such a mistake..
bt I often wonder why it happened in first place... and whether such eye to eye deep connections do exist?
In reality and in practical life, it has no meaning. for all I know, I cudnt stand that person a minute if I had known him better..š
so yes, until we know that person we cannot say that its love.
but may b instantaneous deep connection do exist but we shrug them off mostly bcoz there is no reality to it. š³
or may b its tht evolutionary shortcut thing tht nature has instilled in all of us for choosing our mating partners instantaneously, which obviously is unnecessary and irrelevant in today's stable social structure.
Edited by violette - 7 years ago