Its not Rapid Fire,Its Slow Burn-Their Love and Romance

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Posted: 7 years ago
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'Love, they said, burns you and builds you.
But with you, there's no ash.
Just light. ...

You can't love someone at first sight, even though art sometimes tells us we can. You can't love someone you don't know. You can't have deep, penetrating feelings for a total stranger. Those feelings aren't real feelings. They are fantasy feelings.

Naina had a fantasy .The fickle hormones did their work.The charm deluded her.

Strangers are easy to fall in love with. You don't know them, so you can project anything on to them, and they can do the same to you.

And the fantasy crashed really hard and it broke all the glass dreams that had been woven.

But love, real, sustainable love, is something that builds over time.

And they are still doing it.

He wants to like his girl a little bit more every time he sees her. He wants to love her the more he gets to know her. He wants to fall deeper in love with her ideas, her values, her flaws, the way she not only handles the good times but the bad times. Same is she.She has come a long way from fantasy to heart break to building a trust again and loving him with all imperfections.

He has seen her handling the troubling times and now its her turn to see.

They want to unfold into each other slowly. It's so much sweeter that way. It's more intense that way, but it's a different kind of intensity. It's an intensity that has room to grow and expand. A little spark of fire always turns into hot flames. It just takes time.

Their love is not rapid fire,its slow burn romance.

The slow burn romance gives them a chance to learn each other's strengths and weaknesses. Most importantly, it gives them a chance to see the each other through the good days and the bad so that when they finally reach Happily Ever After' there is no doubt that they will really have forever together.'

''I came to pen another poem for you, but even every unwritten poem is you.''

She is his poem..He her shayar...

P.S.:A quick post on today's episode.This is my take,do share your opinions as well.😳

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Posted: 7 years ago
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KeyfUuXPOcY

Song desribing their love..

Slow slow they get into each other and life long they will remain soul mates!

IT is true love which embeds soo deep within nothing can then make them away..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree... Love is something which develops slowly with time... Naina was infatuated with sam at first sight... I wont call it as love... It was actually during the bet phase she started developing this deep feelings for him... She started knowing him more and more... She understood his pain of not having anyone to love... When he shared about how he didn't hav anyone to watch movies with and how his mom never made sweater for him... She understood the depth of his pain like no one ever did... Mt. Abu trip made their feelings more intense... How she understood his pain reading his poem... How he enjoyed each and every moment of the trip with her... These things made them fall in love in trymue sense... With bet revelation came pain and heartbreaks... Then sam's true love was tried and tested again and again... He came out as a winner each and everytime... This made Naina's feelings resurface... If not for his efforts her love wud hav been burried somewhere... Now they reached a position where a life without each other is impossible for both of them... Their love is a slowly and steadily developed one... The faced sk many obstacles in the path... Even more obstacles are to come... Bt at the end their love will win... The will get their happily ever after eventually. ❤️
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Beautifully worded Minu 👏

Yes, slow and steady.. and cooked on a low flame brings out the flavour like nothing else.

If you haven't guessed I am cooking while I am replying to your post 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Minu yaar tum Dil Le Lo

Even I agree with the concept that Love usually isn't at first sight. First can be infatuation, attraction, etc, but love as you mentioned builds over-time. It lays a strong foundation in order for two people to flourish in it.

I believe love is like slow-cooked food. Pardon me for being a die-hard foodie. But yes love is like that slow-cooked food that takes time to cook, just like the flavors it takes time to absorb(understand) each other's nature, takes time to accept each other step by step. But when finally it's done then you get the best thing on your plate. The tenderness of this slow-cooked food can never match with any fast-food. Plus it's healthy(that love stays with you for lifetime).

The last couplet was 👏

Thank you for this
Edited by KashafZaroon30 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wonderful post,
You Have beautifully penned it down 👏
It's been quite a journey for both of them to reach where they are standing at this point.
They have slowly gotten to know the real person they are and that's just beautiful on its own.
Love how they voice their feelings out to each other without hesitating.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wonderful post Minu.
Absolutely agree with what you have said.


"Dheere dheere se meri zindagi mein aana
Dheere dheere se dil ko churana"


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Beautiful post!
I agree with what you mentioned.. Naina 1st falling for sameer was like her fantasy seeing Prince Charming . While sameer keeps falling for her with each passing day more and more as he gets to know her better about how wonderful person she is.
Amazingly described!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Such a bliss to read those words Minu❤️...U penned yest's epi in such beautiful words...I could fathom the depth of their soulful bond....
Yes...Dheere dheere pyaar ko badaana hai...Hadd se guzar jaana hai...

A rose looks pretty only after it blossoms...as a bud...its beauty is within itself...the more the petals start showing up...the different layers of it...the beauty is not JUST within...it enhances the beauty of nature too by becoming a part of it...

So is love..❤️.till its deep in heart...its beauty cant b seen...but when the layers r seen in form of expressions, emotions, mannerisms...it becomes surreal...it becomes a beauty...❤️a beautiful bond and binds others too in its enchanting magical journey...(which v all r going through now..)
Edited by -allizwell- - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Loved ur post today.. its amazing how their bond has grown stronger over time and how they r now comfrtable to share their thoughts with each other. Kudos to the cvs for bringing out this beauty in their relationship in such an amazing way

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