Originally posted by: peeyara
Long journey it is!
PS: this post went pretty long I guess😆 khair the whole purpose of typing this much was to say try to understand the characters and their basic characteristics before judging or expecting too much. Kabir is being typical man who have this MCP nature yet he took zara to the place where he wants to start his project, he is sharing each of his dream and all the problems asaociates wid project ONLY wid her and that speaks something. But he isnt ready to take her help cos of their diff of opinion which will spark some arguments...indirectly trying to have easy breezy life with her
Naseem dear..
As always a bang on post from you.:)
I can truly get and understand what you tried to convey.
Agree with you...
show and kabir characterisation is as real as it could get based on what they promised to show.. The development in his characteristics as not changed from what shown in initial epis.
as the story begin, we knew Kabir and zaara's opinions and soch differs..
that difference is what writers are starting to highlight..
and the actual journey of them is all about those..
how his school school thoughts is redefined and reframed by zaara is what ISA is all about is i think..
ya..he tore her work paper on that project...her work went waste..we too feel very sad for zaara, by saying kabir as not changed doesnt mean we are in favour of kabir or all his thoughts. but how is changeover happens is what we are yet to see... he is yet as raw and real as they show him in first epis..
There are men out there even now who doesnt consider his wife thoughts more on a common issue but loves her, cries on a blink even if she is little ill...ya those men are very hard to deal with ...and irritating most times but at same time we cant say they doesn't love their wife or disrespect her..they love and respect with their own old school norms..their thought process definitely need to be changed but it can be only little by little and it takes lot of time..
so far is for kabir...he may take more time to mould but zaara can succeed... bcoz he is soft, respectful understanding person who loves his family in his own way...and the only problem with him is the reserved backward thoughts and oldschool principles. which has to be moulded differently...
And even if zaara succeed in changing Kabir's viewing process..he is not going to make a 360 degree turn from what he is now to fulfil this relationship..surely they both will agree to come to intermediate terms.. .and thts how their relationship may work...
as far as i saw god make matches with only opposite qualities being more in percentage..lol
so thts how real life is ..thts how men are..even being softie, with no dominating thoughts or not, men do behave different in a jolly trip and at home while on work...
they may not have a same mind set on tour and at home..
even we are like tht..lol
still , even in this century, there is more a girl given in for a healthy relationship and most times its mutual too these days.
both giving in for certain aspects.
And by giving in, i am not telling they are sacrificing or injustice happening to them , mostly we give in happily to hv a good one... just like zaara doing and overlooking.. this giving in is done by both the parties these days..:)
And zaara is a strong women..she isnt the type of a girl who takes all as it is...when the tolerance bar reaches shew herself will take actions as required...she will surely change kabir's thought process but kabir needs time too..
lets zaara see things out of kabir, then she can correct things between them too...
both have a miscommunication and not seeing what is going wrong and thats were Rukshaar succeds..i wish both wakeup before water is overblown..
bcoz as far as i see both wanted to give their relationship a chance...zaara whole heartedly in love working on hers and kabir most importantly as farz...
Edited by LuvSSever - 7 years ago
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