Curious Mind Wants To Know

Hello guys!!! I am a silent reader & really like to read about others' opinion.

But there's a particular topic which I am not being able to understand. Is it really someone's goodness or utter foolishness to accept his/her partner's ex?

I love Avni's character. Frankly, I thought Neil was justified in his stand. Later I watched those episodes where Vidyut was threatening Avni & the immense pressure she was in back then. It only increased my admiration for her & now I think both of AvNeil are justified in their stands apart from Neil being delusional that he wants to move on.

I don't like that Mitali instead of understanding everything is ready to get married to Neil.

But the comparison that she is no Avni because she is not ready to become Mowgli's mother is it really justified?

Avni never had her perfect family. Naturally she feels that pain more than anyone else. So she chose Mishti over Neil. But I don't think any normal boy or girl would really welcome his partner's ex with open arms after their marriage just because of the possibility of her partner being a dad.

I mean we can criticize Mitali for clinging onto Neil but this particular comparison is not justified.

Loving a man for years is one thing. But suddenly getting to know about his son & being elated about the same is out of the world.

Even those who are saying Avni is better as she accepted Mishti God forbid if you get to know after your marriage that your partner has a child, would you really be elated or give the kid a big hug?

Avni accepted Mishty easily when she thought it was Neil's child becuase of Neela ma. Neela ma had brought Avni up,as her own ...so Avni felt if Neelama could do that she could also do that for mishty because Neil also had done so much for her..in one of the episodes when Juhi was around ...Avni explained all this in a conversation with Neil.

Mithali and Avni cant be compared. Avni has a big heart Mithali is totally selfish.

If one person accepts the past if her husband with open arms and the other person is always taunting her would be husband about his past then for me the first person is definitely better than second person. That may not make second person a bad person but comparatively first person is much better human being than second person.

I agree no one would like her to be partner running behind their ex but didn't she have the option to walk away . Want she the one who advised Neil not to get engaged in anger and hatred for Avni ? When she is matured enough to make him understand why can't she see that Neil is marrying her only for siting Avni . He clearly said Avni mujhe todna chahti . Ham dono sat milke use jeetne nahin denge . Is it wise of her to marry a person who is totally in wrecked emotional state and is treading on a path to destroy his ex wife . Also wasn't she so frightened about the idea of mothering Mowgli . She also knew that the child can never accept her when his mother is very much alive and with child coming to play she knows his connection with Avni has become deep rooted . When she knew and understand everything she should have walked away . She is visibly seeing Neil still living in Avni's memories and speaking straight faced lie to assure himself that he is moving on . She is dumb to spoil her life for Neil . She should open her eyes grow up and walk away .

hello. I am new here. Just wanted to say that Avni never wanted to seperate Mishti from Juhi. She was happy to believe that she, mishti,juhi and neil might look different to the world in respect of normal families but they can teach Mishti that they are happy and beautiful in their own ways. But in the last few episodes, it was seen that Mithali wanted to shut Avni totally out from Neil"s life and their conversations. Avni never shut Juhi out. Imagine the sadness that will engulf Mogli if he gets to know that nobody is interested to talk about his mumma or preserve her belongings or ideas and wishes about his future.