using funny as defensive method

this pyaar dosti hai might be true for many but if best of friends fall in love ,transition is must,u cant be just best friends with ur spouse it has to be more than that in all aspects,sharing without inhibition being their wing man/women is all aokay but once ur in relationship ,somethings has to to add up in relationship,coz in friendship there r boundaries and emotional n soul walls but in marriage its so more than that best friend wla pyaar

anyway we know where the guy is coming from;the baggage of his father cheting on his mom,changed many dynamics in him;so he became this funny caring yet not so caring free spirit all coz of that coz people specially guys hide their real self behind this happy go lucky/funny/free spirit personality coz they dont want the situation or people to get inside u or know ur state of mind,just like for some ppl sarcasm/being funny is their defensive methodology(chandler-friends) same is the case with adi so their relationship also has dynamics similarly.so adi with this personality was impulsive,funny even in worse situation,free spirited was all throughout his life,no transition even after marriage

some guys become serious and leave their all time funny side to funny only when needed ,mostly after a breakup or something big must have happened than

so aditya with pooja's death,betrayal n slowly understanding seriousness of situation n life(when zoya gets hospitalized) when he will really fall in love,his inner dynamics would surely change

like kkhh(just first half i m speaking) ,in bepannah adi-pooja r rahul anjali and intense n real wala pyaar would be with zoya(tina)

n regarding pooja,shes kind of in depth woman,love with poetry,sheroshayari type hard core romantic or atleast passionate love believer ,such in depth ppl like to share intense thoughts and can share n confide with ppl who get that depth,so she might have found solace in someone else may b just for a moment(cheating part is seriously not done)but ya someone to share with may be at first it wasnt romantically bt for exchange of deep emotions,n adi wasnt always available for those deep thoughts

n regarding zoya shes romantic one,yash was so busy in setting up business in mumbai n juggling to make luxurious life for zo that he got so engrssed in competition n providing life for zo,they really created a gap..remember the scene where zo n yash have a phone convo yash talks abput his business meeting n advances,instead of listening n reacting she went off to sleep,also rain sequence saying no n also balcony scene in first epi,so may b all spouses werent aware they r creating a gap without realising n thus creating a gap with no heart to heart communicvation

in further episodes they might reveal how yash and pooja repectively telling their spose or try to say what their heart feels but may b adi n zoya might have gave a deaf ear or felt its just another thought or just vague

waiting to see two people who deserved real love-passionate love n loyal love aditya-zoya story about unconditional n loyal love coz both were deserving to have loyal n sincere love as they themselves r

Agree in toto..