Love and Friendship

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Posted: 7 years ago
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After watching todays episode i feel there is a very thin line between friendship and love. Sometimes u know u have to take a step ahead to cross it and sometimes u feel it is not required.
That was where pooja and adi's relation lacked.
Pooja wanted adi to cross that line and come to her and adi never crossed thinking pooja is anyway with him so why to take the effort.
Maybe adi never loved her like his wife. He always loved her like a friend so automatically that passion never came from adis side. He cudnt understand the difference between love and frienship which pooha cud clearly see but never expressed ...which was her biggest fault.

I think later on when adi will fall for zoya...he himself wud see the differnce and wud understand what he lacked with pooja and how he himself never loved her.
He will have that passion for zoya which he never had for pooja and at that moment maybe he might b able to forgive pooja.

I m in no way justifying pooja cheating on adi here but just trying to unloop the khicdi of feeljngs when it comes to love and friendship.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Friendship is base of every relationship , if Pooja was having problem then as a frnd she would had talked ADI , if after talking with him still ADI don't improve, then she can seek 4 a divorce but she was a coward who don't had guts 2 tell ADI about her feelings. In my pov 95 % Pooja is wrong
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zombie12345

After watching todays episode i feel there is a very thin line between friendship and love. Sometimes u know u have to take a step ahead to cross it and sometimes u feel it is not required.

That was where pooja and adi's relation lacked.
Pooja wanted adi to cross that line and come to her and adi never crossed thinking pooja is anyway with him so why to take the effort.
Maybe adi never loved her like his wife. He always loved her like a friend so automatically that passion never came from adis side. He cudnt understand the difference between love and frienship which pooha cud clearly see but never expressed ...which was her biggest fault.

I think later on when adi will fall for zoya...he himself wud see the differnce and wud understand what he lacked with pooja and how he himself never loved her.
He will have that passion for zoya which he never had for pooja and at that moment maybe he might b able to forgive pooja.

I m in no way justifying pooja cheating on adi here but just trying to unloop the khicdi of feeljngs when it comes to love and friendship.


Lovely take, Zombie (feels weird calling you Zombie 😊)

I was struggling to express the very same thing that you so lucidly mentioned.. I too think that when Adi will cross the bridge with Zoya, he will realise the difference in pyar dosti hai and ishq wala love..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Friendship is base of every relationship , if Pooja was having problem then as a frnd she would had talked ADI , if after talking with him still ADI don't improve, then she can seek 4 a divorce but she was a coward who don't had guts 2 tell ADI about her feelings. In my pov 95 % Pooja is wrong


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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree! I really loved the last sentence you wrote...when Adi realizes that he was not able to give the kind of love to Pooja the way a WIFE would want, then he will be completely able to forgive her!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Friendship is base of every relationship , if Pooja was having problem then as a frnd she would had talked ADI , if after talking with him still ADI don't improve, then she can seek 4 a divorce but she was a coward who don't had guts 2 tell ADI about her feelings. In my pov 95 % Pooja is wrong


Ideally yes. Pooja was wrong, no two ways about it.

But it is hard!! amidst so many emotions, it takes really guts to take rational decisions. To confront people is not easy. Sometimes you just let things flow naturally and before you know, it gets out of hand. People do these mistakes all the time. Humans are imperfect. That is what the story is about.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Friendship is base of every relationship , if Pooja was having problem then as a frnd she would had talked ADI , if after talking with him still ADI don't improve, then she can seek 4 a divorce but she was a coward who don't had guts 2 tell ADI about her feelings. In my pov 95 % Pooja is wrong


I m not trying to discuss the faults here...pooja was wrong no doubts about it. Instead of speaking upto adi her problems she was suffocating herself and then found that happiness elsewhere...which shows they might be best of friends but pooja didnt even hv a comfort zone to speak her heart out to adi which is must when u r married to eavh other.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Santiago24

Lovely take, Zombie (feels weird calling you Zombie 😊)

I was struggling to express the very same thing that you so lucidly mentioned.. I too think that when Adi will cross the bridge with Zoya, he will realise the difference in pyar dosti hai and ishq wala love..


Thnku so much ...
He actually doesent know what love is...or what passion is.
As pooja wrote in her diary that since they saw the movie kuch kuch hota hai together...they assumed pyar dosti hai ...and thought they love each other...they did love each other but as friends...adi was used to pooja being around but that passion for her was missing in her marital life.
Maybe that was the same from poojas side as well...thats why they never connected with each other as lovers
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanju_

I agree! I really loved the last sentence you wrote...when Adi realizes that he was not able to give the kind of love to Pooja the way a WIFE would want, then he will be completely able to forgive her!


Thnku dear...
I think he would get to read her diary when he had fallen for zoya...and then he could definitely relate with whtever pooja has writtrn
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SatoshiNakamoto


Ideally yes. Pooja was wrong, no two ways about it.

But it is hard!! amidst so many emotions, it takes really guts to take rational decisions. To confront people is not easy. Sometimes you just let things flow naturally and before you know, it gets out of hand. People do these mistakes all the time. Humans are imperfect. That is what the story is about.

Very well penned.
Sometimes its difficult to put certain things inwords. How best u try but u get trapped in ur own emotions

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