Sometimes perfectly nice people do rash things on impulse!

In defense of Adi and Zoya ..

Just thought I'd make a post in defense of both Adi and Zo's behavior today.

In defense of Zo

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I actually LOVED what Zo told Adi - she was actually being very understanding and her character profile of him was rather accurate ..of how he still has love in his heart ..and how he hides his pain under this mask of anger and hatred and how he refuses to share his pain ..I think she has sized him up really well!! Like I said earlier, Zo can read Adi like a book -

Yes, she does know that Adi is filled with hate because he thinks his wife cheated on him with Yash. While Adi is 100% sure about the EMA ..Zo still strongly believes in Yash and refuses to believe that he cheated so she still talks about him fondly and lives with his memories.

I see NOTHING wrong in her speaking her mind - as much as Adi is allowed to show disgust for Pooja - Zo is allowed to show whatever feelings she has for Yash in front of whoever the heck she wants so I see no reason for her to tread carefully around Adi - He is a nobody to her as of now!

In defense of Adi

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I think Adi is justified in his anger - He is 100% sure that his wife and Yash had a relationship of love. And his blood boils to hear Yash's name - all the more when he hears his name in an appreciated and revered manner. It makes him perhaps get angrier to realize that if Zo thinks so highly of Yash then Pooja is all the more to be blamed for carrying on a relation with him and that makes Adi feel less capable. Yes, there are still a vast majority of guys who feel insecure when it comes to relationships and all the more when they think their wife found someone who she thinks is better!! ..

Anyway this doesn't justify Adi's violent behavior - but I've known perfectly nice people to act rashly on impulse only to severely regret it later!! ..I don't think Adi's intention was to push Zo off ..he was sure of gripping her back ..but when she was sizing him up ..saying he was still soft hearted he wanted to show what a brute he had become ..and so acted like one ..I think it was more of an impulse than an meditated action. I would cut him some slack ..as the poor guy really has no outlet for his anger. I'm hoping though that after realizing that he was indirectly the cause of Zo's health condtion - he will realize his mistake and make it up and apologize and decide for himself that he shouldn't show his anger on her! ..

Many times people behave on impulse and after introspection they realize what terrible things they've said/done and resolve to make a change! I'd surely like to see that. I hope CVs show that Adi realizes his mistake and apologizes to Zo and in the future he has a control of himself!

Love your take and unbiased assessment of both the sides..👏

I must admit you made me see Aditya s side a bit differently coz until now I was in a full on berate adi mode 😊 but yes, you are right.. nice people do act irrationally at times..

Yes, I've seen this happen a lot many times - I volunteer at a south Asian women's help center and a lot many times we see men act so terribly - at times the marriage is not worth saving but there are cases where it's just a one off thing fueled by circumstances and impulsive behavior ..

of course the show is a work of total fiction! but i'm willing to cut adi some slack :)

Yes, i'm sure they will ~ I think Adi will tone down his behavior after this!

Originally posted by: Cherryfairy

Excellent analysis ⭐️ both Adi and Zoya have flaws and hoping as show goes on they learn from their mistakes

Well Zoya is in still in her own small dream world. She believes the love she shared with Yash as solid and she thinks yash loved her to the moon and back. I don't think that trust is broken. She gives herself different excuses for the 5crore or the customer pic i'm sure...and I guess even if she does realize that yash has cheated and there is evidence - it's going to be really hard to get her to accept that truth ..I don't think Zo is capable of really hating Yash ..she perhaps might even blame herself for his straying off!! ..she still reveres him ..I don't think she harbors even an iota of hate for Yash ..

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

I agree with ur analysis but i dont agree with zoya having strong believe on yash if u had noticed with every proof be it 5 crores or 100 customer pic or anything else zoya's trust on yash get shaken & adi 's belief on betrayal comes out more stronger

Aditya has already decided for himself that Pooja cheated on him...whether that turns out true or false is yet to be seen and if indeed she cheated, did she had an affair with Yash or someone else.

Even so Zoya is still living in her dreamworld and she still has that full trust in Yash that he could not cheat her. I feel there should be a reason behind her strong belief just like there is one for Aditya's belief.

Whether her belief turns out true or false is also yet to be seen...

Both have such strong beliefs in the actions of their respective spouses that sometimes one cannot help but to wonder what IF both are right ???? what IF one is right and one is wrong ???

Who will be right and who will be wrong ????

Zoya will never come out of her dreamworld unless someone presents rock solid proof to her and even after that I am sure Zoya might still care, becoz that is how she is, that is how she functions