A post abt Aditya- coz someone has to make it

Thank god someone made this post.

The other day I replied same thing on a post where thankfully, the makers was defending Zoya. Thank god someone did.

Whatever Zoya is, does not mean that Aditya is right in terrorizing her.

Let me say once and for all

WOMEN ARE NOT REHABILITATION CENTERS FOR BADLY BEHAVED MEN.

Just because Aditya is suffering gives him no excuse to take it out on Zoya, absolutely none. She's in just as much pain as he.

Ii'm surprised to see that women support Aditya's reactions.

(Actually I'm not that surprised, on second thought, because its the same everywhere. I remember how people madly defended Shivaay and Omkara. But did not give the same benefit of doubt to Anika and Gauri.

When Gauri dumped Omkara and left him, many people criticized Gauri, instead of seeing that Om was wrong in his actions and Gauri was right in leaving him)

We as women, need to stop defending men who are abusing women. The men might be hurt or depressed but 'DARD' is no excuse for misbehaving and intimidating women!

Just stop it!

Before I get into it, I actually like the serial that said at the moment the characterizations of the leads is poor. I'll start with Zoya to get it out of the way -

Zoya Siddiqui is a little too sheltered and naive to be believable. Especially when you compare her to Noor who presumably had a similar upbringing. For someone who clearly is progressive and has the strength to go against her family and religion to marry Yash, she has a shocking lack of understanding and sense of the real world. I don't have a problem with her never having held a job (many women have that background) but for her to be completely stupid in all day to day affairs is just a little weird. That said, her blind trust in her husband and his family is not something I find fault with. Holding hands, investment and even a picture of them winning an award together is not enough proof of Yash and Pooja having had an affair. Also, it is possible that deep down she does believe that they did have an affair but her grief has suppressed part of that cognitive ability to process and actually feel anger about it...yet. We will just have to wait and see.

Aditya...oh boy. He's just running on anger and alcohol at this point. His belief that Pooja betrayed him has made him lose all sense of propriety. I am going to assume Aditya's assumptions as truth because that is what he deeply believes. I completely understand his grief and anger. I also understand that he was annoyed to have been painted an unfeeling and callous husband when Zoya was grasping at straws that day in the hospital regarding Yash and Pooja. However, that said he needn't have reacted to an obviously distraught woman who was looking for a semblance of hope and understanding. Also, probably best not to eavesdrop on conversations even those held in public. His reaction to Zoya has been unjust no matter how stupid and blind he thinks she is. It is her life and she is allowed to be blind in love. It's not upon him to make her see reason, make her hate her husband or any such. It's just not his business. As you rightly pointed out who he's really angry at is Pooja and she isn't here to face it. But maybe, instead of venting at strangers and people who have not harmed him he would do well to ask her mother why her daughter would behave in such a way. I am not in any way saying he should blame her. But definitely ask, question...question if she knew or even suspected! Or how about spending time figuring out via Pooja's friends etc if she had an affair and what circumstances may have lead to it. Affairs are rarely secrets from everybody. Someone usually knows.

At the moment Aditya and Zoya both come across as people who are good but narcissistic and cannot see past their own assumptions of life and people.