Is this TVC regressive and problematic?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Came across an ad recently ... and there are some who are appreciating the ad while some tearing it apart for being regressive, domestic abuse etc. I feel that the ad film is reflecting a certain reality which the urban india, perhaps doesnt know exist or does not want to acknowledge..
Check this out and tell me what your thoughts are.

Does it belittle the woman/mother in the ad?

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBAqly7WGWs[/YOUTUBE]

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Posted: 7 years ago
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You can't be disappointed that fast :)) DM's in a slump since quite a few years now.

Let's see -

1. Everybody was sitting at the table except that one woman and she wasn't a hired help. So, yes, that's repression.

2. A lot of those sitting at the table were running their mouths talking extremely rudely at that woman and she was severely self-abasing by not speaking back. This, to me, almost served counterproductive to the intent of the commercial; can't say if they succeeded in portraying a strong mother but they certainly depicted a very deferential, almost slavish, woman.

3. The brat was drawing attention to himself by throwing tantrums not eating while at the same time continuing to sit at the table. I can't surmise why.

4. The story was weak. They didn't quite say how the news about the brat taking money out of her purse got out and how only the Rajinikant-lookalike-head-of-the-household-type-character was in the know that it was indeed stolen when others seem to hint that it was taken with his mother's permission. [edit: it's possible, the others were espousing that taking money in such a manner wasn't a big deal whereas the aforementioned character correctly characterized the act as thievery; if that's the case, then I will take this point back]

5. The brat is the least of that woman's problems. When alone, she could slap the snot out of him the next time he misbehaves. The others around that table are her true antagonists. Not sure if the guy who said "it's not your father's money" was her husband but if it was, she needs to serve him divorce papers, not food!

Edited by K.Universe. - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thanks for posting the TVC. Haven't had the opportunity to watch it on TV, so got to watch it here. I'll agree with those who say that it is regressive. And it's not just one or two things, there are several things wrong with this TVC. It really lost the purpose because it didn't even show the negative things to be, 'negative'.

This ad is so much like those Saas Bahu serials - where the bahu is upright but docile while all the others in the household are crooked and gang up on her but she is so sanskari, she can't speak up against them.
Even the husband misbehaves with her in front of everyone but she doesn't fight back. I agree with Mr.K, she needs to serve him divorce papers and get rid of him.

The household is so sanskari that practices like, bahu serving food to everyone but not sitting at the table with them, is shown in a positive light. The entire focus is on the boy, no one asked her to sit down along with them to have her meal.

The two girls who seemed pleased that their grandfather has supported their mother, from the beginning were indifferent to the harassment their mother was undergoing.

The TVC makers might have wanted to show her as a tough mother, but in the process they ended up showing a weak woman, who can't speak for herself, not financially independent and has to depend on someone to defend her, and even that someone is a man in the TVC. Then how exactly is this ad helpful for women, it's not. It normalises domestic abuse, woman not being independent and fighting for herself, regressive practices like bahu not eating with the rest of the family members, pampering the male child to the point where they ignore his wrongdoings, everything that progressive people want to change to end gender inequality.
Edited by souro - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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nothing wrong with this ad. Anything that adheres to tradtions and values might look regressive but is really not so. Generational responses are captured appropriately so no the mother is not belittled nor are any women!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think we're looking too deep into a commercial? O_O

What times have we come to, to examine everything and slap several labels across everything and anything.


Life surely has become hard, in these ways.


I neither find the video "progressive" nor "regressive" , infact, the message it wanted to send across itself falls short IMO.


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