Apology and the sense of wrong doing - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Manisha
Thanks for replying.
Normally I don't watch Hindi shows,this show I am watching after a long time my last show was SC which I loved for the male lead and story was based on novel.
I just hope they both rectify their mistakes and move on in life.
I really love both of them and just want to see start of their new relationship that is LOVE.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bhout bade bade comments aaye hai 😆 mera thoda chota..
Okay first of all awesome post 👏
The point which you have highlighted all are correct.
Completely agree that Naina needs time to heal her broken heart. By the time how much humiliation and insult Sameer had to face. She needs to see once his deeds, keeping her anger aside.


The why everyone is behaving with Sameer is disturbing. For no reason he always got blame and accused.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Doc,

Nice Post ..

with reference to Nainas and Sameers sufferings as of now ..i would say both are equally responsible for what they are suffering , and yes sameer has to get an other change to prove him self but , for naina to forgive will take time an i won't blame her as she has been hurt a lot and sameer has played with her feelings ..

Naina is still immature : some where during the Mt abu trip sameer had once said ( i think it was during the cold weather when munna and pandit drank and locked the door sameer was out ) he had told Naina that she draws wrong conclusion about him with out thinking much ( i think it was some thing like that ), hence the same happening now , she is not thinking out of the box might be its due to her age.
some where i feel Naina is a bit impulsive ( infact both are impulsive ), and drawing her own conclusion.thats what she did , what she sees through her eyes she thinks its all correct, be it the key incident, the bet incident etc...
sameer has done a foolish thing by agreeing a bet and not understanding the consequences. hence he was also very impulsive but now he's learnt

Naina is not ready to listen nor under stand the consequences and why it happened and how. i have always noticed she's quiet in front of every one except Sameer and Preethi ( as these two never says anything back to her)
(Hence both are at fault and it will take time to rectify which i am ok, but must say Sameer has developed a lot of patience if it was old Sameer the librarian would have got a piece of his mind )
Hence naina not forgiving sameer for the time being is fine but no need of torutre yaar.

but what for me i cannot digest is that the horrendous torture that Rakesh and Arjun is showing upon Sameer, ok if sameer is responsible there is a way to punish him yaar( i can't accept this physical abuse that to for no reason of his 😭)

With reference i don't k ow what to say about Arjun ..I thought he was a sensible person but he is worse than his dad.. i think the aggarwal clan has to brains to think and rule out the reasons why things happened like this .. i still can't understand how is sameer responsible for the Fracture of Arjuns leg..ok incase even if sameer is responsible why was he acting so over dramatic as if he can never take part in cricket. he might loose just one year .. if cricket is his passion then any time and when you are fit you can pay, it looks like he just wants money and thats why he is playing. ( i still cannot under stand His POV ..)
BETTER IS NOT TO TALK ABOUT RAKESH ( a fit for nothing man his only achievement i think is life is that of a two children, but he doesn't take care of them) ( he is a total MCP )

in the 90s people youse dot think that rich people are spoilt brats and they don't have sanskar and its only middle class people who has sanskar, ( i personally used to here these type of convos form elderly people), it was like they have money they can do what they want, and we middle class have our limitation
thats why Arjun, Naina , rakes etc keeps on saying about their very good sanskar 😒

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey dear- I agree to your post. I would say all your points are very logically explained and I'm sure Naina would see them in this light one day...infact she has already started sensing these things...Don't get me wrong by this post dear- I adore you! 😊
But again, if one is such an emotional person & loved someone to the extent which Naina did and that one person for which you broke all your inhibitions, lied, just for him- and then he broke her heart. She got to know he fooled her, she played with her heart- just for a stupid bet- a revenge? She had become really involved with him- she was dreaming of marrying him- he gave her hopes of being her manchaha var- and suddenly one day she was shattered. Her innocence was shattered. The wounds he left are so deep that they can never be healed. But just because our hero had a change of heart mid way does not justify his actions. What if he was not in love with her? Would we still be siding with Sameer and chiding Naina for her rudeness? She is so hurt right now, that she can't put two and two together. And the prerogative is on Sameer to come out in the open- make her understand what she means to him. Till now, he was only asking for forgiveness. How can a girl forgive someone for such a thing ever, and even if she does forgive, how can she bear to be just a friend again. Not possible I feel.
Infact Naina never expected Sameer to feel bad or apologize to her. The fact that he is doing all this is making her confused- first he breaks her heart and then he says he wants to stay in her heart. Slowly slowly, she is understanding that Sameer might be in love with her. Infact, she wants him to be, desperately, but is being rude and giving him a piece of her mind so that he would know how much she has suffered. She wants to be 101% sure before she decides to trust him again. Her love would come to the fore soon- do not worry. She is feeling the injustice being meted out to him. She now knows from Munna n Pandit that Sameer is in love with her, but she will now test him- how true is his love...and Sameer is already ready for the exam. And for the paper stealing incident, the tables would turn soon and then Naina would realize how Sameer had felt when he had betrayed her- he had not wanted to break her heart but had ended up doing so. She would know why he took the beatings n the blame to save her honour, why was he helping her prepare for her debate, why was he trying to stay away from her on the last day of Mt. Abu, why hadn't he worn the sweater then- because he is not as thick skinned as she thought him to be. She would know how he had fought with the bet boys, because they are made fun of her honour- she would then know Sameer loves her deeply. But till then, let's take it step by step. I'm sure many misunderatanding to come- one of them is Shefali for sure (Sameer thinks she is Arjun's gf and Naina's friend...Shefali doesn't know about the bet as yet and thinks Sameer wants to help Arjun n is still with Naina)...
All will fall in place dear once all the secrets and misunderstandings come out and are discussed upon- then Naina would understand each of your points and think of herself as as a fool to not have understood Sameer for what he really was.
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Surbhi

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