Adhiraj-Anami: The Mature, The Baakati, and the Fun

Now the baakati. Anami likes to talk a lot, especially about Pagli Pandityan and her teachings. For anyone, it's baakati, but for Anami it's a way to stay connected to Pagli Pandityan and to take her teachings and apply them to any situation. By thinking it aloud, she is able to see and understand what Pagli Pandityan was trying to teach her and, in the process, teaches others. But it's also a safe topic. While both sat there, Adhiraj didn't want to start the conversation and Anami wanted to know what's going on. The safest way was to start with a topic both understand and go from there. And that's exactly how the conversation went. They spoke about Vatsalya and the twin soul connection. It is true in a way, and not in the Bollywood way.

I won't go into the biology, but when twins or triplets form, it's a split of the same one life form that had begun. One life form means one soul. If it splits, it's not suddenly two souls. At least that's what I believe and how I see it. In Harry Potter, there were the Horcruxes. In it, Voldemort literally ripped his soul apart to make 7 Voldemorts. He saved his soul in various inanimate objects, but there was also one part in Harry. That's the part that connected with Voldemort and let Harry feel what Voldemort was feeling and hear what Voldemort was thinking. In a way it's the same with twins. Being two parts of the same soul, they will feel incomplete without each other, they will sometimes even be able to feel what the other is feeling, and sometimes will complete the other's sentence. They will be bestest of friends and will complement each other and yet you could never see them without each other, just like Fred and George.

And now finally to the mature. For a 17 year old teen, Anami is mature (not beyond her age but in the way she thinks and understands people). She understood what Adhiraj was feeling, maybe because she had gone through the same, and presented Adhiraj with a solution that seems obvious, but we often forget. You need to trust those that you love and care about, those that you share a relationship with. Sometimes you need to leave your questions and apprehensions outside the door (or your CBI shoes) and approach the relationship with an open mind. But it's not about trusting blindly. It's about trusting until you have proof or until you are sure that your trust is in the wrong person. Adhiraj is confused. He's not sure if he can trust Dheeru or not. But that's because sometimes he thinks as a son and sometimes as a CBI officer. He needs to put his CBI shoes and mind outside the door, figuratively, and think only as a son. Because only then will he be able to make a proper decision and understand his father properly. And that's what Anami did. She trusted Adhiraj and didn't open his letter. Until she has a reason to suspect Adhiraj, she won't let suspicion creep into their relationship. At the same time, I don't think she'll ever trust those 4 hooligans from college, which is why she made them dance in the canteen in front of everyone (in the precap).

1)Adhiraj says I will either meet you, or go somewhere to drink...he was somewhat blackmailing her in a cute way...there was an authority or closeness in that sentence..we does it with only someone we think cares for us..N Anami falls for that black mail n goes to meet him😆..they gave me a gf-bf/hubby-wife vibe here n I didn't mind it at all.

2)When poonam snatches the letter n try to read it then Anami asks dnt u know it's bad habit to read others letters .thus poonam says that I know but it's my didi's letter n I can read it...poonam was claiming her right on Anami...it depicts the status of their relationship now...

The other thing I have noticed from the recent episodes is Anami always boasts(In a good way) about her Pagli panditayeins words/upbringing..her dad was the pandit..N according to society he is supposed to be the bundle of knowledge n wisdom..while Pagli panditayein is just a mother...but Anami rarely say panditji tought me this or that..it's always Pagli panditayin..her mom..N it shows the reality..it is always the mothers(even if she is uneducated) who instills the morals life lessons in a child more than a dad..she will not sit there n give us lectures..she usually does it indirectly...I am glad the makers are keeping the show close to to reality.

Thank you for this. I had always been a bit weak in biology classes, but from what I understood you can also have a boy and a girl identical twins as well. They are born from separate zygotes, but because they share the same womb, the same food source, the same nutrition, and the same umbilical cord (well technically two but they lead to the same place in mom). Maybe I misunderstood.

No yar.. identical word is reserved only when the twin/triplet develops from the same zygote... identical word itself means same(it's same not similar)..how can a boy and girl be same? one is 46xx n other 46xy..as I said earlier if u do a DNA fingerprinting of identical twins it will be same...but if u do it for a nonidentical twins the matching will be exactly of the same percentage a nonidentical siblings shares...N we all know DNA defines us.

Anami for sure is very mature for her age. Partly due to her upbringing and partly due to the fact that she had been abandoned at young age. A fighter that she is; her maturity was seen even in Banaras where she finds all those dhongi bawas,

Her iterating teachings of her mother just tells us that she is a keen listener and with the way life has thrown struggles to her she understands her meaning now. In fact I am happy the way they have shown this. At times parents thinks that kids don't listen but during the time of stress and when they are away the same teachings take them long way.

The fun - Along with Poonam I think she will have fun at college too where she will be able to act her age without any tension.